Guys, Is my standards too high for finding a partner?

[Anonymous]

Morals:

• Can at least respect Christianity if he isn't but prefer him to be Christian
• Believes abortion is wrong
• Believes men and women are different but equal in human value and is NOT a feminist or a MGTOW
• Wants to protect and provide for his woman and believes in protecting the weak
• Values loyalty

Personality:

• Dominant
• Respectful
• Can laugh at offensive jokes😂
• Has self discipline
• Prefers to hang out with few than party
• Non smoker/doesn't drink alcohol.. if he does then he can control it
• Is somewhat intelligent

Physical features:

• Prefer 5'7-5'10 but anywhere from 5'5-6'3 is okay.
• Is healthy weight
• Has good hygiene
• Is a biological male
• Is between 20-30 years old.

About me:

• I am 5'2 (158 cm tall), weight little under 100 lbs (45-46 kg)
• Good hygiene, loyal, submissive, nurturing , feminine, loves taking care of children, don't drink/smoke, likes making people laugh:)+have 1 bodycount years ago I regret..

Your standards are too high

Your standards are good

Your standards are too low

Updates

9 mo

For those viting my standars are too high please explain what makes it too high and what should I change?:)

Updates

9 mo

What did my crush mean by this? Anyone seen Spiderman👀? ↗

Please help!

[TommyWiseau69]

No. At least you are considering short men unlike many other short women

[Asker]

😊👍🏻

[SnowedIn]

Not too high.

[Asker]

That's good to know, thank you!

[SnowedIn]

Here's what I appreciated most: your standards weren't poured into concrete. That's awesome. Because while you might find a man with every one of those standards, it'll be easier if, for instance, he enjoys a few beers but isn't drunk. So, you demonstrate reality. 🙂

[Asker]

Thank you! Yes otherwise my list would be too high.. i think a part of growing up is realizing Prince Charming doesn't exist lol...😅

[SnowedIn]

Exactly!

[Asker]

👍🏻

[SnowedIn]

Thank you for MHO

[Asker]

👍🏻...

[Finchie40]

Your standards aren’t to high at all from what I read it sounds like you would be a great catch , Just as long as you follow those same standards that you expect him to be for you , because you can’t expect someone to do for you , if you can’t do for them, for a relationship to survive and for love to grow you both have to make each other your top priority and remove selfishness for each other , understand you can’t always be right and he is wrong , All relationships have disagreements and all relationships go through ups and downs , so understand you are no longer single when you choose to commit to someone , it needs to go both ways or it won’t work period

[Asker]

Yes very well said thank you!

[AaronKrieger]

Nah, they're pretty good and my own are similar. Do I date less? Sure, but all my exes are good people.

Stick to holding standards like that and looking for long-term compatibility.

[Asker]

Thank you! I will:)

[inhua]

"can laugh at offensive jokes"

^ what's the tolerance level for this? ^

[Asker]

Like doesn't get offended by jokes:)

[DarkLegacy]

Brilliant standards, well done with the abortion and feminist bit

[Asker]

Thank you!:)

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Standards are fine, except why does he need to be that height and age and weight?

[Asker]

Between 5'5-6'3 cause im 5'2 and I want him to be a bit taller than me but not too tall. Its a very big span.

Healthy weight cause I myself am healthy weight.

Age because I am 22 so its within that:)

[jshm2]

What you're providing and what you're demanding don't match up. You're asking for someone who doesn't find women like you partner material.

[ProbablyClueless]

Those don't seem unreasonable at all.

[ProbablyClueless]

This being the internet, I feel like I should say that I'm being serious. OP's standards genuinely seem like good, healthy standards to have.

[Asker]

Thank you for letting me know!:)

[Asker]

Am wondering about those who voted A tho👀

[ProbablyClueless]

Maybe someone voted without actually reading your list, or simply clicked the wrong thing by accident.

[Asker]

I guess thank you!:)

One thing I can understand tho is me prefering a traditional man when I have 1 as bodycount:(

[BlackJeep]

Those are good standards to have. Good luck

[Asker]

Thank you! That's good to know!

[Soldieronmission]

Don't lower standards!

[Asker]

They are too low?😶 I dont think so... but how?

[Soldieronmission]

Uh no I'm saying they're good so don't lower them. Find a guy who meets your standard without compromising.

[Asker]

Okay thank you! I will do that:)