I'm not exactly sure, I believer they got the job because they were qualified or seemed like the best choice. I know we're kind of in an economic crisis at this point, not many jobs to do considering America is giving them to people tgat doesn't even live in our country. But all you realky need to be able to do is #1 speak English. 2. Have a nice smile and hospitality 3. Show them that you can do the job. Once you get it be nice to your customers your boss and act like you want to be there even on days you don't. You seen nice and pile I bet you'll get a job in no time. =) If your looking for more of a career I would say college is your best bet is there anything that you want to be, or do? As for a beginner in America I would say gas stations, factories, resteraunts, grocery stores, pharmacy stores, or corner stores are your best chance, well at least for now I can see you going beyond that.
And dint whey about what people say and how they judge you, even for the people that our born in America like me. We are nothing but a bunch of immigrates. Our past and history, started of in different continents and countries. Then we ended up here the only true native people to this land are the false Indians (do to Christopher Columbus) which are the Native Americans, which unfortunately aren't very many do to the harsh ways of man, just come and claim something that doesn't belong to them. Sorry my point is don't let anyone tell you that you do not belong.
Anyway as for the faithfulness thing its more reasons why people decide to stay a virgin marriage is a big reason though, and there religion/morals. At I am a virgin and at first I was going to do it for my religion, but then I thought about it I don't just want to do it because that's what I'm told, I want to give it away to soneone that I love and loves me so we can have that special bond. There are more rsasons like sone people just aren't ready and when the time is right they will. There is even this thing called asexual which usually has to do with plants, but now it means that people just don't have an interest in sex and never want to and never will have sex.
If you want to see how many people actually are still virgins you could ask the question on here and ask why, or make a poll and list the reasons that I gave you and see what people choose
Thanks for your answer, I don't know your age but you really are very nice and a gem kind of a person, you answered and explain things so beautyfully, the guy will be lucky who will have you, anyways I don't want to create any polls and know whose virgin and whose not, its not a dating site anyways, and even a non virgin can lie she's a virgin so no point in asking it anyways.
So young and so smart, very bright future for you ahead kid
Thanks to you and gag, that because of it I got a chance to know someone like you, at so young age so nice, so wonderful, with such a clean heart, wish the world was full with girls like you, you just don't know arrogance, you are sweet to everyone, and that quality very few possesses. Take care
I think it's a turn off to be desired just based off of physical features. If a guy dates girls that all look the same, for some reason I find that unattractive (I know that's being judgmental, I'm just being honest).
While I'm not attracted to a particular race, I know some really really attractive Indians, both male and female. Basically if I met a good looking guy with a good personality, I'd be interested in dating him regardless of race. That being said, there are so many things you can learn from a person with a different background. And Indian food is freaking amazing. So, I don't think there are many negative stereotypes about Indians, but there might be cultural concerns depending on the person. I think some girls might be concerned that an Indian family wouldn't accept a wife from a different race, or they might be concerned about religious differences. Also, where I'm from in the US, the Indian community is very tight-knit and they often date one another rather than people of different races (I'm generalizing and they are very open to people of different races, I'm just speaking about dating).
Long distance relationships can work (I've been in one for 6 months), but I think it would be hard to be apart for longer than 9 months.
You aren't judgemental, you think your way and I agree with that, and yes that's true Indian families won't accept different race, even when I jokingly say I will marry abforeign women, she yells and says this can't happen not in this life, and stuff, though she doesn't know I am serious about it, anyways thanks for your comment
If these Western women you talk about are American women umm it's not easy to get with an American woman. Let's say she is from NYC - chances are she has spoken to/met/held a convo with an Indian before. Even if she hasn't, she has an idea. We Americans love to stereotype. Indian stereotypes would be that you guys don't take baths often, that your hygene isn't up to par or that Indian men are macho and only interact with Indian people and not other cultures and yall love to put curry on everything. These are not my thoughts of Indian people but rather stereotypes in America believed to be true. Well if you lets say get with a more "country" chick from Wisconsin who has never met an Indian before, she might be more eager to see what's out there ... Well in either case if you do get wth an American women you have to kinda adjust yourself to American way of doing things. You should move out here and live here at least for 2 years to get a hold of things to meet and keep a white American bunny. We like exotic people and cultures but eventually we want you to adapt to the American way
I got your point, but I know where mentioned I am just looking for an American girl, I said I want an ideal and nice foreign bride, she can be from any country, and at least through you I got to know about Indian stereotypes, and no its not true we are also hygenicband bath daily, anyways thanks for your knowledge giving comment, have a great day, god bless you.
