Questions: Relationships

This girl I’ve known for a little over two years just confessed that she was catfishing me. She sent me this long audio telling me how sorry she is about everything. This happened because I would go to her state to meet her, and before I did that, she decided to confess. I’m obviously devastated even though there were no romantic feelings involved or anything. She was just my friend even though I did think she was a great person and I would be willing to have something with her. And since she couldn’t “break up” with me (I wasn’t her boyfriend) then she was forced to tell me. I’ve shared so many things with this girl and she has also told me lots of stuff. Her pictures weren’t stolen from a model or anything, it was just one of her friends so it looked pretty realistic. She also doesn’t live in the state she mentioned she lived in. I don’t know what to do because I still like her as a friend and yes, we’ve spoken multiple times over phone calls and Snapchat calls. She even faked snaps to make it seem as if it was real. I really am stumped right now. I’m utterly distraught.

9/10 I'm the big spoon but the 1% of the time I get to be the little spoon it's really nice. No arm falling asleep, hair in your face and more freedom to move. I just wish she did It more often lol it's nice to switch it up sometimes.

She told me she want's to start going back to the gym ( we kinda made a deal if one of us goes we both go ) I said cool you should do some squats when you go. Then she got low key mad.

She has a pancake booty 😕 which is kind of a bummer. Cus i love a nice ass. It doesn't even have to be big as long as it has a nice shape. I don't think it's to much to ask because your ass is muscle and it is something you could improve. I workout all the time so I don't think I'm being a hypocrite. I want to look good for myself and her.

There are a lot of problems you face when you're in a long distance relationship. The distance, communication problems and even different time zones.
Would you just rather avoid all those problems and stay single until you find a person that lives near you?

Hanging out with couples when you're single can be very weird. Couples on the one hand are very happy and overly affectionate but on the other hand are very nosy and pushy. They are just so Happy not to be alone anymore that they want to show off their happiness and at the same time rub it in our single faces. The weird part comes after they calm down their sexual high. Suddenly you become this stray animal to them. They start looking at you with these weird eyes while trying to figure out why someone abandoned you. Then they proceed in a mission to find you a "home" that makes sense for them. When we really just need time to adjust to our new surroundings. We need stability not dependence.

A Single person to a Couple, who's just come down from the 3 to 6 month sex high, is a symbol of lost freedom and independence. A single person can come and go as they please. They don't have to compare schedules or check in all the time with someone who up until a few months ago were a complete stranger. Maybe best of all is the time to enjoy some peace and quiet to yourself without hurting someone's feelings by asking to be alone for a bit. I mean you love your partner but everyone needs a few hours to themselves to do nothing, to worry about nothing. Single people are a constant reminder of the cost of companionship, but only you can decide it's worth it.

So with all that in mind, Should Couples be allowed to hang out with Single People?