Would you date a woman with plastic surgery?

[Anonymous]

Yes, for sure

No

Does not matter

[SueShe]

If I was a boy, that would be the type of person to avoid at all cost.

A person undergoing plastic surgery when there is no medical requirement is just an indication that she is a superficial person that has no self confidence, that is succumbing to group/peer pressure to be like the others rather than to be a person of character and have her own opinion.

No, she has to be like all the others and not stand out. That gives me a pretty good indication of what type of personality that lady possesses and that is not the type of woman I would like to spend the rest of my life with. I want somebody that has character, personally but above all a good intellect.

[wingattebaby16]

I had plastic surgery when I was 14yo for severe burns and scarring.

If guys "generically" won't date a girl with Plastic Surgery, then I would fall in that category.

I know you are meaning stuff like Boob implants, lips, hips, butts, tummy tucks/liposuction, etc...

Before I started breastfeeding, I was gonna get breast implants to make me go from a small A up to a large C or small D.. I was that desperate... AND if a guy wouldn't date me then, his loss..

[roland77]

All is not real, including penis enlargement and always comes with a downside you cannot currently see, like later health issues (read other opinions here!).

[roland77]

Basically said it won't matter to me, as I mind more characteristics. But surely I don't like to touch plastic boobs (read: feels unrealistic) or where she later will have health issues with (read Internet).

No blame on her, but please really reconsider before doing this: Why do you REALLY need a plastic surgery on your boobs? On lips, that looks simply creepy or alien to me. And surely also a transgender is a clear no-go to me (guess why!).

For self-confidence I cannot agree allowing her doing that, I would always love her no matter how "small" her boobs are (small can be nice to grab, while big are nice for boobs-fuck).

[Yuri1970]

If it makes her happy to have it and helps her self esteem and self confidence, then it's her decision. If it's simply to impress me, I would tell her that I would like her with or without the surgery.

In short, it has nothing to do with what I like, but rather what makes that person happy.

[roland77]

Self-confidence should not come from plastic surgery, it should come from herself. I met a woman who has A size and she was not happy until I told her that I don't mind boobs size. We split later due to other concerns (her interest was in my non-existing money, not love) and I later found myself an African with D size and she is not after my money.

[Cdubs27]

@roland77 "Self-confidence should not come from plastic surgery". You're absolutely right, it should not. Unfortunately though self confidence does often come from SELF perception of your looks. Thus cosmetic surgery. Is it ideal, absolutely not. You'd wish confidence would be entirely intrinsic, but unfortunately that's not the reality.

[roland77]

@Cdubs27 Yeah, it isn't reality with all women. :-( I'm happy I found myself self-confident women so far, not those types asking us guys to pay expensive surgery for their "self-confidence" or "self-expression" thingy. I do down-vote such opinions here because it shows that their character is empty to me, means it has no class/style.

[Cdubs27]

@roland77 if they ask me to pay for it than that's a different story entirely.

[NaultD]

I got my front tooth punched out at 19. I went above and beyond to cosmetic surgery implant that cost $5000 over a courseof a year, that ultimately got me the ability to use the "th" sound in words like "tooth". Also stopped my lettuce in my burgers pulling out and flopping on my chin. Ultimately the best $5000 I've ever spent.

Just at the cost of my mental bandwidth of everyday life of focusing on my mouth for a year cost me more then $5000. From the day i got it out i was planning on getting it fixed. Couldn't imagine a life long anxiety that haunted me in the same way.

Cosmetic surgery is ultimately an investment. My own self image is more important. How is anyone going to like me when i hate myself. $5000 is an easy fix compared to my other problems.

[roland77]

@NaultD Did the lawsuit went well for you?

[NaultD]

@roland77 the fight was with my cousin that was already up shit creek without a paddle in terms of money, settlement was going to be more then it's worth paying a lawyer.

I still make the joke you own me half when he gets pissy at me. That's when we tell each other to fuck off. That's added value onto itself.

[roland77]

Okay, as long as it is fine with you both. Hope you can forgive one day (no religious forgiving).

[Dongtai]

We’d probably be dating before I even knew. That’s not something that comes up in a normal conversation unless she’s open about it. I can’t really tell if something is fake or not.

If it looked abnormal or something I’d most likely assume it’s a medical condition and wouldn’t ask about it. But plastic surgery wouldn’t be the first thing to pop to my mind unless someone pointed it out to me.

I’m gullible like that 😅. If she told me she had fake whatever I’d still date her. Unless she was trans.

[Badballie]

If it made her more desirable Definitely

[roland77]

@Badballie Depending on nothing? What if she was not self-confident with her "small" boobs and "needs bigger" for bigger self-confidence? Then that means a lot to me and I would probably not date her. Luckily mine has natural boobs (already saw them on authentic pictures of her).

