My girlfriend left me for a girl, how to move on?

[Daemuss]

I shouldn't say girlfriend anymore but w/e. We have been in relationship for 5 years and everything was going great, but 2 month ago, she kissed one of her colleague. She told me about it and felt bad, but the seed was planted... She always had fantasies about women but never experienced any crush or attraction to any girl. The colleague started to flirt with her, texting stuff like "I want to see you" etc. My girlfriend was back then very confused because she didn't want to stop our relationship but was clearly attracted to this woman. So we took a break and 1 week later it was over. She had sex with the girl and enjoyed herself.
So, I was like "she is lesbian, there is nothing you can do about it, move on..." but 10 days later, she came to pick up her things and she was clearly feeling attraction for me and she said she was still confused about her sexuality. So now, it s harder for me to move on because I think she might be bisexual and that something between us is still possible... please help me... :( (sorry for my English by the way, not my first language)

[Tdieseler]

For a second language, you did pretty good, even down to the punctuation. Did better than most people who have English as a first language.
Anyway, you could have an open relationship, thats an option. Or you can just cut her off. Being with you for 5 years, she never really got to explore other channels and just wanted to do the "normal" thing. And now, you have to pay the price. Thats the thing about women homie, always gotta watch out for yourself FIRST, because when they want to do something or leave, they just go ahead and do it, regardless of how you feel. But when its your turn, you gotta jump through hoops, loops, ask permission etc.
there's a possibility she's not even a lesbian, she's just exploring because she couldn't at first due to wanting a "normal" relationship.
I personally say "good riddance to bad rubbish" and I understand what it would feel like to throw 5 years away and to another girl who probably doesn't even want anything serious. Hell, i destroyed 3 years and im still not over it, i can only imagine 5. So if 5yrs means nothing to her, dude... move on.
Or you can wait for her to "figure it out" which i really dont recommend. Like i said, think about YOU first. How many women do you know that after 5 years will wait for you to "figure it out"?
Move it around dude, i know its easy to say, but all you can do is try.
And yes, i know i generalized but what other choice do i have when this is Most people?

[Daemuss]

The truth is she know what she is leaving, that what we had was special, but she don't want me to wait after her when she even don't know where (sexualy) she will be in few month.

[Tdieseler]

well thats considerate of her. so... like i said... tell her ✌️pack your 💼 and 🚶outta there.
Me personally, i'd add a little bit of 🖕, cuz you know, I've got style like that.

[conkrete721]

Damnnnnnn son. That's a tough one, it actually happened to a friend of mine but they weren't together for 5 years.

The only thing I can say is let it go. She left you and that is that. You have to realize it was nothing that you did to cause that. She's living out a fantasy and let her go be that.

The way to think of it is that if you love someone you want them to be happy. Let her be free and do her own thing. If she comes back great, if not then it's hear loss. If it were me though, even if she tried to come back I wouldn't take her back.

Realize that you have a lot more value than she does and use that to move on to the next girl.

Look up a dude named Corey Wayne on youtube. He's got awesome advice.

[Daemuss]

Thank you dude.

[Anonymous]

What? U want to be with a bisexual girl? Want to have sex with her? Jesus!!! Why, MAN of God? Why? Aren't there any straight girls here? You're too old for me and I'm not yet 18 otherwise I might have thought of you. Find any straight girl baby. U will find. Or if you can't! Then text me... I will help you...

[Daemuss]

Ahah, I know there is plenty of straight girls out there, but I can tell you that we had something special she and I. And you spend 5 years of your life with someone, well, that's not that easy to move on...

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. Not easy. But not impossible at least. Come on! What do u think? She certainly had sex with the other girl because she wanted to. She cheated on you. Isn't that a reason good enough to move on?

[Daemuss]

She had sex with the other woman because she wanted to know if she could like having sex with a woman. And I don't consider that she cheated on me since the break was here to let her the freedom to go further with the girl.

[Opinion Owner]

So you want to be with the girl! Then why ask? If u already know, that you want to be with her! Then why are you asking?

[deraz24]

Aww I'm sorry. At this point I wouldn't really rely on her to come back since she's so confused. Let her figure her self out and maybe in the future something will happen. As for you I would try to move on the best way I can. Take a break from things for a little bit and try to enjoy yourself.

[Emojis201]

Well for now, I suggest you take it easier and see how things go from be on this point. Anything can happen, if you still love her, don't get involved with other girls just yet, hope everything works out for you :/

[Anonymous]

Basically hun she's bi. And the fact she repressed it and it's only coming out now isn't your fault. You need to let her have the space to figure herself out so it'll give you time to move on

[Anonymous]

Your looking at it wrong. She flat out cheered on you with her. After she enjoyed fucking another girl while you two were on break. Of course she enjoyed the sex. It was new and different and was her fantasy. You either want that cheater back and continue living with her. Or you let her go and realize your mistake of living with a woman for 5 years with out putting a ring on her. Of course when something new came up she wanted to try it and she did. She knows she still wants to fuck you and possibly her co-worker. What person does not want more easy sex.
Get rid of that cheater and move on.

