Guys, would you expect from your wife/partner to get plastic surgery in order to not loose your attraction for your wife/partner?

[hi_it_is_me123]

Ok I find out that so many women and female relatives in my surroundings got plastic surgery despite being married. I dont understand why they did it since their husbands accept them, otherwise they would not marry them. My mum tell me that they did it to still attract their husbands. So the husbands dont loose their attraction for their wifes. In my mum's opinion women should take care of her appearance and if it is necassary, they should get plastic surgery, in order to make their husbands to not cheat on them. In my opinion both men and women should take care of their appearance. However, I am curious whether men really loose attraction for their wifes to the point women have to get plastic surgery. I still can't believe that so many women in my surroundings have plastic surgery which is scary. We find out about it after my aunt wanted to have plastic surgery and needed advices by other women who got nose job, jaw line surgery etc.

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I recommend Lorry Hill. She is very neutral, nice and objective when explaining the complications/problems of any plastic surgery. For example I did not know that it is common to do revision nose job surgery or how your plastic surgery nose gets smaller when getting older or how bbl look only good for insta pics and it is very (deadly) dangerous op. Lorry hill had many plastic surgeries herself and so she is very experienced and not judgy

[caitycat21]

That’s just depressing that there are women that think their value is from their looks. To the point where they would risk their lives to go under the knife just to please their husbands.


You shouldn’t be with a man if he only loves you for the way you look, that isn’t love. Love is when your partner loves you in a platonic way, a relationship where you can both be equals and love each other and all your flaws.

[caitycat21]

I know there are incels on here that will berate me with dislikes so I’m just going to clarify for them: no - statistics from a god damn dating app are not accurate of what the dating markets like now, they aren’t accurate whatsoever. That’s the equivalent of getting all your sources from social media and expecting them to be credible information- go outside, be nice, and talk to people. Maybe get some fresh air because if you believe in that bs you probably haven’t gotten it in a while

[Anonymous]

Plastic surgery outside of medic reasons would make me want a divorce. Aside from the complicated risks it just makes them fake and no longer the person I thought they were

A lot of women don't realize plastic surgery makes them uglier to some guys because not everyone likes the same look. Most women also don't realize that it's their expressions that make them look better than just skin looks

If a woman gets plastic surgery I'm automatically assuming they're trying to replace their husband or attract a different set of men and become ugly to the men who currently like her. Or she's trying to hide from something

[DavidRaul]

Well i would never want my wife to have a plastic surgery. If you truly love your wife, there's no point to get distracted. Also everything looks fake, even a makeup looks fake. Whats the point of marrying if you cannot love your partners imperfections. Wives do get plastic surgery cause they are too jealous of the physical attraction of wives in their circle, i mean this could also be the reason.

[ChiTown33]

I've never BEEN IN LOVE so I can't say this for certain. But I know how I feel about people I care about. And when I love someone it's never been skin deep. So I assume IF I ever fall in love that over time the feelings of connection I have with them will be deep enough that it'll surpass the physical.

[Pyrofox]

I'd beg them NOT to get plastic surgery unless it was like medically needed. I find anything with plastic to sound just FLAT OUT ARTIFICAL.

[Pyrofox]

If you disagree with me go ahead I got friends in the buisness and they always try and talk people out of doing it XD. Even though it a free paycheck for them a lot of plastic surgery is pretty much walking the line. Of is this safe or could this actually be VERY dangerous. And not a lot of people realize just how dangerous a lot of the surgeries are.

Like the nose you got one main blood supply that get knicked or cut and you can literally lose the whole nose structure.

Butt fat injections, if you got someone who doesn't know where the fat is suppose to go you are pretty much fat outta luck. As it doesn't take much for that fat implant to quickily become a direct fat injection into the blood stream. Which is a VERY painful death. Which tbh. the only way to fix it is by another giant surgery to pretty much have to remove the necrotic butt.

Even stuff like breast implants can go wrong. Natural breast droopyness is a natural thing but the irony of that droopyness is that is also often tissue and muscle related to what an implant relies on to sit on to help fill out the chest. Meaning that implant you got at 19 or your mid 20's could start drooping as soon as your 30's XD. And if you aren't going to a true professional you can end up with all sorts of weird stuff. If they don't know what the hell they are doing. LMFAO.

[Pyrofox]

Don't get me wrong I'm cool if its to remove a mole, wart, or some other skin deformity or even fix their lips. But anything more and its probably gonna be a case of me telling them to take their own loan out for it.

Cause I'm the type to just bluntly tell them straight to their face that I'm falling in love with the girl here and now. Not the one your dreaming to be. If you want to be that girl I'm gonna check out of the relationship here and now. I don't have the time for someone who doesn't realize that what I'm falling in love with is what they already are. I'm not the type of man to say someone needs to change for me to like them. If you really knew me you would know I fell for ya cause your not perfect.

[hi_it_is_me123]

I did not give you a dislike 😅. Read my update, please. It was another user. Thanks for the reply by the way

[hi_it_is_me123]

Oh were you replying to me?

[Pyrofox]

@hi_it_is_me123 not you to the person who disagreed. Just going into further detail why I'm not supportive of the whole plastic surgery. Lots of people never understand escapism is a fix not a solution. And that's the issue with plastic surgery. Is it's easy for it become a short term addiction. I know people who spend enough on surgeries to be able to travel to every place on Earth and still have enough to come back to the origin location.

[Кураж]

No, surgery is dumb.
I do however expect my partner to stay in shape, and not gain (too much) weight.

[Anonymous]

If it helps her stay attractive, sure. Or at least skin treatment or whatever its called. I'm certainly not going to try talking her out of it, her body, her choice.

[Opinion Owner]

I gave the people who thrashtalked surgery a dislike. Its not a bug.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Oh ok. It is ok. It is your right to dislike any post. I was just confused. I am sorry.

[ohshee]

No not even I would probably leave if she got it I think win any woman gets any kind of plastic surgery it takes away from her true and real Beauty

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

No. She can literally lose half of her face. She is still my wife.

[boggboss]

Thinks that a ridiculous idea

[boggboss]

Meh people do it all the time its fine to disagree with opinions

[hi_it_is_me123]

Yes it is ok but i was confused since every post got a dislike. Lol. It is perfectly ok to dislike any post

[Jamie05rhs]

Plastic surgery does NOT make you more attractive!!!

[Alexalex92]

No i would not want her to get plastic surgery