Guys, how do you know she's the 'one'..?

[littlemiss_sunshine]

... the one you would like to spend the rest of your life with.. from the qualities she has...

[lots2000]

you know how you get butterflies in your stomach when you are next to your special someone?

well, if she IS the one, you don't get those. you don't get nervous or anxious. you don't get sweaty hands or shaky voice. what you get is a complete happiness. everything is right in the world when she's next to you. you know that you can charge a tank with a knife if she only asks you to. you feel invincible. you feel great.

for me, she has to be preatty and smart but above all, she has to be a friend, a partner. I will do anything for her but I need to know she'll do the same. she has to be good with kids. and what is the most important, she has to agree with all the major issues: how to raise kids, how to spend money, religion, lifestyle, etc.

one last point, she has to say and mean those 3 little words:

. I love you

[Schyler]

I'll tell you the real truth! We don't!

There is no way to tell it straight at the beginning, it takes time!

Sometimes it takes tests, which life puts before us! It's the actions we take which tell everyone who we really are!

And before such actions must be taken, before such tests, only during dating phase, all control over impression is taken by words and chemistry!

And that's cool, that's fun, but that's not the way how to tell is she "The One"

[rockingpianoman]

when I cantalk to her about anything from silly to philosophical , when she understands me , when we can laugh together and cry together , when we can just sit and watch be silent and be comfortable with it , when we have arguments but stay together and excuse to each other , when I don't feel ignored or too pressured , when I can't shut up about her to anyone , when I want everyone to know of her and me , ...

[Anonymous]

I haven't found anyone whom I felt she is the one whom I can spend my life with .

I think when I person keeps thinking of someone , they know that they want to spend their life with them .

The girl should be loving , caring , little funny , easy going , encouraging and not too clingy .

[Kyle88]

Every guy is different but the answers are in the same topic,people didn't change ,just they change theyr needs !

For me when I look into her eyes I know where I can go with her!Its really inportant for me to live together so I can know her better,what she like,how she can take certain responsibilities!How she react in certain ways in different situations!Does she take care of me and herself!Do we have same or close interests!

Basically you can't tell without to live together!

[Anonymous]

Well it's like you stated, it's from her qualities. If she's has good character, good personality, unselfish, caring, motivated, and turns me on physically and mentally, those are qualities that made me know my woman was the "one" for me.

[Ezmotts]

I don't.