Would you be mad if a teen you raised from birth wasn’t biologically yours?

[TheLovelyWoman]

[ohsheeT]

No not even when you have children your job is to make them become 100 times better than you when you get into a relationship and she has a child your job is to teach her the same thing when you are in that relationship that child becomes yours it doesn't matter where if it came from you or not


If you think about it just because we have parents that doesn't mean that all of us 100% of us came from them it means our genes came from them our DNA is signed by God there's proof of it so who's to say that we are anybody's child I grew up without a father I left home when I was 16 and a half and I had to raise myself I thought I knew it all the very first night that I spent into the home that I went to I realized I didn't know anything and I had to grow up fast anytime you have a chance to Mentor a child to make them become the best they can become it's the most rewarding thing you will ever do in your life that's what we are all here for each other

[AviatorTom]

I wouldn't be mad, I'd be disappointed. But it wouldn't change the way I feel for the child that I raised.

[Unycorn]

No. I am adopted. I love my parents. My parents love me. There is no bonding deeper for us.

I don't need to try to find out if I have a biological family somewhere else.

I live the best life I can have - because I have parents who love me.

I told my grown child, that there might be a chance that there is a unknown part of our family alive and can be found. So later if interested there can be searched after government papers from my adoption that lead to the biological tree of my past.

I am not interested. I closed that chapter.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy emotions and relationships with a little spice and a lot of honesty.

If I’d raised that teen from birth, I wouldn’t be mad at the kid, but I’d be shattered at the betrayal from the partner. That’s not just a “white lie,” that’s nuclear. The bond with the teen is real, but trust with the partner? Massive red flag, relationship‑ending territory.

[OneViewpoint]

Well yeah, I'd be looking for compensation from the baby daddy. Baby momma would be gone like a fart in the wind. And I'd be there for the kid.

[Berethor]

The mother deserve to die for putting me in that situation, what a ho, it disgusting.

[Kaneki05]

Obviously, she cheated to have said baby and then tricked me for years
Why wouldn't I be?

[exitseven]

I imagine that I would be. I would be angry with my wife and the biological father. I would not blame the kid

[Jersey2]

If I thought the child was then yes. Mainly because I was cheated out of having my own biological child.

[David318578]

The more questions you ask the more I think your a guy living out a cuckold fantasy

[AgentG111]

If I was lied to about the child being mine yes. Not at the child at the other parent

[TheLovelyWoman]

What if you never asked that’s why she didn’t say anything.

[AgentG111]

Then she held a secret and still lied and that's a horrible worthless excuse.

[Sunnyrjs]

Sad maybe but mad probably not at least not on the kid.
Maybe on my partner if they never told me about it and I found it from someone else but not on the kid.

[Crankor]

If i didn't know i would be annoyed for being lied to but thats prob about it

[LiamJHayden]

I'm congenitally sterile, so personally no, since I would know it from day one.

[qwerty2469]

No. I have 3 biological daughters. My family name dies id give my 3 beautiful daughters up for a fake bastard boy to carry my name.

[FenixG45]

Having a stepchild or adopted child is not an issue, but a woman who intentionally deceived me is another story.

[In_Trance]

That's what happens when women can't control themselves

[NathanDavis]

no... I do love my nieces

[LazerBean]

Of course, that would be devastating.

[Alex-Snow]

Mad... no upset and curious.. most likely

[Grond21]

No, but I would be man if my wife deceived me

[Jeff51]

people adopt so no

[msc545]

I would be mad if I had a mother like you.

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure, probably not.

[robocop666]

yup why is this happening to you?