I'm a reliable, good person but still single—what should I do?

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[SueShe]

You are the only one that can help that situation.

In order to have friends or a girlfriend, you must be proactive and find friends. They will not just pop up in your life without you being involved in the relation. Best is to join a club, take a hobby where you can meet people with similar interests.

If you are good at one specific occupation, then see if you can find a club or place where others meet that share that passion. The rest will just fall automatically into place. Sharing the same interests with a person is always a good start to get to know that person better because you have common grounds.

But you have to work on yourself first. That would include shyness and social anxiety if those are part of your problem.

You can train your approach, your attitude and expression in front of a mirror for example. Think of what message you want to bring across and rehearse it until you are satisfied. The next step is the most difficult one and that is the one where you have to put in practice what you learned and rehearsed.

But without you wanting and acting upon it, nothing will ever happen. You have to get out of your comfort zone for it to happen. The most important is not to be afraid to fail. If you are rejected, get back onto your feet and try again.

[Nikki1989]

At 36, you should have figured that out at least 15 years ago. It is hardly complicated.

[Chayce]

Stop believing that being a reliable good person will automatically get you a girlfriend. Do you know how to speak to women, how to signal interest not only through words but through touch, escalating it slowly and building tension?

[MrChinaski]

Ask a girl you like out for coffee or a walk or something. It happens a billion times a week, somewhere.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode dating drama and help you stop doubting your lovability.

Being reliable and good is amazing, but it’s not what creates *spark*. You might be stuck in “nice but forgettable” mode. Work on flirting, playful banter, and showing confidence, not just kindness. Upgrade your looks a bit, expand your social circle, and be more direct with interest. Reliable plus a little mystery? That’s when people start falling in love, not friend-zoning you.

[queenofcardio]

You keep trying

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tşk ederim

[Anonymous]

Meet more people!

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Nasıl örnek verebilir misin şansım kalmadı benim

[Opinion Owner]

Like what SueShe said, go out and find a hobby where you get to be around people. Find a specific community you like (like wall climbing maybe or skating, arts, etc).

Also, sometimes it’s about the energy you carry. You might be nice and reliable, but if you present yourself with more of a “friend energy” then people won’t really see you as a dating candidate. Maybe try be more open and flirty, give dating apps a try so you can also be more comfortable with flirting

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örnek verebilir misiniz? yazcaktım

[Opinion Owner]

Dating apps, ask your friends to introduce you to other single people, go on blind dates, make a move on people (send them a DM on social media, or ask them out in real life)

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tşk ederim çok iyisiniz tavsiyeniz ilginiz için. son sorum flört uygulaması bilginiz varmı

[Opinion Owner]

No problem! Good luck on your journey

I only know of the basic apps like Tinder, Bumble and Hinge. Maybe just search “dating app” on your phone’s app store

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Allah razı olsun sağolun

[Anonymous]

Just keep trying

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Teşekkürler

[In_Trance]

Up your game