Should I be patient? Is it worth the wait?

[Anonymous]

I'm so confused, yet again I feel like I'm on the right track.

I have been having a crush on this guy for 7 months. He's a year grader older than me. I have already kinda confessed my feelings to him. I kept being patient because my gut feeling told me so. Although I'm not sure if I should keep being patient anymore. Plus, he's giving me the vibe of hot n cold. One day, he seems interested in me while the other no. I don't like talking about my feelings to others such as my school friends since they usually joke around and spread the information to everyone. Recently, my school friends keep asking me if I have a crush and I usually don't know what to say so I just hope they forget the question of saying no. Feeling really guilty about lying. I just don't want people getting involved with my feelings... I'm so confused yet again I feel like the universe is telling me to be patient for just a little. If it didn't, I would've already lost feelings for him...
I only had a little bit of attraction toward him at the beginning but now it changed to something unexplainable.

Yes

No

Let time know

You should find someone else or give up

[caring__1]

The two of you are young and inexperienced. It could be he's afraid of how a relationship might impact his life. For whatever reason, his actions are saying he's not open to starting something with you, even if he may desire it. It's just the wrong time and place. Be his friend, but don't seek out more than that at this time. The two of you may connect in the future, but if you connect before he's ready you'll doom any possibility of connecting in the future. Never put your life on hold in hopes of a happily ever after. When people are ready and interested, they'll make it known to you.

[Twalli]

Go for it. The worst that can happen is why it's hard for guys to ask girls out.

[crossdressingrihno]

You're young and he's young
Theirs potential for the relationship to grow but before then both of you need t grow as individuals

[Iron_Man]

Wait till you turn 18 in