Why do some girls love being called "whore, slut, bitch etc"?

[Anonymous]

I have dated 2 girls now that actually ask me and encourage me to call them these words and it isn't even sex. They get turned on and enjoy it when I call them it

maybe it's just me but I'd get pissed if I was called the opposite

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+1 y

also, the relationships tended to fall apart when I started giving them more respect

[sammysamson84]

a dominance thing ... someone who likes that could be considered submissive up to some point ... usually I'd expect that to be limited to the bedroom, but I guess oppinions differ here ...

the overall respect thing would worry me a bit: someone who can't tell sexual fantasies and the rest of a relationship apart, or knowingly ignores that seems a bit immature to me ... on the other hand one could call that young and wild ...

[Anonymous]

I think it is because so many guys have been trained to kiss the woman's butt that most guys come off as weak. So now these women may get excited at any guy that has the balls to put them in their place.

[SweetTeaGirl]

I don't understand that at all. If my boyfriend called me one of those, I would be really hurt and probably think there was something wrong with me. I'm fine with my friends calling me a bitch (as a joke), but if anyone called me a whore or slut I'd feel really bad, and like you said, pissed.

[xHoneyxBeex]

I don't know, I've never heard of any woman liking being called that outside of actual sex. Maybe they got turned on by being degraded like that. I'm assuming they were really into dominant men and you calling them that fit into that role.

[Anonymous]

They must be turned on by VERY dominant men. They get turned on by "being put in their place", so to speak.

I've never heard of any women liking those words OUTSIDE the bedroom. I've known man that loved it in the bed. Haha!

[Asker]

i stated those words but they just liked me being disrespectful in general, those words were a part of it. just seems f***ed up to me lol

[Anonymous]

I don't know, but I could never call a girl such names unless she actually was one, in which case I wouldn't be with her to start with.

[Anonymous]

I love it when my boyfriend calls me those because I'm neither of those. I'm too confident that it doesn't bother me. I call him a**hole and he's knows he's not one, so it doesn't bother him.

[Scottie93]

They're weird and stupid

[Anonymous]

Those few girls are heavily into dominant guys