hey mate you definitely have problem you choose people on the base of color rather than love.u have a colonial mind.u know for this reason many girls tend to suicide as they are not white enough to marry and is a difficult for a girl's parents to find groom for her marriage.u think white female is the best and black means she is of no use.i bet according attitude you want a wife who will abide yourself,think again about them as they will kick you out if you are going through difficult times and as for Indians they tend follow their husbands through thick and thin .think again.shame on you choosing life partner on basis of color and change your attitude.
My cousin is married to an Indian guy.
He's about 6'.
There is little to no reason why a western woman would want to start a long distance relationship with a man in a developing country, he'd have to be very damn handsome.
Most women once they are late 20's and thinking of marriage are looking for a guy who is at least a 'partner' financially (read earns at least as much as she does).
Some Indian men are short, others are tall. How tall are you? How good shape are you in? How much do you earn?
I am short and not handsome, and the love has to come from within that's true love.
Good luck.
Thankyou
Have you tried Russia? hear the girls are very beautiful
Sure. But they're looking for guys with money.
What do you offer QA? Loyalty is not that special. Loyalty is just what -anyone- expects in a partner. That's like asking for a great job saying you'll show up and not fight with your boss. Uh, yeah, obviously.
I suspect virginal white women are slightly less likely to date interracially, since they tend to be the most conservative.
Yes agreed
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Alright well first off, not EVERY American woman is a slut. There are women who are remain virgins until marriage due to religious beliefs, but the problem you may find there is that, they won't want to marry anyone outside of their religion. There are some women who may not be virgins, but it doesn’t mean they’ve slept with multiple guys, they could have made a mistake as a teenager and changed later in life, they could have been in a previous marriage or committed relationship where they were sexually intimate with only that one man.
Two, women who are at the age where they are interested in getting married, are looking for availability, and someone 8,000 miles away isn’t that available. Culture and communication may be an issue to. Combining cultures is always a challenge and asking her to move to an undeveloped country is a big change. You’d probably end of with a convicted felon looking to escape.
Thanks for uour nice comment, you know what my fear and truth is, any girl or women if ever had sexwith any guy before marriage, she can definitely no way be loyal because its like a tiger eating he humans, bottom line they get addicted to sex.
That is probably the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. I had sex once with a guy I was in a relationship with when I was 16, I didn't enjoy it, later became a Christian and want to save myself for marriage, and I haven't had sex in 7 years. You saying that every woman who has had sex before marriage will cheat on her husband is a VERY over generalized statement and that belief alone will prevent you from finding an American woman to love, because no one is going to put up with that.
her adapting to the guy's culture and his country might be a challenge for her too.
Yeah that is, she will have to try to adjust
I noticed on one of your comments on one of the male answers that you do not like liberated women...now I'm a virgin, and am white, and I plan to stay that way until marriage, but if whoever I marry expects me to be a submissive do as she's told wife, he has another thing coming. I am very headstrong...a lot of white women are - virgin or not. And I'm concerned that when you say you don't want a liberated white wife, that means you want someone who is mousy and just does as she is told all the time...is that what you mean? 'Cause if so, good luck finding a white woman like that. They're pretty rare nowadays.
Thanks for your comment, and no that wasn't what I meant, I respect womens, and by liberated thing I just meant that I just love to see women with a single guy his husband, you should try to see my point what I try to say.
I was just making sure we were on the same page.
We were on same page what does that mean?
I want to make sure we understand each other.
Yes I understand you, hope you also understand me, you see my username here is shivam1982, can you guess why 1982 is there?