[Shaft50]

Give her time to figure herself out... she may have just felt sexual attraction to this other girl, without there being an emotion connection. If she still loves you and you love her, give her a bit of grace to sort herself out and whatever happens from there, happens.

[TadCurious]

This is why I would never knowingly date a bi girl. I'm really sorry your girlfriend cheated on you with this other woman. If you do stay together you'll know that your girlfriend will always have this longing to be with another woman. I wouldn't be able to deal with that. I'm sorry this happened to you.

[Daemuss]

I and she didn't know she was bi/lesbian until this happened...

[Laughandahalf]

I'm telling it like it is, fam move on. she fucked another woman and she ain't thinking about u no more so don't even give her the mental energy of worrying about her. tbh she probably planned this and took the "break" to fuck the chick in the first place. she threw 5 years down the drain and she couldn't be happier

[SuccessfulHornDog]

I worked for a gay guy. He was married before but now is living with a man. When I asked him about this he said that he has always known he was gay but that he wanted a child. When He left his wife she became a total slut because she felt responsible for his gayness.

She was a victim of the guy. He used her and lied to her about his true feelings. It had nothing to do with her and everything to do with his lack of character

[BertMacklinFBI]

no fuck her, figuratively.

she chose the girl, she can't say she still has feelings for you. don't believe that shit. she either chooses you or gets the fuck out lol.

[spcrazyj]

She must be confused about what she wants but the best thing is to move on I bet you don't have any problems finding a temporary girlfriend. But you got to leave her alone and know what you want

[Centurion20000]

Already too late; she's already betrayed the relationship. Go find another one and stay REALLY busy until the feels are done.

[Intraluminal]

She may indeed be bisexual. What are you looking for in this relationship?

[GreatnessBack]

I say leave her alone until she figures it out.
Go find another girl.

[Daemuss]

will do that.

[SteamBuns]

Try to join into the relationship, Make it a threeway, if possible, would be interesting indeed

[Anonymous]

You have to decide what you will put up with. Even if she stays with you, she will still be involved with her. For me, that would be a deal breaker!

[Anonymous]

ohh thats double bad ! sorry for u u need a lot of time to get over

[gusGuy2211]

Haha, maybe suggest a threesome.

[Anonymous]

Find a guy to replace her XD

[Ragini]

😂😂😂😂. True. Lol

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini She will feel the same way as he did XD

[Ragini]

Lol... lmao... Yes!!! He's so desperate.

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini Yes XD
Why can't he search for another women or even a guy. Who care

[Ragini]

Exactly. He is too desperate for that bi...😂😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini Yes, maybe she done bi because of him XD
Who know? All is possible

[Ragini]

Lmao... Jesus!!! Can't stop laughing... I'm sure she did bi bcoz of him!!! Lmao

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini Haha yes XD
I already saw something like that happened in my school. that's was so awkward

[Ragini]

U saw that happening in ur school? Oh god! How awkward!!! It must have been so embarrassing

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini yes, they was in the same class plus... After during 2 years they was two "gang" and another one who doesn't give a shit about it XD

[Ragini]

XD. WHERE DO U STUDY MAN?

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini I studied in a school for difficult people, I was the youngest out of all XD

[Ragini]

XD. Like... I meant, which country XD

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini Haha sorry I'm from France

[Ragini]

So it mustn't be quite uncommon there... XD. Its yet very uncommon in India... We kinda can't even imagine these things happening here or even if they are, they are not happening in public at least... XD

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini When a couple broke up then you can be sure that everyone know and everyone take a side XD
It's really funny, me I generally doesn't care that much and just eat while watching them arguing XD it can take ages

[Ragini]

Yes... Exactly😂😂😂. It's so sooooooooo fun to watch them like that... And the poor guy can't even understand whether he should leave or fight... How funny!!! XD

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini Yes, it's like "What should I do" XD he's so lost

[Ragini]

Exactly!!! How pathetic. But here the fun fact is GIRLS are no less- bcoz they are literally a mess! XD. They always are like going around their boyfriends saying, "Baby, baby come here pls baby... Baby are you asleep" (in the middle of the night)...😂😂😂 and what not?

