Have you ever cheated on a partner and never told them you cheated?

[Finchie40]

Dont ypu feel like an asshole when you hold your partner in your Arms and think what a piece of shit you are?

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I was played by a Married Woman that I didn't know was married , so having encountered this in my life time has made my trust for relationships harder

[js1163]

i have a question. my friend cheated on her boyfriend and she says that she doesny regret it but then she says that she won't tell him bc she doenst want to make him miserable. should i distance myself away from this girl? she is very nice to me but i just... every time i think about what she did im disgusted and annoyed. even more annoyed at the fact that the guy LOVES her. I can't even look him in the face. theyre both from a different country and she cheated w my other friend here in the states... so am i right in distancing myself away even though she did no harm to me?

[js1163]

like we go out for lunch and stuff should i continue that?

[js1163]

she leaves this country in the spring and she won't be back for a while

[Eleni91]

I’d keep my mouth shut unless she ends up pregnant cause I told my friend she didn’t believe in fact she didn’t talk to me in years.

[js1163]

yeah its really not my business but in all honesty i dont want to be her friend but i also don’t wanna be mean lol also she invites for vacation to her country so like i need that lmao

[Eleni91]

Lol I got my own place in another country.

[Finchie40]

Yes , if someone is projecting negative traits around ypu then Yes you can Distance yourself, what your friend is doing is so wrong, but as a friend you should try to talk to her and tell her your feelings whether she agrees with you or not its ok to express your feelings , it sounds like ypir girlfriemd us very lost and doesn't really know the true meaning of a relationship , if she can cheat on her boyfriend then she really doesn't love him, so she is just wasting her. time

[Eleni91]

She knew it apparently “I ruined her marriage”

[ChrisTruthseeker]

@Eleni91
She's worried about making him miserable now?
How about down the line after the poor guy marries and has kids with her and she keeps cheating.
I think it only gets worse for that guy honestly.
Whether you choose her as a friend or not is up to you, but I really feel sorry for him. I worry she's going to lie and take advantage of him until eventually she gets caught.
He might be so involved with her at that point that it nearly destroys him.
This kind of thing happens all the time.
She's aa liar and a user.
I don't know why you would want a friend like that.

[thottttiana]

Definitely ditch her. How do you know she’s not going behind your back as well and doing shady things to you?

I remember you from that one question.

[js1163]

@thottttiana me? i remember your user lol. she's talking to me again. we’ve hung a couple of times... i dont feel hate towards her. its only when i think about it is when i get annoyed so now I don't know whay to do. im taking your advice tho.. or trying to lol

[js1163]

what*

[ZestyWatermelon]

I've been cheated on... The thought of someone coming home and holding their "loved one" in their arms after cheating make me genuinely sick.

[Finchie40]

I hear ya , it disgusts me that someone can mess with someones heart like. that , sick world we live in

[French_kisses]

It’s very sick

[cavmanier]

No I never have. I didn't get the cheating gene apparently. If I like someone, the idea of other girls heavily shrinks. It's odd because I've noticed as I become single I start to notice things about girls that were totally gone and my personality towards flirting can come back.

[djmzes]

Simple

[StingRayxoxo]

No, that’s awful. People are awful.

[Finchie40]

People r selfish and only think about themselves

[StingRayxoxo]

I agree with you. But the good ones are Really good.

[Northern_star]

there goes my friend 🙂 👍

[StingRayxoxo]

I’m trying! Haha

[Fredde199]

I don't know what is worse.. the cheating or the "confession" after. I mean what that person is doing is just freeing themselves from guilt and as a result basically just twisting the knife that's already stuck in the back of the other person. Here's a tip... don't cheat!

[Anon-ymous1]

... Sigh.
The Term "Cheating" Is Erroneous and Foolish, and No One Should Use It ↗

[Figen]

No I have never cheated on my current or previous partners. I would imagine that would be something in the back of my mind thoughts wise, the feeling shitty each time we embrace knowing I wronged them like that.

[CandacePerry]

No, I will never cheat any relationship is a stupid move. to make. I know how it felt to. be cheated on more than once.

[bootylicious19]

I have but I confess, what point in saying anything to break someone Trust for the next relationship..
So I don't say anything n I break it off.. say I'm focused on my school or work.

[bootylicious19]

And hey yano what as long as I'm saying this, you don't always know the reason for cheating and circumstance

[madhatters4]

i haven't. i can't imagine ever feeling good about myself doing something like that and keeping that lie to myself while i pretended to be the dutiful partner

[Walkerrose]

No I have not and never will. i know what one has to go through when someone has cheated on them.

[Anonymous]

I cheated on my guy with his sister while he was deployed.

[Finchie40]

Have u ever told him?

[Opinion Owner]

God no.

[Finchie40]

Do you feel guilty and. feel like shit that you did that when you are in his Arms and He tells you he loves you?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes but I wouldn't change a thing.

[Finchie40]

What if his sister slios to him u did

[B-radley]

Why did you do? Why wouldn't you change a thing?

[Opinion Owner]

She was there for me when i needed her and she needed me.