[mistixs]

I think plastic surgery is generally immoral because it tells other women with the same body type that they're not good enough, & it gives profit to companies that profit off of making women feel bad about themselves

[roland77]

Exactly that is also why I don't like fake boobs/lips. It just helps some money-makers (CEOs/capitalists) nothing more and self-confidence can be archived without it very well.

[BeMuse]

If they got in a car accident and ended up with a big cut on their head and a plastic surgeon sewed it up to make sure they weren’t left with a visible scars then there is no issue there. If they aren’t happy being themselves and are getting nose jobs, fake tits, etc. then I’d avoid them if I notice it.

[DiamondHu]

For me, plastic surgery is very normal in my family.

Nearly all my friends and family have gone under the knife, I wouldn't do it myself because everything I want done I know I can fix myself. But as a kid, I didn't really understand this so I nearly got double eye-lid surgery. But luckily, during the time I was too busy to get an appointment.

[Cdubs27]

A persons body is their own. If they choose to get surgery for their own reasons than they shouldn't feel ashamed for doing so. Honestly, if you won't date someone because they've had surgery than that's more of a testament to your own poor character than theirs.

[Reaperbot666]

prefer a more natural look. over a fake look.

however if they had it done because they had an accident. so they just wanted to repair/replace the damaged area. to make it look close to how they looked before. then that would be fine by me.

borrowed this some another person but it fits well with my idea. *If its corrective surgery, yes. if its cosmetic surgery, no*

[lovedejj_xo]

2 of my friends have lip filler injections which they look kind of weird not bad but it’s their face. If it makes them happy then so be it. I would date a guy with reasonable plastic surgery. Like my friend had back Lipo don’t know the right word but no amount of exercise was getting rid of what he had.

[roland77]

And how about fake penis sizes, like penis enlargement? Mine is natural sized and I'm very happy about it. :-D "That looks biiig" was her comment. ;-)

[I-C3_ME]

Depends really, I've soon on reddit that some women use it to cover up ugly scars and i get that + I'm fine with that. For me personally the only way i wouldn't date someone that does plastic surgery is if it's a regular thing that for a non medical ( or mental) reason. Cuz it's does cost a lot of money and gives health problems apparently so that's a yes and no answer from me

[SjE78]

not gonna deliberately go after anyoen who has or doesn't have plastic surgery as i believe the personality is more attractive... and if they have a good personality then I know i'd find them attractive either way

[lacaras]

It depends, sometimes people get plastic surgery to reconstruct part of their face after being badly burned or something like that, and often that's not super noticable. The more subtle it is the better, if it's hugely (no pun intended) apparent they've had 'work' done, probably not.

[MyLastRemnant]

As long as it's not excessive. If they got some filler in their nose or some injections to keep wrinkles away then yea. I just dont want to date someone who looks like their face is made of melted plastic.

[pkiger]

Depends, if it's just a small adjustment, dont for more confidence. It's totally fine.

However, when it actually gets noticeable and isn't for confidence, but rather for actual looks. Then it's a big no. It looks awful, and the personality around someone doing it is just as awful

[Jjpayne]

It does not matter, she is still who she is on the inside

[Lynx122]

Depends. Generally I'm against it and often I think plastic surgery even when successful doesn't make the person look better. But there are some exeptions.

[Screenwriter]

If a person doesn't look ridiculous or obvious, it shouldn't matter.

[Lynx122]

@Screenwriter It does matter to me because it means the person doesn't like themselves the way they are and that's not a good thing.

[Screenwriter]

Actually, not true. Some folks get plastic surgery to correct physical and medical defects such as deviated septums, cleft palates, club foots, bad scars or other body problems. Sometimes the way we're born is outside the norm. I don't have a problem with corrective surgery. I think breast enlargement is foolish or turning every nose into something small and turned up is equally silly. If a nose is badly broken or twisted or difficult to breathe through, get it fixed.

[Lynx122]

@Screenwriter While not explicitly stated I think the question is about elective plastic surgery and not the kind you're talking about. They're two quite different things in my opinion.

[sevantroz]

Depends how apparent it is, the more plastic they seem the less attractive they are to me. I personally don't like Kim Kardashian body or Niki Minaj's body just to name some examples.

[Ripper_E]

Depends on how much she's altered herself and her reason for it. Kim Kardashian, as far as celebrities go was one of the most beautiful and attractive women in the world to me. Now she looks so different.

[MrKinktastic]

Boobs/lipo I don’t mind but Botox creates a look I don’t like. It would really vary on the individual and the quality of work.

[roland77]

Mrs. #Boombastic with boobs of plastic? ;-)

[MrKinktastic]

She’s fantastic! Lol

[roland77]

ROFL.

[Sensmind]

A version of C - It is not a dealbreaker but my personal preference is the natural look so obvious plastic surgery may cloud my judgement

[integrale77]

I would be willing to date a woman whose had plastic surgery but I would discourage her to have more if the situation came up