Is being ghosted an instant relationship ender even if the reason us vaild?

[LemiaOfThunder]

For example You agree to met somewhere and they dont show up due to being ill, unable to deal with confrontations, they ghost you.

Yes

No

[petitedollbabee]

If it’s something that they could’ve given warning for, then no. Or if it’s something truly sudden like they got into a car accident or had a serious emergency, then no. But if it’s something as immature as they just didn’t want to show up, or they already knew they weren’t going to come but just didn’t say anything, then yes.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I'm kinda quick to forgive so I'd probably ask them not to do it again and be able to confront me with whatever is going on with us. I'm more than willing to understand and work with them. If it kept happening though I'd have a more serious conversation about not being happy and wanting to move on.

[Jersey2]

I know a great guy who waited 2 hours for a first date to show. She finally did. They have been married for some years now and they have a daughter.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If they get ill at the last moment, then that's understanding.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[DermalPunch]

They could redeem themselves with a sincere apology, an explanation and changed behaviour but people never do that these days and feel insulted when they are expected to take accountability and be humble enough to admit fault.

Most likely the relationship would die there because to me that means you are a) cowardly and b) not very inerested in me or a relationship with me.

I don't have time to waste convincing someone that I'm worth investing in and respecting.

[qqqqq0000]

I couldnt care less about the excuses, if someone ghosts me in anyway im not wasting another second.