Sorry I know I'm not white but that is so not true! Well at least not for me, I like almost all guys with different races. That's being narrow minded. All of you aren't short and even if you are that diesn't mean you aren't a great guy. I know this sounds kinda stereotypical but around my house there are Indian guys that work at tge gas stationan and they are really hot. One took an intrest in me but unfortunatelyvI look older than I an and only 15. =( , but I'm sure you can find a woman that lives you for you despite your ethnicity. America is truly a place for mixed relationships, marriages, kids, and so on.
I hope this helps and good luck,
xoxo Monae
Thanks for your such a nice explaining comment, anyways can you tell me the Indian guys working at gas station how did they get the job, any idea?, I am also ready for any work in usa I just don't know the link where and how to apply, I know no one in usa, its my dream to visit usa.
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You sort of already decided that Western women are whores who cheat and want d*** and money. So I don't know why you'd want one of your own, even if she is white.
I don't dislike Indian men, for the record. I do, however, dislike a**holes- regardless of their gender, nationality, religion, political party, or blood type.
I always want to marry one with my whole heart, but she must possesses those good qualities which good girls and an ideal wife must have.
It's not going to happen. I'm saying this as someone with enough respect not to BS you.
Marriage is already down in the USA. Women are more and more being willing to informally share men who are really hot and successful (women in the USA have more partners than men, on average) and Indians are just not looked at as very attractive in American culture. Just like how white women are looked at as basically sluts looking to hook up 24/7 with anyone in Indian culture. Combine that with how Indian guys traditionally expect to marry women a good 10 years younger... though maybe you're an exception.
Really... there's tons of Indian women. Seriously, you guys have a population to rival the USA or China. So, it'd be simple enough to marry a local woman.
Yes you may be right, I kinda dream of having something which is like close to impossible, a white women looking to settle down with an Indian man and start a family
I think different cultures are super awesome and am actually dating someone from a different country/long distance. And no, the concept here is not just get married and have divorce. Sadly people are starting to do that more and more but no please don't generalize us like that... My personal experience with Indian men haven't been that great though. In fact I jsut got into a fight with one yesterday on my soccer team because he has a dominant very stuckup he's the boss over me attitude and I didn't like that one ounce. It isn't cool... and the Indians that we do meet hoenstly only really talk to other Indians and are in their own little groups that we can never get to know them and they look at us as dumb and who do we think we are for even saying hi... Sooo my personal experience with Indians has not been good...
In one word I can just say you are a good, nice and very friendly girl, and yes I did generalise but that was because of the things I read and see here, and though its not directly related to me but I really feel very sad and bad about it, how normal is it there for girls changing guys, f*** buddies, god has created such a wonderful relationship of husband and wife, but no one cares about it there and puts no effort in their marriage, just divorce seems an easy option.
Indian guys from India come across as creepy. All they talk about is sex or creepily stare at you in person. Indian women and Asian women are known for being sexy and attractive but not the men.
lol that's a terrible generalization. Are you saying Bollywood actors are creepy? They are India-born and they are ridiculously hot (Gurmeet Chowdury for example) and are very well behaved. I know plenty of international students from India who are very well adapted and successful with women here in America.
As an Indian guy myself although American born, I take offense to your comment.
Can't believe this got thumbs ups when we're supposed to live in a non-racist world in 2013.
If you are an American Indian you already know this country is built on stereotypes
Indians aren't the first and won't be the last to be stereotyped
My people go through it all the time
And yes most Indian men come across creepy
And they do have a body odor
So I'm guessing its a cultural thing
Not every Indian man will be this way
But 9 out of india-born Indian men will fit the bill
Thats why I said Indian men looking to be with an American woman has to learn the American way of doing things
Ok I got it, I can also talk of sex but only with my wife and after marriage, thanks for your comment
Right, so I am from America, but in the case of stereotypes, it doesn't make sense to fuel them if your reasoning is that this country is built on them. It certainly isn't helping the cause if you keep illogically referring to them.
As for the body odor, the stinkiest people I've met are white people in the college dorms. I've known people who haven't washed their clothes all semester and have unfortunately showered like 2 times a week.
White people eat meat, which is technically a lot more disgusting than veggies (Think about it, you're eating "cleaned" body parts of dirty wild animals...read Slaughterhouse?).
