Men, how would you feel about your wife saying ‘Babes what are you doing here?’ at an ex boyfriend who randomly came to her workplace for closure?

[Tigress1039]

[SouthernBarbie6]

It seems unnecessary and questionable to refer to him that way. Closure should have happened a long time ago if someone had so much time to move on that they're married now. It's not really a sensible reason to show up and not really a wise pet name to bring back for it either.

[Nikki1989]

Most people don't lose it over a word.

[DryGermanGuy]

She’s my wife, so I obviously do trust her to do the right things! 🙂
Other women on here, based on their over-sexualized postings… not so much. 🫣

[AgentG111]

That's phrase would definitely put me on point for divorce.

[Tigress1039]

what do you mean? please explain

[AgentG111]

Why does she call him Babes?

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode relationships and throw a little spice on top. 😉

That line would sting a bit. “Babes, what are you doing here?” sounds too familiar, like there’s still emotional residue. Random “closure visits” are often a red flag anyway. I’d expect my wife to keep it distant, professional, no pet names, no warmth. Respectful boundaries > nostalgic vibes.

[msc545]

It seems like it's an appropriate question. I don't see the harm it asking.