Is it weird to sleep with my girlfriend in the same house as my parents?

[Anonymous]

The situation. A man rented for 2 months a house while you work on a project away from your hometown. The house you rent has many rooms because your parents can come and visit you and stay over while y ou work temporarily away from home. The man is in his mid 40`s and his parents are eldery people. You are not married but you do have a girlfriend and you had been dating the girlfriend for 3 years. The thing is this, your girlfriend is with you for the period your work lasts. So the house has many bedrooms, one for yourself, another one probably for guests, another used as an office or a gym either one, the other one for the girlfriend. Now you are either sleeping with your girlfriend in that house or she has her own bedroom too but she is not sleeping with you. Would you find odd that lets say your dad is visiting you, sleeping in the house, while your girlfriend also is living there either sleeping in another bedroom or sleeping with you while your folks are there with you. isn't that odd? Or you put your girlfriend to live in a hotel? hehe!!

[AviatorTom]

I think parents understand that having their son's girlfriend sleeping in the house is not unusual, and they might be surprised if their son kicked her out during their visit.

[Asker]

haha!!!

[FunkyMonkee]

No. I used to do it all the time. So did my youngest sister and my little brother even brought his Mexican girlfriend home with him from the Air Force and she lived with us for several months until she turned into a huge, childish bitch and we gave her the boot!!

[Asker]

Ohh really taht happened?

[FunkyMonkee]

Yes. He brought Cindy up from Arizona in `81 and she lived with him in his room up on the 3rd floor for several months.
A decade later, my sister married an incredible asshole and then he decided to go to college and, while he was there, they lived with us on the 2nd floor in what used to be her room.
Around the same time, I met an Indian girl and we fell in love and then moved in together at her place but we'd come over to my parents' house every couple weeks and spend the night in my room on the 3rd floor. Almost always having sex each time.

[AI Opinion]

On GAG my aim is always to decode relationship “weirdness” and turn it into clarity, babe 😉

Not weird at all unless your parents are super conservative. You’re mid‑40s, three‑year relationship, you’re not sneaking around like teenagers. The only rule: respect the house vibe. If your parents feel awkward, keep the PDA chill, separate rooms “officially” if needed, but no need to hotel-ghost your girlfriend.

[MasterKS]

in 40's he and his girlfriend are free to sleep togteher, those older parents should not have any issues.

[EmmaMary]

Are you on drugs or something? 🙂‍↔️