If you think you're smelling great by dousing yourself in cologne/perfume to hide your true stench, then fine. It's really not hard to teach Indian people who "stink" to buy and use them as well. If that is your reasoning for disliking us, then we never wanted shallow people like you in the first place.
Whats this talk about, do we smell,. No we don't I definitely can say that's a stereotype you guys think about Indians.
I never said anyone smelled, ask Flamingo117, he is the one that think Indian smell. No one said that, I never said that, and he has left 2 long comments on my answer regarding about how Indians smell. So this is not my issue, but clearly his own internalized or externalized racism.
I agree with you as that is my experience as well.
You look mature and a nice person, do you also think that's true?, even if you say yes I won't feel bad because you must have never visited india and must be just going by what other guys say about us.
QA, I don't think Indian men smell, the food smells odd but that's the extent of it. I do think that Indian men are creepy because that is my experience with Indian immigrants in the U.S. On numerous occasions, sure not all Indian men are like this but EVERY Indian man I have ever met or known has been creepy. Why do you and Flamingo keep talking about the Indian scent because I NEVER said that.Perhaps you should read my original answer and my subsequent comments to find that I never said that..
I am sorry I never accused of anything. Can I know do you sleep late and don't you get early for school or work?
Ok I see, no its not about attractiveness, and to a large extent its also correct that if you marry within your community things are simplier and normal as compared to marrying whose completely from a different land, it can also take time or chances that inspite of trying her best she can't gel together, I know the problems, but I am saying you honestly from heart I somewhere dream of this ideal girl whose a foreigner and she is such an ideal wife to me and so caring and loving mother, I imagine
Well then, you are asking for cultural difference and with that comes misinterpretations and often confusion. Your fantasy of this western girl is just that, a fantasy. I think that it is ironic that you are so fervently defensive of your culture and yet dismiss it at the same time by implying that Indian women cannot or refuse to satisfy your needs in a wife...I think that a lot of westerners like myself consider Indian men creepy because of cultural differences and etiquette differences.
Because of sope you generalise whole country, not all man are creepy, anyways thanks for comment
...Um one problem might be that you are chasing a color?
Sometimes I feel there is a lot of cultural clash between Indian and western culture because Indian culture is very open and honest, sharp and to the point where as in English language we like to sugar coat everything. I think the way some people who are used to Indian culture communicate gets misinterpreted as rude, brash or sleazy when that isn't the point.
You are right there is a clash between western and Indian cultures, I personally myself don't like the way and style of their living, their attitude towards sex ad marriage and stuff, still I look for an idel girl, I know good girls are very rare, but I am just trying, maybe I can find her or she can find me.
Considering you're not willing to leave where ever you are, presumably India, if you want a white woman you'll have to find her there. Why would someone enter a long distance relationship?! LDRs should only at best be temporary arrangements.
People generally don't date based upon race so we don't consider "I will (or won't) date an Indian man" rather, if we meet and like you we don't care what your nationality is.
Thanks for your nice comment harvey, but here there aren't foreign womens where I stay and where they are they are total strangers in goa and other tourist places
Lol well you're not going to get one to come to you! Go to the white woman if you want one! I'd never in a million years move to India based upon what I keep hearing in the news!
Ok that's your wish, but news is also made you know
By men gang raping women to death...
Yes I know that news, but you must also see whole india condemned it the gruesome act and they are behind bars, you see its not like western country, where sex is very normal and getting and sleeping with women is not a big deal, that's not the case in india, womens resist and wait for marriage, and this horny bastards rape such girls
Not at all. I have gotten closed to your culture because I worked at an Indian company, and I find it fascinating. The Indian guys that I have met are very nice guys, some very good looking. I really enjoy being among Indians, I love your food, and I love your culture. I would say Indians are really good options as husbands. I have some female friends who are married to Indians and they are very happy. Don´t see the problem really.
Thats so nice and good to know you know about us and your great words for Indians.
I'm a kiwi, and I have not had good experiences with them.
They sexually harrass me and treat me like sh*t. This began when I was 14.
They treat women like crap a lot of them, and I don't like them or their culture.
Thanks for your answer, not good to know that you don't like our culture, any ways don't generalise good and bad guys are everywhere, if someone is bad doesn't mean the people of that whole country are bad.
