Do you ever fight with your crush?

[Anonymous]

So me and this girl I like tend to fight or argue a lot. It could be from obvious jealousy (I pay more attention to her lady friend or she pays more attention to her guy friend) or things we do or say to each other. But from the numerous fights/arguments we've been through we've always apologized and forgive each other and go back to being happy with each other. The longest we've stayed mad at each other would probably be a week.

I mean I don't treat her like a normal lady friend. We got each other gifts for Valentine's (tho we didn't go on a date then as I didn't really ask her out) but we did spend the day together via Skype call LOL. And cuddled in bed like couples, except we're not a couple. Go on 'dates'. Lets just say we do have our lovey dovey moments at times. And our mutual friends does say she likes me from the ways she acts.

So I'm wondering does fighting with your crush really spoil your chances? Or putting you in the friend zone? I can see that she tries to avoid conflict with me and I try to avoid conflicts with her nowadays. I do remember earlier when I got to know her she told me that couples who have differences and argue often tend to last longer. Lol

[MaxwellSmart]

In my case, we used to fight a lot. While I never took anything she said seriously to the point of getting mad at her, she would take everything I said or did seriously. She has been mad at me for exactly 2 months now and NOTHING I say has any effect. For some weird reason we still argue, but we don't talk normally. My advice? tone it down, women are different than guys in the fact the guys get over things very easily, but women tend to hang on to everything to you and never forget. Enjoy her company...there's nothing worse than NOT being able to argue with a girl because she is so pissed at you, it sounds weird, but its true

[Asker]

Wow I would hate that to happen to me! Thanks for the advice man. Ill try to avoid getting her mad.

[InquisitiveMale]

Only if they mean something otherwise people like me would withdraw from conflict. When people don't care they don't argue a point. Arguments with people who don't matter are pointless.

[Enideqa]

I can't say that is something that I have ever done. Well it might not change anything and friend zone, it's hard to say depends on the girl. I guess it depends if she already has some feeling for you.

[monkeylovesblue]

I would say you are just smoothing out the rough edges, lol... :P

[Asker]

Meaning? Lol

[monkeylovesblue]

Getting all the fighting out of the way, so it doesn't come up later.

[Asker]

Haha but do you think all this fighting would get me friend zoned? :s

[monkeylovesblue]

Probably not..

[Asker]

Lol OK hope not, thanks for your answer :)

[JamielovesKU]

No, and I wouldn't want to :)

[Asker]

Haha I wouldn't want to as well. But we just do

[JamielovesKU]

Im to busy drewing over my crush to argue lol not really, but I have better things to do than argue with them

[Anonymous]

I fight with my partner