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Polls: Relationships

Is she serious or joking?

My girlfriend spanks me whenever I talk back to her or don't keep up on my house duties, and we're talking very hard spankings too. Recently she said that if I don't shape up soon she will seriously spank me in front of...
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My girlfriend spanks me whenever I talk back to her or don't keep up on my house duties, and we're talking very hard spankings too. Recently she said that if I don't shape up soon she Show More
Yes, she has every right too.
No, she's just frustrated with you.
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For those that showered together, are you a shower hog?

I have been accused of being a shower hog and leaving my wife in the cold. Are you a shower hog? Or maybe your SO is?
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I have been accused of being a shower hog and leaving my wife in the cold. Are you a shower hog? Or maybe your SO is? Show More
I am a shower hog
I am the victim of a shower hog
I think we share the water 50/50 (which means you are probably a shower hog)
No really, we consciously share the water
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Yes
No
Only if married
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Comment why you put no
Yes
No
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Should never happen
Yes!!!
you’re cheating
Count me in
I wouldn’t but I don’t mind other people doing it it’s their business not mine
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How do you split bills when moving in with your SO?

At this stage, you wouldn't be fiancées or married. Rent, utilities, wifi, etc?
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At this stage, you wouldn't be fiancées or married. Rent, utilities, wifi, etc? Show More
Flat contribution (i. e. rent is 2000 we both pay 1000)
They pay the bills entirely
Percentage contribution (i. e. they pay more because they make more, but I'll contribute a proportion of my income)
Other / comments
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Does he want another baby?

Me and my partner have a 2 month old We are not married yet I didn't know I pregnant till really late.. so missed out on ultrasounds etc Im 28 and he's 33 But he keeps saying “Do u want another baby?” “I...
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Me and my partner have a 2 month old We are not married yet I didn't know I pregnant till really late.. so missed out on ultrasounds etc Im 28 and he's 33 But he keeps Show More
Yea
No
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In a long term relationship do you feel like you want a lot or not that much in comparison to the rest of the world? Why?

Some people may see wanting a lot as ambitious. Some may see it as being greedy. I want to know how you feel. No judgment here.
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Some people may see wanting a lot as ambitious. Some may see it as being greedy. I want to know how you feel. No judgment here. Show More
Want a lot
Don't want much
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If your family didn’t accept your partner due to their ethnicity, would you still marry them anyway?

I don’t understand why a girl would do that because this happened recently. The girl was white and married a Mexican guy that is from Mexico. Her family disowned her. Why would she pick a guy she hardly knows over her own...
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I don’t understand why a girl would do that because this happened recently. The girl was white and married a Mexican guy that is from Mexico. Her family disowned her. Why would she Show More
I’d pick my partner over my family.
I’d rather pick my family over my partner.
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Guys, Is my standards too high for finding a partner?

Morals: Can at least respect Christianity if he isn't but prefer him to be Christian Believes abortion is wrong Believes men and women are different but equal in human value and is NOT a feminist or a MGTOW Wants to...
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Morals: Can at least respect Christianity if he isn't but prefer him to be Christian Believes abortion is wrong Believes men and women are different but equal in human value and is NOT Show More
Your standards are too high
Your standards are good
Your standards are too low
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He broke up because my dog injured his cat, was that fair or not?

My boyfriend broke up and called me the worst owner ever after my dog (female, mastiff mix) injured his cat,. It followed my command on the 2nd time though and I got her away from the cat. That was the first time I've...
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My boyfriend broke up and called me the worst owner ever after my dog (female, mastiff mix) injured his cat,. It followed my command on the 2nd time though and I got her away from the Show More
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No
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Nothing. Because everything is fine between 2 conscenting adults.
It's wrong because 'feelings.'
The invisible conscience fairy that has no evidence of its existence told me this is wrong. And i always listen to voices in my head because im a crazy person.
Nothing is wrong, unless i subjectively say so, since im the only person i have to answer to. If i say slavery and rape is good, THEN IT IS! YEY!
Its objectively wrong. Gee, what does that mean then?
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Does it hurt you if sometimes you want to do a certain thing with your partner but they don’t?

Like lets say you want to go visit somewhere but your partner for whatever reason doesn’t want to and tells you ‘no thanks’. Would you feel hurt? Rejected? What if most of the time they say ‘yes’ to you but just once in...
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Like lets say you want to go visit somewhere but your partner for whatever reason doesn’t want to and tells you ‘no thanks’. Would you feel hurt? Rejected? What if most of the time Show More
Yes it does hurt me anytime they say no to me even if it only happens rarely
No its fine if they say no. Its silly to expect your partner to say yes to me every single time.
It really depends on what they say no to me about. Some things i might get hurt if they say no while others not so much
I wouldn’t say ‘hurt’ but maybe disappointed perhaps
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No
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How do you know when you want to be someone’s girlfriend or boyfriend? Aside from that you like them... what makes you want to be with them?

This Q was inspired by someone who told me they told someone they wanted to be their girlfriend / boyfriend and it made me start to wonder what makes people think such things. Curious. 😊 thanks!!
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This Q was inspired by someone who told me they told someone they wanted to be their girlfriend / boyfriend and it made me start to wonder what makes people think such things. Curious. Show More
I want someone to love / to live me
I’m ready to be accountable to someone and I want to share experiences & grow as a person
Mostly sex but I’m willing to do other stuff to keep everyone happy
I want to explore us as a unit I don't know until I see
Other
I don't know I don’t really think about it I just don’t want to see them with someone else
I ask first, think later
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Is being ghosted an instant relationship ender even if the reason us vaild?

For example You agree to met somewhere and they dont show up due to being ill, unable to deal with confrontations, they ghost you.
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For example You agree to met somewhere and they dont show up due to being ill, unable to deal with confrontations, they ghost you.
Yes
No
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Met in college/university/school
Met elsewhere
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Will she come back?

Hi! I've[35M] been dating a girl[29F] for a short while 2month, and we only came to second date. No kissing tho, didn't want to push her on these buttons coz she told me want to take things slow. But yet she said she...
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Hi! I've[35M] been dating a girl[29F] for a short while 2month, and we only came to second date. No kissing tho, didn't want to push her on these buttons coz she told me want to take Show More
100% chance he will reconnect
50% chance he will reconnect
0% chance he will reconnect
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