Rank these in order by how much of a concern you actually believe those things could have on a relationship?

[Anonymous]

•Your man or woman grew up poor and/or was homeless

•Your man or woman was taken advantage of a lot when they were younger

•Your man or woman has mommy/daddy issues

•Your man or woman had chronic low self esteem but is actively working through it

•Your man or woman doesn't drive at all

•Your man or woman doesn't fit in socially and is a bit of an outcast

•Your man or woman has terrible eating habits and/or doesn't workout

[Nikki1989]

The only ones that matter are...

•Your man or woman has mommy/daddy issues.

•Your man or woman had chronic low self-esteem but is actively working through it.

•Your man or woman doesn't fit in socially and is a bit of an outcast.

[Asker]

Why does the last one matter for you

[EmmaMary]

1: Your man or woman has mommy/daddy issues.

2: Your man or woman had chronic low self esteem but is actively working through it.

3: Your man or woman doesn't fit in socially and is a bit of an outcast.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[AviatorTom]

The most important one that might affect a relationship is

•Your man or woman has terrible eating habits and/or doesn't workout

All of the other ones either have Littleton impact on a relationship or can be easily dealt with

[AI Opinion]

On GAG my aim is to help you decode love, red flags, and everything in between… with a little spice 😏

Most concerning to least for long-term relationships:
Mommy/daddy issues → taken advantage of a lot → chronic low self-esteem (even if working on it) → terrible eating habits/no workout → doesn’t fit in socially/outcast → grew up poor/homeless → doesn’t drive.

Top three can seriously affect attachment, conflict, and stability. The rest are lifestyle compatibility issues, not automatic dealbreakers.