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini Then imagine his face the morning after being waking up lots of time all the night XD
Could boring him all days long after

[Ragini]

😂😂😂😂... how true!!! All this relationship stuff is shit...😂😂😂 because all this is sooo funny XR

[Ragini]

***XD

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini Yes, they act all lovey dovey but when the other is not here they get all sick with them XD
Like how can she / he act so clingy all the time XD

[Ragini]

Exactly!!! Lmao. All this relationship stuff is useless... But it sure gives us stuff like Jokes... And I swear those Jokes are so funny!!! XD

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini Yes, at least we have somthing to laugh about. This is not that useless like that XD

[Ragini]

True man.. !!! Today itself I saw a couple having dinner together and the boy was like, " baby my baby will you have this? Why are you not having anything baby? Isn't this tasty?" And the girl... After having dinner, she kissed him and then said, something... He was so furious!!! Lmao. i t felt like he would throw down everything... Maybe they broke up. XD😂😂😂😂😂. Unbelievable shit!!!😂😂😂Lmao

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini It must have been so funny seriously XD I wish I was here really haha
yea seriously XD
It was like in high school, there's was a group of girls talking and crying the reasons why? An high school girl dated a college guys then she complained and cry because his boyfriend was going to party every night and doesn't send her a goodnight text everyday XD
Seriously I still remember it

[Ragini]

What really?😂😂😂😂😂😂. Jesus,!!! Unbelievable. They're so touchy about such stupid topics... unbelievable😂😂😂😂😂. And no wonder she would break up with him because he didn't send the messages... lmao. how funny. How did you even control your laughter? I would have made fun of myself like hell by laughing out loud...😂😂😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini I laugh a bit but people were thinking I laughed because of what I saw on my phone XD
Hopefully if not I would get in trouble and I had to bring myself down to give them a sassy comment XD

[Ragini]

Of thank god... guess what... today at my school a boy proposed to a girl... All the time she was blushing as hell. And just at the end of the day, u can't even imagine what I saw.. both of them were kissing furiously... Digging their tongues deep into the other's mouth. It was SOOOOOOOOO DISGUSTING!!! I couldn't control myself, just ran away. But I knew that anything intimate in the school is obviously prohibited.. And somebody went and complained... They were suspended...😂😂😂😂😂. See, this is what you pay for getting committed... lmao

[Ragini]

*Oh thank God

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini Seriously my god XD
This is so funny really. They should have wait to get outside the school and hide somewhere seriously.
When I was in middle school they was a guy who follow and ask many time a girl to go out with him and she always said no. Then he get on his knee and ask her again to be his boyfriend the girl just walk away XD
and everyone in the school have see it... xd

[Ragini]

Yes... and that's soooo embarrassing! And very useless, especially when you know that the relationship ain't gonna last longer. That's idiotic. Stupid. And funny for the rest of the people. You won't believe, I saw, a couple ( young) fight... Like literally fight with each other in the middle of the road. The girl was like, " you're a dog, you always ask for more, you're a...***" and the boy was silent, and trying to make the girl realise that it was the middle the road. There were traffic jams because of them. Unbelievable shit! People around them were laughing like hell!!! One almost fell laughing😂😂😂😂😂 how stupid!!! XD

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini Oh seriously XD
This sound so fun, I wish I was here. i think I would see couple fighting everyday XD
people must have been annoyed but when they have saw how they were ridiulous they just laughed XD

[Ragini]

Yes. Exactly. I used to think that only unmarried couples are that way. But I slowly realised that, no. Even the married ones are that way. Imagine, a married couple - the man ASKED the shopkeeper for cheese, the woman goes wild. And she starts howling at him. In front of the entire supermarket. 😂😂😂😂. And this is not an imagination.. it's reality XD. Have you seen such couples?

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini Too fun XD
Yes, I've seen this kind of couple. It was in the market and the guy was watching at my shirt (it was a big jersey shirt) and the girl take his arms and scold at him. It was so funny XD
I was here standing and didn't realized why she was so upset at first. i mean she got crazy only because her husband look at my jersey XD

I also see a couple in a office, her husband was stealing chocolate and his wife told him to stop stealing it because he was already too fat XD

[Ragini]

What the 😂😂😂😂😂. Jesus!!! They're sooo meek. They have no idea whether to leave or remain with the girls. Poor guys!!! XD. I JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND why people get into relationships even they know it won't let longer so as to get married! I mean, I personally believe in marriage other than such stupidity!!! Funny jokers all around!!😂😂😂. XD

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini Yes, at least it's funny for us XD
They get in a relationship then they cried, yell, take pounds too XD
It's really funny to watch. Marriage is great but not with everyone... XD

[Ragini]

Ikr. Marriage is really special. U can't just Marry anybody. It would ruin your life. :(

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini Yes and even if you marry someone you think is good you can have lot of trouble

[Ragini]

Exactly! Everything is So unpredictable. If I could... you know I could send you one of the link... which characterised how unfruitful all this relationship is... Though it can be interesting at times... and it's helpful too...😂

Guess how?

