Polls: Relationships

my boyfriend dumped me a few months ago because he couldn't get along with my sister. After months of not knowing why we broke up he finally told me. My sister and my boyfriend had a hard time getting along with each other. They were cool one minute then drama would occur the next. When my boyfriend and her wouldn't be on good terms, she attempted to turn me against him. It never happened and I didn't blame him for anything. When things got worse between them, my boyfriend ghosted me including her. Later to let me know I did nothing wrong to cause it and that it was my sister fault. He had the option to not have anything to do with her but for whatever reason he felt the need to keep in contact with her.

I'll cut short in points

Been together since 7.5 years

He has always been careless, emotionally immature kind of person. I always thought he'll get better with time. Since He grew up in super protected environment.

He didn't even do bare minimum efforts and didn't treated me properly , my fault being i never complained and expressed and so he thought its okay to be like that. (And i was waiting that things come from his side itself without me asking)

I used to suffer without letting him know much, me being a hopeless romantic n sensitive person.

Now he's asking me to teach him how to treat girls so that he can do better. I feel its not my place to do. Its something his parents / friends/ himself should have taught him.

As a person he is very pure of heart, honest, and all. But he's superr dumbo and kinda avoid difficult conversations.

Tbh its kinda difficult for me and maybe I'm getting emotional since i have spent soo much time and energy for this guy.

I really wish things worked out but i dont want to lose myself in the process too.

One part of me is like.. should give another chance

Another being let it go. Things might not get better in future as well.

Another is just be friends. I help him develop as a person as a supportive friend. And if things work out or we feel we can try. Otherwise just friends.

I had one about 5 years ago when I was in a relationship with someone, and then broke it off a year after that. I haven't been with anyone since because I read stories it feels like doing a sock. (Is this true?)

If I were thinking about being with someone, should I tell them first?

What would you say?

Would you take them back?

Me and my partner have been on and off for years

There was an incident last year and I got a restraining order on him

So the police placed it on behalf of me so he cannot be near me or contact me

But me and my partner reconciled and continued our relationship secretly

However now we have a baby together - born few weeks ago

This is our first child

Before I gave birth - we had an argument 2 months ago and so I reported him to the police out of spite

And now he is in jail for 2 months

I regret it so much and I miss him

I paid a lawyer for him to try to bail him or get him less sentence..

Im paying his rent until he gets released

Since he's not allowed to call me in jail, he calls my brother

He told my brother:

- he's not angry at me

- he wants to be with me and our daughter

- he plans to marry me

- its really bad in jail and wants me to know how bad it is

But today when he called my brother, he said:

- him, me and my brother needs serious talk.. all 3 of us

- he thinks I dont realize how serious it is

Why did he say that?

Why does he want serious talk?

he's angry isn't he?

why does he want my brother there when he talks to me?

Does he want to leave me?

Is it normal to have a boyfirend partner that doesn’t want babies? I hear stories either the guy wants kids and the girl doesn’t or the girl wants kids and the guy doesn’t. There’s no in between unless you are super lucky 🍀 and got a guy that you love and also agrees & wants kids. The guy that I love doesn’t want kids ☹️ I don’t want kids with a new random guy I don’t love. It’s not the same. Nor the purpose.

I recently went to download festival this Friday with my friend, I have a partner and he was completely fine with it, unfortunately he doesn't like festivals or I would've loved for him to come.

I kept him updated, drank a bit but safely, lathered up in suncream and had a great time.

However, I know some people that are really controlling, and their partner would never let them do this. In my opinion, if you're afraid it would be a way for them to cheat then 1. You already have an issue with trust in your partnership, and 2. a bad person is going to end up doing a bad thing no matter how much you control them.

In my opnion I wouldn't date someone that tells me if I can go to a concert or festival or not.