[Finchie40]

I still think you should tell him the truth, if you love him you would tell him no matter what the consequences will be. By you cheating was a selfish act unless you plan on living. the rest of. your life holding that dark secret

[B-radley]

Is her name Jodie?

[Youryeodongsaeng]

No. Never. I'm loyal but only had two girlfriends and never cheated on both.

[Browneye57]

Seems you're having some guilt issues? Care to talk about them?

Been on both sides of this, kind of an ex-pert. ;)

[Finchie40]

I didn't cheat but i slept with a Girl that cheated on her husband , she played me and i am just questioning how Does she go home. to him like nothing happened?

[Browneye57]

Ah, well, this is unfortunately quite typical. Actually for both genders, but women can much more easily justify their actions - it's the way their brain is wired.
Google this: hypergamy

A woman will fuck any guy she wants, any place she wants, any time she wants. Just ask them!

And if he's a good plowhorse she may stay with him as a provider but fuck any guy that will do her. She may simply be bored out of her mind.

A woman does not accept any responsibility for her situation, her place in life - everything is due to uncontrollable circumstances or outside influences. And you'll actually hear them say things like "I had no options" or "I don't have any choices". Or he did this or did that and it MADE me do this or that. It's like they cannot think for themselves.

The burden of performance is on the man. If he gets fat or lazy, loses his job or gets injured, she is highly likely to shut down sexually, cheat bail or any combination. And you'll hear the famous "I love him but I'm not IN love with him anymore". They have NO problem justifying their actions.

If a woman cheats or bails on her man it is because he is an asshole. Even her friends and relatives will back her up on that - "You deserve to be happy." "That's not right, you should dump that asshole."
Now if a man cheats or bails on his woman it is because he is a COMPLETE ASSHOLE. Just ask them!!!

I would very leary of fucking a married woman. Hell, the police don't even want to respond to a domestic disturbance - they're more likely to get shot there than at virtually any other crime scene. And here you are inserting yourself into a marriage. I know, she played you - I get it. I'm just saying, it can get really ugly if he decides to take his anger out on you instead of her.

My first wife thought cooking cleaning and fucking were three cities in china. I had several affairs before dumping her ass. I never felt bad about it. EVER. She got what she had coming.

[Eleni91]

No I Have not. I know what it’s was like to be cheated.

[Finchie40]

Yes it's a selfish act my thing is dont get into a relationship of you know you can't be faithful , but we are surrounded by a lot of selfish assholes in this world that only care about themselves

[Eleni91]

I had a girlfriend who is married ask if she was married she said no then I going Movies finding out she married when I confronted them and he knew of me but I didn’t know of him.

[Finchie40]

Thats weird , have u found out why she did that?

[Eleni91]

She told me she gonna be out of town so I went to movies with my friends I in the theater see them kissing I confronted them and made a sense.

[Finchie40]

I'm sorry that happened to you, that had to be devastating , people. r assholes

[Eleni91]

Very

[Finchie40]

My Apologies for being a little confused in the beginning of our conversation, i didn't realize you were Lesbian, but again it's crazy Now the husband knew his wife was doing. that and it didn't bother him? I wouldn't be ok if my girl was hooking up with other. girls , to me that is cheating as well

[Eleni91]

I guess not but don’t wanna be anyone side girl.

[Finchie40]

Yea i dont blame you , you deserve better then that, everyone does , you aren't a toy to play with when they want to play, people that can do. that shit and fuck with peoples hearts pisses me off , they deserve their asses kicked

[Anonymous]

I have cheated and ended the relationship the next week but still dint tell him

[Finchie40]

Even though you should of dumped him first before cheating at least you still dumped him after. the fact , which it seems what people mainly do when they cheat , they cheat first then dump , i just dont understand Now someone can cheat and stay with their partner like noth9ng ever happened , you would think cheating on someone would tell yourself that you aren't in love with them if u can cheat

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t kno either. If ur cheating then the relationship is over anyway

[Finchie40]

Exactly if you can go that path then that should be your answer , but again most people are selfish

[boggboss]

My brother once juggled 3 Gfs at the same time in uni

[thottttiana]

Typical n*gger tingz

[boggboss]

What lol ahahahahahahah

[Lance1965]

No, I have never cheated and never will. I have been the victim of cheating a few times so I know what it feels like.

[Northern_star]

never. i have more respect towards myself than to bear the guilt.

[Anonymous]

I was the "side" chick in my ex boyfriend's relationship.

[juliapanan]

I dont cheat.. but I do webcam shows both on chaturbate and Adultfuncams. com as my jobs and he dont really know about.

[Walkerrose]

Dont u think he should knw about it?

[Finchie40]

Does he ask where you are. getting the extra money

[jackinoff]

When's your next broadcast?

[Wonderer89]

How is that not cheating 🤨

[haze360]

Its technically not cheating she isn't sleeping with another person although id still make sure its ok woth my SO

[Repa33]

Never have. never will

[Finchie40]

Means you have a genuine heart

[Dionigi]

Even if all cheaters feel like that it's not comforting.