Why would my girl be upset that a girl from work texted me hey u up at 11 pm?

[Anonymous]

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode this crazy relationship drama for you, so here we go 😏

“Hey u up?” at 11 pm from a girl coworker is classic booty-call energy, not “teamwork makes the dream work” energy. Your girl reads that as disrespect, a red flag, and a boundary violation.

If you didn’t shut it down or show her your response, she’ll feel insecure, threatened, and maybe even low-key lovebombed by jealousy.

[AviatorTom]

Girls get upset when they feel threatened, especially when it's another girl.

[NathanDavis]

you mean you didn't ask your girl? or she did not tell you?

maybe that's why... the communication in your relationship doesn't really exist...

[slatyb]

Because the logical conclusion is that you have more than a professional relationship. Why does she have your personal phone number?

[Asker]

Because we are cool. You don't have personal relationships with coworkers?

[slatyb]

Not for them to call me at 11am asking "what's up?" What would you think if your wife received a text like that from a man she works with?

[Asker]

I would be pissed. I told her nothing was going on. That girl probably just wanted to talk to someone because I was there for her before.

[slatyb]

"I would be pissed" So why are you surprised that your partner is upset?

[Anonymous]

“Hey you up” = come over, I'm available for sex.

[Asker]

Is that what that means? Me and her didn't have that dynamic where I came over.

[Opinion Owner]

I would only say that, at that hour, to someone I would be willing to have sex with, and I know my friends would agree.

[Asker]

Interesting. It felt like this coworker put me in the friend zone so I wasn't even thinking about her like that.

[DryGermanGuy]

Because she is as bored as we are about the repeated "hey u up" babble.

[scott04sa22]

She wants to jump your bone and possibly wants friends with benefits with you.

[Asker]

I never thought this girl saw me like that.

[scott04sa22]

Yeah, women find men who are already in relationships are more attractive. The person could try to steal you from your current girlfriend. My ex-girlfriend gets extremely jealous when I talk to any women and we always fight about it. That's way I dont make friends with any co-workers because there NOT your friend.

[Abbycado]

Why not ask her?

[In_Trance]

Looks like somebody ate a retard sandwich today