He... kisses with his eyes open... That's bad right? :/

[DS4L_]

Sooo... Yeah, pretty much, people that LIKE who they're kissing don't kiss with their eyes open right? It's generally a bad thing if they do..? ... Do YOU kiss with your eyes open?

[Anonymous]

Im having the same problem. Sometimes my boyfriend kisses while just staring into space, and it makes me a bit uncomfortable, or like he's not enjoying it. Were really close and I feel comfortable talking about these things with him. So I stopped mid-kiss and asked why he had his eyes open, and he said he just looks at things like "oh, thats a nice plant... wait, what am I doing again?" we both had a good laugh about it. But its our first relationship, and we dont have a whole lot of experience with constructive criticism. I've never said anything about it to him before, and Im afraid ot mightve offended him, because he's so manly. How do I speak my mind without hurting his ego?

[NaaChammi]

My boyfriend did that too. He kisses, makeout with me with his eyes open. Not wide open but like, he keep his eyes open a little. So he could see my face expression from his touch, am I like it or not. And it’s like it turns him on too. Yea he also did close his eyes fully when he’s almost cumming, almost on his climax, or feel extremely good that he couldnt even stand his head on so he lean his head on my shoulder. It’s cute isn't it

[SkyPilot]

whaaaat? he's looking to see if he can make out some sign of pleasure from you or if you're telegraphing some subtle hint to add tongue or teeth or..? lol

I don't kiss with my eyes open . I feel with my lips and tongue what the lady seems to like or not..but I wouldn't say it's a bad thing..just maybe a bit unnerving for you..why don't you just ask him? "hey, why do ya kiss me with your eyes open?" and tell him.."it feels a little weird to me"...open communication is a couples best friend..and friends close enough to be swapping spit should be able to talk about what's good and what's not so good

[chemistny]

Agree 100%

[psychman]

Creepy, I mean I've opened my eyes for like a second during a make out to check something quick, but if he holds them open that is deffinetly not normal. Have you asked him about it?

[DS4L_]

No that's awkward.. lol "btw, I noticed you open your eyes when we kiss" 'well...l you'd have to open your eyes to know that" .. *uncomfortable silence as follows* lool

[psychman]

Haha true but he's obviously noticed you occasionaly open your eyes if his are always open anyway.

[DS4L_]

Yeah, but still it's weird. :/I don't really know how to react to that... Like we're in the middle of fools and he's staring at me. wtf? It's like a bad movie. :P

[psychman]

That was actually in a movie, I forget which though. Also I would still ask him about it. If a girl did that to me I would stop and be like "yo, that's fn' weird stop"

[DS4L_]

hahahaa Noted. I will most definitely TashaMac at him next time. :P

[taster]

I have kissed with my eyes totally and completely closed before...sometimes meant that I was wishing she was someone else? I think it is weird if that person never closes their eyes...but him wanting to see & watch you...might be a compliment?

[DS4L_]

lol Thanks, that was a gentle way to put it. xD

[taster]

thanx...but are you referring to the positive or the negative in my answer...O.O?

[DS4L_]

"but him wanting to see & watch you...might be a compliment?":P

[taster]

oh..but I literally meant what I said...kissing with eyes open all the time seems ..idk..kinda weird...however..wishing to view the female he loves is not...to summarize...if he has other weird warning flags...well then...but if that is the only thing he does that seems odd...probably a good person?

[taster]

PS..if that is the only problem..and I think it might get old...cannot tell him to shut his eyes? eh...just a thought...giving this more thought...we would not normally close our eyes because we do not like what we are looking at? It's bloody hard for me to focus on anything that is that close?

[DS4L_]

haha Yeah, I literally meant thank you. :P I wasn't being sarcastic. What your saying make a lot of sense. Still I've never been in this situation. :P

[nicholelove]

I kiss with my eyes open, it's just a habit then I'll notice that there open and see that his are closed so I'll close them. I just like to see what I'm doing

[DS4L_]

Sameee I always have to remind myself. :P

[calialltheway1993]

Creepy. Maybe he wanted to see your face reaction, or if you're enjoying the kiss, or if you eyes were closed, or if he was doing it right? So many questions come to mind. Why don't you just ask him?

[anupamagrawal]

I love to close my eyes to feel the sensation of kissing, but again sometimes I keep them open to see the pretty face I am making love to.

[Livestrong58]

I've kissed someone I really like with my eyes open. Not always, but sometimes, probably doesn't mean much

[Benedek38]

1) It might be unusual, but I wouldn't say weird.
2) If it annoys you, and you don't want to confront him about it, just gently cover his eyes with your hand before making out, and hopefully he will get a clue.

[batgirl22]

my boyfriend does it from time to time and so do I but its because we like to see each others faces sometimes and we smile in the kiss too so cx its not that big of a deal. Just ask him ^.^

[Anonymous]

haha I wouldn't say that. if it makes you uncomfortable then say so... but I don't really see a problem with wanting to occasionally look at the person you're kissing. I think making eye contact is sexy.

[DS4L_]

It's not "occasionally" it's constant. :P He's never closed his eyes.

[Kayyyllaaa]

OMG WHO DOES THAT HAS HE NEVER KISSED ANYONE BEFORE HAS HE NEVER SEEN MOVIES JUST WHO DOES THAT YES THATS BAD

[justme20]

ive did it before. I don't think there's anything wrong with it. he might want to savor the moment and enjoy looking at you

[leighleigh]

lol savor the moment :) too cute

[StewieG]

Well, at least he's not fantasizing about someone else. Lol

[DS4L_]

POSSIBLY. POSSIBLY not fantasizing about someone else. :D lol

[Stockton]

Eyes open or closed? Do you seriously read that much into it? You must pick apart every aspect of your guy and relationship dont you.

[halfbowsey]

You opened your eyes to know his were open. If it's creepy, then maybe you both are :) I open my eyes occasionally but just briefly.

[Anonymous]

sometimes I open my eyes during but the guy's are closed.

[Danielsen45]

Yeah I would find that weird, I only kissed it my eyes open once and that's when I was trying to watch the expendables

[DS4L_]

loooooooooooooooooolGood movie.Worth it.xD

[Anonymous]

My man keeps his eyes wide open and looks around him. Even when we are home alone and there's just me and him he looks around the room while kissing me. The strangest part is its just touching lips too (no tongues) he never closes his eyes. My mum thinks he's shifty.

[Anonymous]

But you never give

Should've known you was trouble

From the first kiss

Had your eyes wide open

Why were they open?

[calialltheway1993]

lol

[DS4L_]

That's exactly what I was thinking. D;

[Opinion Owner]

i know right~

[genericname85]

since you know that, you also kiss with your eyes open xD lol i think it isn't bad.

[Choezy]

You should ask him. My boyfriend does it too like not always but sometimes and I asked him.. he said he just watches me cuz I’m pretty 😂🤷‍♀️
So I think u should ask him too..

[Helloitzapartaih]

Lmao that is pretty weird if im being honest.

[Anonymous]

Yeah he’s fucking insane

[SadCookie]

my boyfriend kisses me with his eyes open...

[6942Dom]

How would you know? Are your eyes open too?

[Anonymous]

kinda creepy

[MaxAXanxas]

girls think to much -,-

[DS4L_]

Both the girls and guys were weirded out by this, so gtfo.

[Montana07]

It's whatever