Polls: Relationships

I am 27, almost 28, and I have never had a real girlfriend. Of all the people I have known throughout my life, I don't know anyone that shares that circumstance. In fact, I am the only one out of my former friends to not be married and/or have children. I am finding it incredibly difficult to relate and for others to have empathy for my situation, because everyone I know hasn't lived it.

I am ultimately wanted me and a woman to be each other's first loves and first real relationship. I don't know if this will ever happen. It is a deal breaker for me.

My girlfriend is in love with me, and I with her. We are completely exclusive. When she is with her girl friends she pecks them on the lips but it's harmless and I don't mind. It's a cute girl thing. (I don't get it but it's fine).

The other night we were out with college friends and a girl in our course who we are friends with but don't know super well started chatting to her. I went to get a drink and when I came back my girl said they had kissed. What's weirder is she then did it again infront of me. It was a long kiss, no tongue but not comfortable to watch.

It was the other girl who asked if I was ok with that and I thought it strange but harmless and said "yeah". I started chatting to a friend of mine but noticed they started comparing bra straps and then full on showed each other their boobs. Am I right to think that's not something girls just do? My girl has barriers and wasn't comfortable being naked Infront if me for the first few months of our relationship. That made this seem all the stranger. They then started saying to people that they had kissed, seen eachothers boobs etc. What's more is she didn't seem to like this girl beforehand. Saying that she was absent from college all the time and never had her work done.

I'm confused. Is that normal? I'd appreciate honest feedback

Came across this woman while looking at one of Kevin Samuel's video. Listed below was her comment for the video.

"I have a high value man and I just listen and do everything I can for him. He takes care of me and my daughters better than their father ever did. I am 37 and he helps me with everything so I will do all in my power to show my appreciation. I never called in to Kevin's show to ask any questions. I grew up with my man and him taking in me and my children was a blessing."

My initial thinking was this.

If you grew up with the man who is now your husband and knew him since childhood, why is it you ended up having kids with another man instead of just marrying this guy and having his biological children.

So I asked her this and her reply back to me was this.

"because I wasn't around him daily. We lived in two different cities that were close but still far enough to only see him summers at the Boys and Girls Club we attended. He wasn't the only guy in the city (lol). I also grew up with My Ex Husband (my daughters father). We're all the same age. I was able to spend more time with my daughters father because he was more assertive and went after me.

My husband now was a bit more shy and was also dating someone else. He wasn't my type He was just a nice friend. His relationship didn't work and my marriage ended. We remained friends and hung out on dates. He was always a gentlemen. One day we had too many drinks and now we've been married 7 years. He said he always knew I was supposed to be his wife. We still to this day are friends first."

Now let's say you were this guy in this exact situation with a 37 year old woman with a little girl that is not biologically yours. Your wife appreciates and loves you but you still have to see her ex-husband from time to time when he comes to visit the kids. Would you be ok being in a relationship like this?

Dont say "both" cuz everyone knows both are bad... ik cheating is bad in every way... but i think if u cheat as revenge that is stupidest n worst of u as person... cuz then there is not much difference in you and the person who cheated on you... and you become a cheater bec of someone who didn't respect u and hurt you so already its like they didn't care at some point n went for cheating so why care taking revenge n making yourself bad as person. Ik many people won't agree but thats how i think... pls be respectful and vote and share opinions

There are many times I crave intimacy and companionship with a beautiful, loving, good woman.

However, I know good women are difficult to find any more. I have been told many times this.

In addition, I have strict criteria, but I haven't been able to attract any woman.

I have been wronged by so many women in my lifetime. I have been scammed, taken advantage of, and been treated like shit by women I have tried to create something with.

Sadly, I am the last of my former friends to not be married. All my past friends are married and/or have kids. Meanwhile, I never had a real girlfriend.

Crime samples... of the week...
https://nypost.com/2022/05/04/man-79-randomly-punched-in-nyc-subway-station-attack-cops/

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https://nypost.com/2022/05/03/gunman-opens-fire-on-busy-nyc-street-striking-boy-video/

https://nypost.com/2022/05/05/guardian-angels-patrol-queens-neighborhood-following-shooting/