Depends on how much she's into it. If it was a one time thing or something she's always been self conscious about then not an issue. If she's always talking about it and seems addicted to it then no thanks.
I have. I don’t know if it was out of the normal or botched plastic surgery but her breasts felt like hard little tennis balls. I prefer natural. I also have a cousin whose implants ruptured. Years later she is still fight medical issues over it.
There's nothing wrong with changing it up a bit if its how you want to look. People should have the right to look how they want without being shamed for it. If they look in the mirror and like what they see when they didn't before, whats the issue?
thats not the question. just cos someone shouldn't shame them doesn't mean someone should want to date them. i would never date a girl with plastic surgery
@DeshawnMGTOW Most the people in the comments are shaming them, so that's what I was going on about. And I don't get that either. If it doesn't make them unattractive to you, I dont get the big deal. A lot of girls guys like have had nose jobs and they don't even know it.
@DeshawnMGTOW Lets play a game. Their is a theoretical girl that has an ugly face and guys won't date her because of it. She has facial reconstructive surgery and now she's a 10. You still won't date this girl because now she's "fake". If you won't date this girl one way or another it's a reflection of your character, not hers. I get that this is opinion based, but that doesn't mean a person doesn't have the right to call somebody else out on a shitty opinion.
@Cdubs27 there is no facial reconstructive surgery that turns a girl who is "ugly" into a 10. and that is some grade A bullshit. I dont want to be with someone who feels the need to waste gigantic amounts of money on something superficial. I think plastic surgery is creepy af and it also has health risks.
My opinion is completely valid. I saw some dude asked a question bout men wearing fake hair last week and many women were saying theyd be turned off. I didn't see your white knight ass coming there telling them their opinion was shitty because they wanted to date someone natural.
@DeshawnMGTOW Exactly that is what most people don't put into their head/heart: health risks! Look around on search engine how many surgeries went horribly wrong and the woman/guy (penis enlargement can go badly wrong, too) is getting nothing back in damage (lawsuit failed).
@DeshawnMGTOW 1. I'll repeat, that is a theoretical girl in a theoretical situation. It was only designed to paint a picture. If you can't see or understand that picture, than that's a you problem.
2. Quit with the deflections, them being willing to take a risk (albeit usually a small one depending on the surgery) is completely up to them and completely unrelated to your reasoning about whether you would date them. Additionally, pointing to a different situation that affects guys has no impact on your opinion here. That's just another form of deflection.
3. I never invalidated your opinion. I said you have a shitty opinion. Example: You can have a completely logistical opinion about a certain racial culture, but that doesn't mean your opinion isn't racist as fuck.
4. You can use as many words as you want, but at the end of the day if you can't date someone because they had cosmetic surgery than all it means is that you're mad judgy.
@Cdubs27 Please come back to topic (means what @tiajoka writes) or go PM with him. I won't like my girlfriend if she has undergone a plastic surgery for only "feeling better" or so simply because that means no self-confidence in her to me. And I will ask her opinion about this for you. :-)
As I can speak only for myself, I *prefer* real, means natural boobs, lips and pussy, not dislike plastic at all unless it feels unreal and/or could mean health issues to her. I want her to be healthy and not a "perfect body woman" or so.
What Roland77 said. Claiming im deflectin just cos you can't answer is invalid. The reason why you can't answer is because we have VALID opinions and you some white knight SIMP who is just tryna defend women rather than use your brain.
People are attracted to what they attracted to. We don't like women who feel the need to be fake and waste thousands on surgery that is NOT needed and has health risks. Stfu with your judgy accusation bullshit.
@roland77 this is going to sound super rude and i'm sorry for this but my response was to deshawns response of "just cos someone shouldn't shame them doesn't mean someone should want to date them. i would never date a girl with plastic surgery", nobody was ever actually talking to you. So don't come at me with that "please come back on topic" remark unless you call him out on it as well. As for your comments about surgeries that have gone "horribly wrong", while that is true it is more a scare tactic. While surgery is always a risk, the chances of something going wrong are not actually super common (statistically speaking). In fact usually the issue is that the patient didn't do their homework and went to a doctor that was cheaper but had a bad reputation. Over 50% of malpractice suits were performed by only 5% of doctors ( healthresearchfunding.org/.../ line 38).
