I'm really jelaous because my girlfriend keeps talking about magic mike

[Emotic]

My girlfriend and I have been dating since last month and she went to see magic mike and she woulnt stop jabering about how hot they are and I got so jelaous that I sent a shirtless pic were I was wearing tight boxers and she friggin said omg I found one of the guys from the movie naked I'm so mad and jeaous is she trying to b mean to me or somthing please help

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TO ALL GIRLS I'M NOT LOOKING AT P*RN SO NO I DON'T DESERV IT I'M NOT. EVEN BEING MEAN TO MY GIRLFRIEND

[jeremy20]

I'll throw in the opinion of another dude here...I would be like you and be upset if my girlfriend was doing this, but only for one reason: the fact that I would never do that to her.

We're human and its in our nature to find people of the opposite gender attractive, so that I can't blame her for...thats the only reason girls went to see that movie...if it was the same movie and story line with a bunch of female strippers, you'd be lucky to see 25% of the audience females. Saying omg he's hot...or whatever I don't think is all that big of a deal, as long as she doesn't say it 15 times like your girlfriend seems to be doing.

I think the biggest offense is she's looking for these guys naked online...thats what's really disrespectful. Honestly, she seems like an immature little school girl, but that's expected, assuming you are indeed under 18. As you get older, you'll experience more mature relationships and girls who won't do this to you.

[Emotic]

Finally another guy who actually went threw the same thing thank you sooooooooo mutch for posting on my side there's of course the messed up guys who watch girl p*rn then there's the girls who watch guy p*rn its on both sides girls need to relieze guys aren't all the same

[why-makoto-kun]

And thank goodness we're not all the me. :)

[why-makoto-kun]

*same

[jeremy20]

Im not sure when the topic of p*rnography came to light, so I must have missed something...Im just making the statement based upon the story you described and what she's saying/doing...if she's into the whole p*rnography thing, that's just wrong.

[Anonymous]

It's OK to be jealous, we don't like seeing our girls being so obsessed with other guys.

Just don't take it so seriously, time will pass and she'll forget about it.

[xina001]

I think you actually take that as a good thing instead a bad just for the fact that she is speaking out your mind, most girls will say such things to a girl friend but not in front of our boyfriends, Most likely she's just trying to make you a little jealous it sort of a way to show her the interest you have.But if it really bothers you always remember communication is the key to sucess in any relationship, let her know how you feel when she talks about "magic mike" and I'm sure she would stop talking about it.

[Aydii]

If you're not willing to communicate with your girlfriend about how you feel every time she talks about magic Mike then perhaps you should zone her out, talk about some celeb you find hot or leave the relationship. But really, if you can't communicate your feelings with each other then what's the point of being together?

[Emotic]

I just thought it would be mean to sound like she cat talk about stuff with me I'm going to tell her how I feal

[Aydii]

Let her know that she can talk to you about things, but swooning over other guys all the time doesn't make you feel all that confident in yourself and that talking about celeb men are probably better off being a convo with her gf's :)

[Anonymous]

That's kind of funny. Not because you are jealous but because so many, obviously not you, but so many guys do this to there girls and act like they have no reason to be jealous.

I would prefer to hear this happen to guy who does this to his girlfriend.

Ask her how she would feel if you did that to her.

[Emotic]

Thank you for actually saying I didn't look at p*rn because I didn't I know that it hurts so yeah guys are gross to do that but they shouldn't make a movie about either one p*rn belongs on the internet

[why-makoto-kun]

Ew that's really rude and disrespectful to you. I'm sorry. Is she doing this for revenge? Like, have you done the same to her?

[Emotic]

No I never did anything I never watch those movies because I have a girlfriend

[why-makoto-kun]

Well then, you're a great guy for not comparing her to Megan Fox unfavorably and the like. Girls are so tired of hearing how they aren't good enough physically. Just tell her how you feel.

[Emotic]

thanks for being nice and not auto asuming I watched girl p*rn And I deserve it*ts very nie of you unlike the rest of these girls who say I'm guilty for there boyfriends faults

[Emotic]

Sorry random typo that looked wrong

[why-makoto-kun]

My boyfriend doesn't watch p*rn or compare me to other girls and I do the same for him. It's more natural for us. There are many attractive men out there, but I do not go out of my way to drool over them, and I let my boyfriend know how much I appreciate his sexiness. And no problem. The other girls have been hurt and are projecting, a common yet misguided way to vent feelings. Assumption about another person is never good.

[why-makoto-kun]

I'm sorry I just reread your question and she mentioned the naked pic of the guy after you sent her a sexy pic? WTF! Excuse my language, but she sounds like a major a-hole. She should have sent a big thank you for the intimate, fun gift of a sexy pic.

[Emotic]

I kindof figured girls werent looking at description :/

[why-makoto-kun]

I'm really really sorry the other girls on here aren't as sympathetic. They are too blinded by their own pain and fury to take the time to read. All I saw at first was that your girlfriend kept talking about Magic Mike (not cool) and now she's looking at naked pics of them when you're already trying to fulfill her needs, get her attention, and stay respectful? That's just so sad for you and hurtful of her. Trust me, if a guy I dated did what she did, especially if we talked about it 1st,I'd dump him.

[Emotic]

I'm going to tell her how I feal

[why-makoto-kun]

Good luck :) Also ask her how she would feel if you did the same, like someone else suggested.

[Emotic]

She said she didn't get the message because her picture messages come late and she basicly talks about anythin with me so that's why she was talking about the tatum stuff I kindof relieze that now because I said I searched him and she's like ain't he hot she kindof regards me as her bestie aswell as boyfriend and she's like freaking out in omg sorrys

[why-makoto-kun]

Ok good. It doesn't sound as bad as I thought then. By the way are you really 13? You're way too young to be sending pic messages like that. Heck, I wish I waited til 18 to date sometimes...

