Questions: Relationships

My is a big fan of fitness. For the longest time she's been following this fitness guy, who is somewhat a celebrity. His name is Tamir Russo, he and his sister run a very famous exercise page on Instagram. When she went to LA she got to meet him and exchange numbers with him. The whole week she was down in LA I heard from her once. I was paranoid at first, but thought to myself maybe I'm just being clingy. So I ignored it!

Recently I noticed she's been exchanging flirty texts with Tamir. Always talking about how she can't wait to go back to LA to spend time with him. I asked if he knows she has a boyfriend. She admitted she didn't tell Tamir she has a boyfriend. I even noticed she's texting and communicating with him more than me. The reason I know this, because borrowed her iPad when mine broke. Her iMessages connect with the iPad.

When I'd text her " hey babe! How's work?". She gives me on sentence responses. But I saw Tamir ask her "how's work"she shares everything with and it's like paragraphs she's sending him.

I brought this to her attention. I told her I feel very uncomfortable and disrespected. She tells me that I'm just jealous and need to grow up. She I just pack my stuff and move out? Or stay and try to work things out?

I've been listening to a few of the Teens and 20 somethings at work talk about their relationships lately. Just like G@Gers, they often wonder about what their Partners want from them or how to explain their woes to their Partner. Yet most of them fail to really think about what THEY want from the other person. So think about seriously for a moment, Do you really know what you want out of a Partner?

For the future of course. I just really wanted to know because some people say it really early and some really late.

Most girls (or at least a lot) I think have no clue how sexualized they are. I see comments and questions on here that kinda hint at it. Like for example, I saw a question just now asking if a guy would consider being into a girl who's his sister's friend.

Like uuggh!! It doesn't work like that. I don't think you have to be a genious to figure out that if a guy is thinks a girl is pretty and their personality isn't very unattractive, then we want to fuck the shit out of them until we are exhausted and cannot move anymore. Yes, you being my sister's friend may hinder my trying to do that, but it doesn't make me want her any less. I think most guys are like this.

I think girls think there's more that goes on then there really is for attraction.

Then there's leggings. Like some girls don't seem to have any awareness that guys love them because to us, you may as well be naked. Leggings are like lingere that is somehow acceptable to wear in public. Remember how there were a ton of people who were outraged by them? THEY WERE RIGHT. But no young guy is gonna say anything because we thank God for them every time we see a girl with a nice ass where the leggings went into her crack.

Now most girls are totally aware of this and that is why they wear them, but a ton have no clue, they just think the leggings are comfortable and they have no clue that what they're doing is basically the same thing as wearing no clothes and painting on clothes like the girls in NY.

this bothers me because I think that its really bad for girls to be this naive. Not that they need to stop doing these things, but that they need to understand and accept how they are being perceived, especially by men.

Anyway, what do you think? Do you think that girls are more sexualized than they realize, or do you think they're faking it?