@roland77 most people who get surgery do so because of some sort of insecurity. If you won't date her because of a lack of confidence than power to you for preferring women with a strong sense of self. Although I always appreciate the opinion of somebody that has experienced it (your girlfriend), that does not mean the experience of one is a representation of the whole.
@Cdubs27 Okay, I told her I love her also (not only) because of her boobs are nice to me. But to be honest I value more characteristics over boob size or any other proportionals like 90-60-90 (centimeters in circumference).
With the exeption of an accident like she I don't know had been in a fire and her breasts burned down or aynthing like that. No. If you can't accept what you have or work naturaly towards it... no
Was it for medical reasons? How does it look? Because the Jenner girl, im honestly not sure which one that is, looked way better before the surgeries. I remember that much.
Date sure. Marry nope. A friend had breast implants. He teenage daughter wonders why she isn't developing like her mom. Awkward conversation ensued. Daughter crushed she will never look like mommy. Poor kid.
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Depends on how much she's into it. If it was a one time thing or something she's always been self conscious about then not an issue. If she's always talking about it and seems addicted to it then no thanks.
I have. I don’t know if it was out of the normal or botched plastic surgery but her breasts felt like hard little tennis balls. I prefer natural. I also have a cousin whose implants ruptured. Years later she is still fight medical issues over it.
Consequences sometimes doesn't matter to this "over-all-beauty" ladies... sadly!
There's nothing wrong with changing it up a bit if its how you want to look. People should have the right to look how they want without being shamed for it. If they look in the mirror and like what they see when they didn't before, whats the issue?
thats not the question. just cos someone shouldn't shame them doesn't mean someone should want to date them. i would never date a girl with plastic surgery
@DeshawnMGTOW Most the people in the comments are shaming them, so that's what I was going on about. And I don't get that either. If it doesn't make them unattractive to you, I dont get the big deal. A lot of girls guys like have had nose jobs and they don't even know it.
cos people dont want someone who is fake. thats why dudes be out here takin girls swimming on a first date to see em without makeup
@DeshawnMGTOW Lets play a game. Their is a theoretical girl that has an ugly face and guys won't date her because of it. She has facial reconstructive surgery and now she's a 10. You still won't date this girl because now she's "fake". If you won't date this girl one way or another it's a reflection of your character, not hers.
I get that this is opinion based, but that doesn't mean a person doesn't have the right to call somebody else out on a shitty opinion.
@Cdubs27 Thank you dubs
@Cdubs27 there is no facial reconstructive surgery that turns a girl who is "ugly" into a 10. and that is some grade A bullshit. I dont want to be with someone who feels the need to waste gigantic amounts of money on something superficial. I think plastic surgery is creepy af and it also has health risks.
My opinion is completely valid. I saw some dude asked a question bout men wearing fake hair last week and many women were saying theyd be turned off. I didn't see your white knight ass coming there telling them their opinion was shitty because they wanted to date someone natural.
@DeshawnMGTOW Exactly that is what most people don't put into their head/heart: health risks! Look around on search engine how many surgeries went horribly wrong and the woman/guy (penis enlargement can go badly wrong, too) is getting nothing back in damage (lawsuit failed).
We have to stop that bullshit-industry!
@DeshawnMGTOW 1. I'll repeat, that is a theoretical girl in a theoretical situation. It was only designed to paint a picture. If you can't see or understand that picture, than that's a you problem.
2. Quit with the deflections, them being willing to take a risk (albeit usually a small one depending on the surgery) is completely up to them and completely unrelated to your reasoning about whether you would date them. Additionally, pointing to a different situation that affects guys has no impact on your opinion here. That's just another form of deflection.
3. I never invalidated your opinion. I said you have a shitty opinion. Example: You can have a completely logistical opinion about a certain racial culture, but that doesn't mean your opinion isn't racist as fuck.
4. You can use as many words as you want, but at the end of the day if you can't date someone because they had cosmetic surgery than all it means is that you're mad judgy.
