Which one gives you true happiness from the options? Which one will give you more satisfaction than the other? A feeling of completeness?

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I have not had any acquaintance with the opposite gender on a serious level yet, so I am ineligible to voice my opinion on this topic.

The opposite gender?

The material things that you can get with money?

[dynamicyandere]

I work hard on my career and business, but it’s not for the money, it’s so that I can take care of what matters most to me, my fiancée and our future family.


At the end of the day, what I value the most are the close relationships with the ones that matter to me. That depth of connection and wholesome bond that no money can buy.


That’s what I value. And, I work hard to make money so that I can always protect that.


If I just pursued my career and nothing else and invested no time in meaningful relationships, I know I would feel a void.

[SnowedIn]

Money is important. But, if it is a locked down choice between my wife or money, I'll choose my wife.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Both are important. That is why I used the word more in the question 😸. It is not 50/50, right? One thing has more weightage than the other.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

I guess the opposite gender,

I'm not a fan of gifts or items in general, they bore quickly and pretty much all I like about them are the sentiment behind it.

I would be much more happy with a man that I love and knowing that he is ok. Whatever that has to be done to keep it that way

[TenderFantasy]

Naive about the opposite sex I see.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

@TenderFantasy what do you mean?

[TenderFantasy]

For me, I've had experiences with both. I'd RATHER have the material thing. That material thing will NEVER hurt your or stab you in the back or betray your trust! Never CHEAT on you or lie to you or do drugs or put you in harms way! Not if that thing is a good thing at least lol.

[TenderFantasy]

Thanks for MHO. I wish I wasn't writing that based on personal experience. And people who haven't experienced what I have experienced in terms of what I wrote (Betrayal and Hurt), are truly lucky indeed!

[OlderAndWiser]

I am not a materialistic person but I do enjoy the company of a good woman!

[Sirenboobzilla]

I make enough money to travel and afford all living expenses on top of tuition. But nothing brings me more joy than sharing that success with someone

[NathanDavis]

I've never been the materialistic type

my true and genuine happiness has been from making others happy... and that is regardless of their gender

[menina]

Since I can't interact with the opposite gender, I'm going to say things that I can buy.

[TacosRAwesome]

As long as I afford a comfortable life I don't need much else. Company of a lovely man it is.

[Anonymous]

I love nice things, but I don’t need any more. I’d rather be happy with a good man.

[BeyondBirthday]

I rather buy things I want like a home, car, etc. instead of wasting time on women...

[TenderFantasy]

Exactly. I feel the same way about men. Those things will NEVER lie to you, cheat on you, wish you ill will, betray your trust, etc!

[Jamie05rhs]

A relationship with a woman is way more satisfying than all of the money in the world.

[Andres77]

Accomplishments

[LiamJHayden]

Neither. Happiness comes from within.