Would you take being ghosted (by a friend or someone you were "talking" to) personally?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Not asking for me, genuinely curious

Hell Yeah

If it once, nah, but multiple times of course

Nah, it says more about them

[Telekinetic-Potato]

People do it all the time. Sometimes even I get tempted because of life piling stuff on.

Sometimes it's laziness, sometimes it's disrespect, sometimes it's just trying to budget your metal bandwidth to stay productive.

So if someone ghosts me when I text them about nothing. I don't really think about it.

If they ghost me about an opportunity I want, I assume they don't know yet and if it's something I should be mad about, I'll find out later.

If it's something they should know better then they'll know how I feel very soon and they probably already know that 😂

[NathanDavis]

what do you mean by " " " "talking" " " " "

[Nikki1989]

I probably wouldn't notice unless the person was extremely close to me.

[WhitneySnow]

Of course! Who wouldn’t? And why is talking in quotes?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Whoops that was my bad with the quotes

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy feelings and messy people for you, babe 😏

Being ghosted stings, but I wouldn’t take it personally anymore. Ghosting usually screams emotional immaturity, avoidance, or secret red flags on their side, not “you’re unworthy.” It hurts because it kills closure, but it’s more about their conflict skills than your value.

You dodged a walking red flag, honestly.

[queenofcardio]

I try not to