@Cdubs27 Please come back to topic (means what @tiajoka writes) or go PM with him. I won't like my girlfriend if she has undergone a plastic surgery for only "feeling better" or so simply because that means no self-confidence in her to me. And I will ask her opinion about this for you. :-)
As I can speak only for myself, I *prefer* real, means natural boobs, lips and pussy, not dislike plastic at all unless it feels unreal and/or could mean health issues to her. I want her to be healthy and not a "perfect body woman" or so.
What Roland77 said. Claiming im deflectin just cos you can't answer is invalid. The reason why you can't answer is because we have VALID opinions and you some white knight SIMP who is just tryna defend women rather than use your brain.
People are attracted to what they attracted to. We don't like women who feel the need to be fake and waste thousands on surgery that is NOT needed and has health risks. Stfu with your judgy accusation bullshit.
@roland77 this is going to sound super rude and i'm sorry for this but my response was to deshawns response of "just cos someone shouldn't shame them doesn't mean someone should want to date them. i would never date a girl with plastic surgery", nobody was ever actually talking to you. So don't come at me with that "please come back on topic" remark unless you call him out on it as well.
As for your comments about surgeries that have gone "horribly wrong", while that is true it is more a scare tactic. While surgery is always a risk, the chances of something going wrong are not actually super common (statistically speaking). In fact usually the issue is that the patient didn't do their homework and went to a doctor that was cheaper but had a bad reputation. Over 50% of malpractice suits were performed by only 5% of doctors ( healthresearchfunding.org/.../ line 38).
@roland77 most people who get surgery do so because of some sort of insecurity. If you won't date her because of a lack of confidence than power to you for preferring women with a strong sense of self. Although I always appreciate the opinion of somebody that has experienced it (your girlfriend), that does not mean the experience of one is a representation of the whole.
@Cdubs27 Okay, I told her I love her also (not only) because of her boobs are nice to me. But to be honest I value more characteristics over boob size or any other proportionals like 90-60-90 (centimeters in circumference).
@roland77 I mean i'd hope boob size wouldn't be the primary reason you love a girl! 🤣
@Cdubs27 Sure thing, characteristics matter most to me.
It depends on what kind and how it looks... also if she does it while we are together... as in she is altering the person I fell for.
I dont like people trying to be plastic, natural is better
Thank for finding nature as most beautiful.
Hard to say, but if it was something minor or to fix an injury, then I probably wouldn't care too much.
With the exeption of an accident like she I don't know had been in a fire and her breasts burned down or aynthing like that. No. If you can't accept what you have or work naturaly towards it... no
Much less likely as its usually a turn off for me and also an indication she is not compatible with me on a mental front.
I feel as though I won't be dateable (if ever) because I would be needing a breast lift after breastfeeding 😖
No, you won't. My ex has good boobs still after giving breastfeed (unsuccessful for both my daughter and me).
Lol lucky her. Me not so
@arabgoddess oh, sorry to hear for you. I surely hope your husband/boyfriend loves you a lot and doesn't mind?
Was it for medical reasons? How does it look? Because the Jenner girl, im honestly not sure which one that is, looked way better before the surgeries. I remember that much.
All I care about is that I find the woman attractive. I couldn't care less how much or how little cosmetic surgery she's had.
Date sure. Marry nope.
A friend had breast implants. He teenage daughter wonders why she isn't developing like her mom. Awkward conversation ensued. Daughter crushed she will never look like mommy. Poor kid.
That's not something unique to PS parents. I don't have my dad's nose or his hair either.
Yeah but little girls want to be like mommy. The deception crushed her. Your dad didn't cause you any false illusions.
Yeah, because I was raised to be resilient.
id date a guy with plastic surgery. As long as they looked cute before too or had a kind personality.
Nope if I was already dating her I would give her the benefit of the doubt. But if I already knew probably wouldn't pursue her.
No, just because i don't like girls with a lot of curves (i prefer flat ones, more interesting for me)
If it’s reconstructive like from an accident or to correct a birth defect yes. If it was for pure vanity no
Nose job or other cosmetic surgery, maybe.
Boob job, no.
Those Kardashians look ridiculous, not great. That is what happens when you exagerate.
I mean, Ken loved Barbie even though she was 100% plastic...
Well, she DID go to a lot of trouble and expense to LOOK more attractive, but, from what I've seen, most of them didn't need it!!