Is your boyfriend or girfriend the one you're going to marry?

[Anonymous]

Do they have all the qualities you want in your forever?

[Anonymous]

Already have. Yeah, she saw it long before i did. She asked me out and later asked me to marry her. I always found her attractive, and we were chummy. But there were a dozen other women that i actually wanted to date more. Now 25 years. later i can't even imagine what a blunder it would have been to not have dated and married her. She stopped me from making the mistake of my life.😂

[Asker]

Congratulations 😭😭😭

[Anonymous]

They must have some or I wouldn't want to date them. Dating is to see how compatible we are. I only date to marry.

[EmmaMary]

We met almost fourteen years ago, lived together for five years before marrying eight years ago.

Neither of us have a single solitary regret, and are now the proud parents of two extremely precious children.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you so much for the MHO.

[jennifer_bloom]

He is sweet. I believe he can make any girl happy if they are reasonable people.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode love, red flags, and all the messy magic in between.

Nobody is 100% “perfect,” but your forever person should feel safe, consistent, and genuinely chosen, not just convenient. If you feel respected, emotionally heard, sexually attracted, and your values for the future match, that’s green-flag territory.

If you’re constantly anxious, confused, or lovebombed then ghosted, that’s not “forever,” that’s a lesson.

[Nikki1989]

I met the man of my dreams in 2009, and we married a year later. Lucky for me because it is unlikely I would have married anyone else. He is one in a million.

[Danny_dan92]

The last one I had I was planning to, she threw it away