Well, it gives us a lot of memes... jokes that makes us go ROFL... oh god!!! XD

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini yes and those meme are so funny XD
Like girls who said they don't need a man and when they get one they act all cute with them. That' so dumb. I'm like laughing thinking of how ridiculous they look XD
You have to girls who wear high heels when they can't walk great with them and then they fall and their boyfriend can't stop laughing so they get upset and pout all night long XD

[Ragini]

Oh yes...😂😂😂😂😂😂 it's way too funny. Have you ever noticed the way the boys backbitch about their girls? XD. AND The way girls think that their boys are only to them and don't look at other girls😂😂😂. Only God knows how menu girls they look at!!!😉😂

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini Yes, haha XD
In front of their girlfriend they call her princess but after they said they got sick of all this cheesy stuff and hate to have to dress up for her XD

[Ragini]

Exactly! I personally just don't understand what kind of logic goes into this. Like, pretend to fall in love, pretend like it's forever, get committed, first few days go good, then comes back bitching, then comes, arguments, physical fighting😂, breakup, crying, moving on!!! Wtf? It's ridiculous!

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini It's so ridiculous yes XD
I think they feels like they need to have a relationship and so for having one they act a certain ways if not they wouldn't be able to keep them.
It's just so dumb and so funny to watch really XD

[Ragini]

Dumb!!! Sure...😂😂😂😂 funny to the core.. and some people are too annoying. And the fact that they kiss and cuddle in public places is sooooo annoying. I mean, if u love someone why is there a need to show it? XD. France... does France have such stupid couples... roaming and kissing in public?

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini Yes, we have that, lots of cuddling, kiss, make out, etc..
Lots of pda really if yo saw the head of the older people it's so funny XD
They're disgusted by it the same goes with child they're like "How can they breath like that, they look stupid" XD
Really funny. I think they should do it inside their house because really who need to saw that? Nobody we have something more interess to do than watch that... They even do it in school. They was a couple in middle school who was doing that and the teacher come and give them a detention, their head so funny to watch XD

[Ragini]

😂😂😂😂😂😂. Oh God!!! Are these born fools? Or act like that for fun!!! I feel like slapping them hard! I'll tell you something, one day, I had gone to park my friends. We actually saw two people making out! It's kinda not allowed in here plus they were very young, like around 16-17. Somebody must have informed the police😂😂😂 and when the police came, the boy was shouting, " She's not girlfriend, she is my sister, we were just sitting!!!"😂😂😂😂😂😂 It's so funny to see how in one sec the girlfriend turns into sister? 😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini they should have take a video to show the police XD
It would have been even more awkward for they really. they wouldn't know what to say after something like that except hide XD

[Ragini]

😂😂😂😂. Yeah!!! Making out in public places is kinda not allowed in here... In France?

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini It's allowed but old people are against it and children are disgusted by it XD
So it's really funny to see their reaction when 2 people do pda XD

[Ragini]

XD. I just don't get the logic behind all this love making in public. ! Its so annoying. And funny. by the way, guess what, I am actually traveling, so I'm in a train- and i saw a couple actually kissing the dark... There was this old man sitting in front of them. He must have tried to ignore it but couldn't. XD. he got up and scolded this couple...😂😂😂😂. Oh God! They were taken aback and Jesus what expression!!!😂😂😂😂😂 The old man said, "wait, I'll call the police" and they were like, "no no sorry uncle... We just got married...". lololololol. it's like they just got married so couldn't control their sex drive...😂😂😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini Oh this is so funny XD
Really I wish I was here to watch it all. The old man must have saw it then tried to ignore it and when he couldn't take this shit anymore got up and scold them XD
Like I can't take your shit anymore young people. Why do they do it in a train anyway? Why can't they wait to be in their house or anything?

[Ragini]

True. Too, 'horny' I guess!!! Why the name, "horny" in any case?

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini yes, they should control themselves XD

[Ragini]

What is ur username? U could pm me..

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini It's alice55 :)

[Ragini]

:) I'll pm u. :)

[Sam_Heel]

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[Sam_Heel]

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[Ragini]

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[Sam_Heel]

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[Ragini]

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[Sam_Heel]

@Ragini Feliz Ano Novo

[Sam_Heel]

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[Ragini]

@Sam_Heel obrigado

[Sam_Heel]

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[Ragini]

@Sam_Heel Google Translate works well...😂😃

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini Google translator best friend forever always here to help XD

[Ragini]

Absolutely true...😃😂

[Opinion Owner]

@Ragini I always used it for my Spannish homework and I was getting very good grade because of it XD

[Ragini]

😂😂😂😂. Your teacher doesn't find out? XD😂

[Sam_Heel]

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[Ragini]

@Sam_Heel awww thanks... appreciated 😛

[ikissedtheskyonce]

Sounds like she never cared since she cheated

[Anonymous]

Damn! That's gotta hurt!!!

[Jan1ssary_]

Your fault to date with bisexual/Lesbian.

[Daemuss]

I and she didn't know she was bi/lesbian until this happened...