I realize that, there are a few Indian men who are lovely, but in general... Arrogant. And sexist. I live near a neighbourhood full of them, I'm not being ignorant. I've got a lot of Indian friends, bu most of them are chicks. But it depends on where they are from and what class.
Lower socioeconomic class Indians, naming lay Fijian Indians, are disgusting towards women. My friends who are higher classed and from good areas in Hyderabad or goa etc don't like them and its different.
Its good to know that you know about hydrebad and goa, have you ever visited india or any plans in future?
Well the ones you experienced are very culturally groomed and they do come from a male dominated society. Not surprising to hear about negative comments about them. The quality of them are only a few and the rest... hmm their behavior s are always questionable
Ok if that's what you think, but its not right that we are male dominated
You're not male dominated? You must be a small minority of Indians.
Ok
I know some American white girls who've married Indian guys, but most women don't want to marry a man who only desires them because of their skin tone/features. Now, as for women in destitution, some might marry anyone who can get them out of their poverty-stricken countries. But that's not really ideal, either. Likewise, a long distance marriage isn't really idea.
Well I know ldr is not q great idea, but I am just giving my best and hoping for something best to happen, maybe my ideal women will come to know about me on internet etc, I know its very hard but I have little chance of success if not then my parents anyhow will marry me to girl of their choice, and this dream of mine marrying a foreign ideal women would just be in heart always.
Eh. Infatuation wears off. You should meet a girl that you're attracted to who has a lot of values that match yours. You think that being able to be with a white girl would make you extremely happy forever, but that kind of longing wears off very quickly. A girl who understands you and your values that you are still attracted to is the best match of all.
Yes you are very qualities, can't I get a white women with such qualities, I am open for relationship with any genuine and nice person, but if she was a white western women I would be more happier seriously, and thanks for answering.
man your first wife died of tuberculosis. Now if you marry a f***ing western woman both of you are going to die of HIV AIDS. Marry an Indian and be happy.
n western women have to take shower very often because they need to take the come out of their p**** or their f***ing mouth.
girls you show your f***in boobs and ass to be stared at.
Are they all hiv infected? Are you serious
Do western women in general dislike Indian men? No
Can long distance relationships work out? Possibly.
Can they if you try and hunt someone up on the internet and then expect that someone to come to you? No.
Thanks for your valueable comment, I got hopes now that I can find her now
I don't have anything against Indian men.
Culture is important, to an extent, but I tend to not generalize or stereotype a group of people, since a group of people does not define a person...who a person is. The person defines him or herself.
If you're anything like this guy (or at least have the moustashe) the ladies will be all over you.
https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=OVcwNoZdDkoThanks for the link
Thank you
I think Indian men do not like liberated women. And most western women are liberated.
Yes that's right, I definitely don't like their sexual liberation thing
Then why do you think you want a Western woman?
All are not just into sex there are good girls also I know, not everyones seal is broken
Not everyone in the West divorces or believes in it. Some people have stronger or different morals and think more conservatively. Not as many people these days but they do exist. The concern would be if your parents would not agree with it.
I don't dislike Indian men. I haven't had good experiences with them on GaG though, a lot of harassment and explicit come ons. I have dated an Indian man before. He was a great guy.
Yeah the ones on GaG kinda infuriate me...like the OP here.
Thats great you dated an Indian guy and sorry for any bad experiences if any with them, I say sorry on behalf of them cause I am also Indian.
Think about it. If Western Women sleep with black men consistently, then of course they will sleep with Indian men.
Oh I thought there was nothing wring with answering a loaded racist question with an equally loaded racist answer.
I have no comments on that, but don't you feel its not right speaking about them like that?, anyways thanks for comment.
No. I'm Indian, and I don't have issues. Girls love me.
But you have insecurity issues for asking this question in the first place.
I dont
Yes I may be having insecurities issues of not being loved by anyone, feeling of loneliness.
Cold hard truth:
You're not White, you're not preferred on most lists.
Attain what's universally attractive: Built body, wealth, humor, social intuition.
All of which is under your control. You'll be more attractive to any race.