[Emotic]

Um ask me in a messaget not on here >.>

[why-makoto-kun]

Oops. My bad.

[shawrtypie]

From a female perspective I would consider talking with your girlfriend and say how you truly feel. Then place boundaries, if she doesn’t respect it move on. I understand we are all human and obviously we’ll find others attractive. But I don’t go boasting to my partner about how hot they are and try to find nudes of them. That’s just plain disrespectful. Express your feelings and set up boundaries so you don’t have to feel like that again. In a relationship you should feel secure and your partner has a responsibility to make sure you feel secure.

[Anonymous]

Well maybe if you weren't lazy and got off your ass and worked out then this jealousy wouldn't exist

Men make women feel like less than by comparing us to Kim Kardashian and Megan Good and now that we have Magic Mike, they have a taste of their own medicine. Serves them right.

[Emotic]

well you shouldn't blame the entire male race because unlike most people I don't fanasize about them. And kims grosser than f*** maybe you girls should stop thinking things that aren't true and there's girl and guy p*rn so get over the fact that there p*rn of girls I've never even watched because I think woman who do that are horribley gross to sell there body

[Opinion Owner]

Point blank; for years, guys have made women feel inferior for our parts in many different ways by comparing us to other women who usually have had plastic surgery done or have top notch make-up artists. Guys have picked us apart piece by piece and tried to negate our worth based on our parts and the size of our parts. Now Magic Mike comes out, a movie about a hot stripper, and women can't help but talk about the sexy Channing Tatum and here all these men go around being insecure.

[Opinion Owner]

Well here's a taste of how most men have made women feel for years.

[Emotic]

well I don't need your f**** bagadge in my relationship girls I didn't look at p*rn and my girlfriend knows that you should stop talking about how it made you feal and think about you're doin the same thing to guys who are nice and don't look at p*rn

[Opinion Owner]

bagdage? it's not "bagdage" lol; it's true. The realistic idea that pretty much all men have done this at some point and time is not baggage, it is merely fact.

It's not that girls are trying hard to make guys feel the same way, that's just how things are turning out. Funny how karma works...

[Emotic]

Actually you're just streotyping the gross matchos that look at it and did I mention I'm a emo so no I'm not a matcho man who jacks off every night maybe if girls would stop faling in love with apperence they would like a guys personality not there bone structure

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not stereotyping. Please do all of us a favor and think logically before you continue to open your mouth and do more whining. Most guys do this or have done this at some point and time. Even if it doesn't apply to you, it doesn't change the fact that it applies to most human beings with a penis. You don't have to be a gross matcho. You sound so f***ing over sensitive, it's damn annoying. Please get thicker skin.

[why-makoto-kun]

Girl, if you really feel this strongly about it, go write an article or an angry letter to an ex. But picking on this poor guy and telling him "karma" gave him this situation because other guys did is so effed up. He didn't deserve it. Save your venom for when a guy actually does screw up. Sheesh.

[Emotic]

You admited not all guys do it I'm proud of you but seriously I'm 13 I would barf in my mouth if I looked at that sh*t now let me think "logicly" not all guys do it not all should be blamed wala its not that hard

[Opinion Owner]

Think what you want. This whole Magic Mike craze is a taste of what mos guys put women through.

[Emotic]

Now look at the selected best answer that's basicly the whole shabang I don't think all men should be blamed its only the ones who do look at that crap

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, but I honestly could care less.

[Emotic]

Think of it like this that insane dude who killed people in collarado that's like sending anyone to jail who goes to the movie theater and no pun intened for the movie theater

[Opinion Owner]

No it isn't. That's an entirey different, dramatic situation. Honestly, you are way too sensitive and whiny and I can't stand listening to you anymore. Please leave me alone.

[Emotic]

Leave the good part of the male population alone and I will and its the same principle convict the guilty just leave the innocent the f*** alone

[Opinion Owner]

Stop talking to me.

[Emotic]

Fine bye bye

[Anonymous]

Get over it. Sorry but really. If you're going to get upset about her watching a movie, then maybe you aren't mature enough for this relationship. She's not going to have sex with the actors. I feel like guys are freaking out because their gender is the one being the sexual object for once. Get over it. Move on. Women are always the sex object in the movies. It's okay for the guy to be it for once. I can't say it again, GET OVER IT!

[Emotic]

Well maybe its bithcy when your girlfriend loks at some f***** man w***** insted of youand maybe you should stop looking at the movie and enter real life

[Opinion Owner]

Tell that to ALL the men who go to strip clubs and watch p*rn.

[Emotic]

Well I'm sorry I don't deal with your boyfriends p*rn addiction but its not my fault

[Opinion Owner]

All you're showing me is that you are not a confident person. Get over yourself. Break up with her. Just move on. GOOD GOD, Boy! It's not that big of a deal.

[Emotic]

I hate to get technical on you but if I'm un confident how can I be stuck up

[Opinion Owner]

Never did I say you were stuck up. You actually seem very shallow and immature. I'm sick of dealing with you. I'm done now. If you're going to continue being a baby, feel free, but I, and I'm sure your girlfriend as well, are sick of it.

[Emotic]

Maybe look at the best answer before you go on with your war on males

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not going on a war on males. I'm going on a war on you. You're making a mountain out of a mole hill. Move past it or dump her. If you can't handle the fact that she's a woman, than perhaps the latter is the better option. This is my last comment. You're too immature for my tastes. Good day.

[Emotic]

If your to immature to relize that girls shouldn't like guys on TV when they have boyfriends then you should leave

[Deft_maiden]

Meh. Don't pay much attention. She is probably doing it intentionally to get a rise outta you.