Polls: Relationships

If you found out that prior to meeting you, your boyfriend/husband was actively sleeping with escorts for 5 years, would this new information make u want to break up with him?

Guys can participate in this question as well by placing themselves in women's shoes and determining whether they will be ok with finding out this info of their partner.

Seems a lot of women want to defer having children till after their 20s. Is there a mismatch with men's willingness to have children?

I am curious as to how many men want to have children in their 30s or even 40s?

In the 30s/40s a guy is getting into his prime earning years. If you have children then you are looking at supporting them through to at least your early 50s but possibly late 50s or even early 60s.

Add to which you likely will be divorced by the woman after 8 years given that is the average length of marriage and 80% of divorces are initiated by women.

So Guys, do you buy the white picket fence or go shopping for expensive sports cars?

Girls, ideally when do you want to have children?

she is married and have kids, is about 40 year old. i am 28 right now. i can't take my eye off her, want to see her, touch her. never felt this before for any other girl. i feel internally happy when i was near her think about her most of the time.
what i need to do?

I used to be in love with my 3rd grade teacher, Mrs. Baumgarten and Rickie Wertz, a local t. v. star who just died about a year ago in her 80's, my aunt (mom's youngest sister who was in her 20's, at the time), the woman on the cover of The Ventures' album, "Walk Don't Run", Diana Rigg, Yvonne Craig, Julie Newmar and probably a number of others.

Are you happy in your relationship?

Just want to take a poll here... Are you happy in your current relationship?

I have not had any acquaintance with the opposite gender on a serious level yet, so I am ineligible to voice my opinion on this topic.

Shweet, I really didn't think I could ever be with anyone else, i never thought I could love another human being after all that happened but then the most unexpected person came and now what I feel for you is so much more than I could ever imagine. Now I think I know what that feeling is called because whenever I think of you, when I see you, when I get a text from you, i get a feeling which can only be defined as LOVE ❤

I can't help but see good women who get into relationships with men who take them to the bank and are oblivious to what is happening as he takes her to the bank under the pretense of "Love". Even when women get abused should a man give a shit for this woman's poor choice in men? Honestly it's funny how women can think of "love" in such broken way I really wonder how they lost their definition.

If you're single and the *only* partners you could possibly ever get, would be abusive, disrespectful, unfaithful, or otherwise not treat you with proper respect, and you refuse to be with someone like that and are sad to be alone because of that, would that still be considered being picky/entitled?

As in, you could be with someone and have a relationship with them, but these people would only ever be mean to you, disrespectful, polyamorous (cheating), expect you to pay them money constantly in order for them to stay with you, would not consider you a good partner, etc. They'd be using/exploiting you, but at least you'd still be with someone.

If someone chooses not to be with someone like that, are they considered picky/entitled? Or is that fair? (This applies to both genders in such a situation, but likely applies more so to men, for obvious reasons.)

I'm asking this in full good faith. I do know know what you'd call this.

I really, really want to be a father. I want to be the best dad ever. The problem I am having is that I never had a real girlfriend and I am approaching my 30s. I only want a woman without a romantic past, meaning no previous first love or boyfriend. It is heartbreaking because I almost had that, but the woman I wanted to be with dumped me on the first date. Now, I feel like I will never find my future wife.