Nope, Indian guys can definitely be nice and good-looking. I guess I wouldn't date an Indian guy if there was a total culture clash (I heard they put women on the same level as donkeys, thus sexism). Is that true?
Also, a lot of our "seals" are broken. Sorry to burst your bubble, but virginity is an overrated concept.
Not for me, virginity is everthing that matters to me.
Then good luck finding that in western women over the age of 20, lawlz
Ok thankyou
THe question should be if he is a virgin or not. A lot of guys want pure girls but aren't willing to be themselves? They don't want a girl who has slept with many guys but yet the majority of them have themselves...If he is still " sealed" himself then cool beans and I hope he finds someone.. if he's not then that would be sexism and many other things in itself.
I am not a virgin, single father of three years kid, and I have not slept with any other women apart from my wife, she died of tb
Then why do you need a virgin so bad? WHy not a widow or a woman who had to leave a previous relationship?
I don't think she can be loyal to me honestly
That's horrible. Virginity never guarantees faithfulness. You're applying a different set of standards to her, as if women need to be controlled, and --god forbid-- can't have sex of else we'll be unfaithful? What are we, animals?
See I don't want you to argue on this I respect everyones comments and opinions and they have the right to say it, so I also have my right, its my personal opinion and I am not OK with girls who aren't nice, and yes girls who had sex before marriage they will definitely not be loyal no matter how much they say that.
I find that a lot of Desi mean like white skin...is there any particular reason why? You'd probably be better off marrying a Pakistani Kashmir girl, they're quite fair.
No doubt they are fair and beautyful, but I didn't get any, see any women whose nice, genuine, honest, caring, firm believer in marriage, would be an idel wife, then who and from where she is doesn't matter.
I think that you should be open to more possibilities. Why are you so set on getting a White bride? I'm sure there are many nice Indian girls out there.
There are, but you mean to say white women aren't good and there isn't any nice person and they are not a wife material? Why I want to marry one because my heart beats when I seethem coming here as tourist, I want to marry one.
I never said White women aren't wife material - just that you have completely different standards and chances are, it'll be hard to find someone willing to marry you, especially since you aren't willing to move from India to elsewhere. I'm Western myself; and I find it a little bit vain that you want to marry them just because they look attractive to you.
No there you go wrong its not just about attractiveness, I am not going to marry a girl if she's a foreigner very attractive but hanging in a bar, or not a good nature, when I say nice and ideal wife you should understqnd what I am looking for.
They don't dislike Indian men. After all, they just want a guy who can make them happy, regardless of his race.
Yeah I can also give my life for her happiness, I will love her that much.
Some Indian guys are really cute, I don't like guys shorter than me though and I'm not into long distance relationships.
I see the point
I can't speak for everyone else...But I don't like guys
Dont feel bad or get me wrong, but are you a lesbian?
what's so bad about Indian women?. Sheesh people put white woman way to high on a pedestal
Nothing bad, just I always felt this dream of a white foreign ideal wife with me, I know it may sound weird or crazy
Why do you want to marry a white woman so bad? So you can get a green card?
You know the immigrations laws so good and also do know it, and no it is not for green card she is more then welcome to become an Indian national after marrying me.
You hate everything about white women except for their looks so why do you want to marry them?
"trophy wives"
I just see myself with a caring, very loving, white foreign bride to me, who speaks to me in English, marrying one is my dream, not necessary she has to be from a particular country, she can be from any country
Are you a troll by any chance? First you said you hated western women, now you want them as a bride?
I don't know meaning of troll, but no I am not a troll, I am a real person, and know I don't hate them, but yes I will surely not like a girl whose sleeping with many guys, and yes I want one as a bride but she must be nice and one man women and must believe in marriage.
I don't think they do
Yes right
Why would you want to marry THEM?
I want a foreign wife, but she must not be a husband beater and backstabber, you understand what I mean to say
They are horrid. They are good for a f*** but not to marry. Look elsewhere. I promise you will be disappointed if you go for them.
You say such thing for a women, that they are just for f*** not marriage?, is that a good way speaking about women there and do they never object to such language, I personally condemn it.
I think I addressed that. They're horrid. Who cares if they object?
But that's not a right attitude according to me brother
No some are cute
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