Polls: Relationships

#Arguing #Relationship #Relationships #ToxicRelationships

I've heard about couples loving each other and staying together for more than 20+ years, yet they're arguing ca. 2 - 3 times daily. Not about major things like economy, but minor things like having too loud sound on the TV, standing in the front of the fridge without moving so the other partner can grab something, the way the other person words themselves or said the wrong word although it was obviously what they meant, complaining about the SO's short attention span, about a silly joke that didn't make fun of anyone and so on.

A similar argument I've heard about earlier:
Partner 1: - I've heard about the new president. What do you think?
Partner 2: - Nice weather outside.
1: - Did you paid attention to what I said?
2: - Yes, I did. He's a funny guy. I wants to go outside.
1: - OMG!!! You didn't pay attention to what I said and didn't answer my question. What do you think about him? His policies!!!
2: - Do it matter?
1: - I wants to hear your opinion. You're just ignoring me and I'm so fricking annoyed now.
2: *Leave the room*
1: *Finds the SO* - If you don't want to talk about it, just tell me. If you're not interested, tell me. Say sorry for your behavior.
2: - I'm interested.
1: - Say sorry. Go on!
2: - I'm so sorry. Going to listening to you next time, honey!
1: - Thanks. But you're obviously not interested. *Leave*

Does being a short and skinny built guy with soft slim hands make a guy undesirable , a turn off and mostly undateable guy according to your personal opinion?

"Because women in truth exist entirely for the propagation of the race, and their destiny ends here..." - Of Women, 1851

"On the other hand, women are inferior to men in matters of justice, honesty, and conscientiousness. Again, because their reasoning faculty is weak..." - Of Women, 1851
"Nature has not destined them, as the weaker sex, to be dependent on strength but on cunning; this is why they are instinctively crafty, and have an ineradicable tendency to lie." - Of Women, 1851


"It is only the man whose intellect is clouded by his sexual instinct that could give that stunted, narrow-shouldered, broad-hipped, and short-legged race the name of the fair sex; for the entire beauty of the sex is based on this instinct. One would be more justified in calling them the unaesthetic sex than the beautiful. Neither for music, nor for poetry, nor for fine art have they any real or true sense and susceptibility, and it is mere mockery on their part, in their desire to please, if they affect any such thing." - Of Women, 1851

All I see i GAG is women bitching and whining about men, Constantly complaing that men won't bend to their will and do what they want. I know there are a lot if desperate guys out there that ruin it by being desperate but it seems guys are starting to turn this game around. You can tell by the constant female whining and literally every question from a girl is either them blaming men or critizing them for not kneeling before them its nice to see i hope its not just a fad. It seems like many women are unhappy which is strange because i thought the women movement was supposed to bring them strength

give reason to answer im interested to see what people have to say, am i right or is it just happening a lot in this certain time frame

So my girlfriend... though we've only officially been in a relationship for like 2 weeks, we've known each other for a solid 6 months: 6 months of talking in class, working together on class assignments, and laughing together. Plus, she was just so damn cute.

Eventually, I couldn't hold my feelings in anymore, and told her I liked her... and to my surprise, she accepted.

Yesterday we went on our first date. It was a date that lasted basically the whole day... we jogged together in the morning in gym clothes/shorts... then we drove to the beach, and sunbathed and played in the water in our swimsuits... and then when it got dark, we dressed up a little, and we got some dinner. We made sure to pay 50/50 for the dinner. The food was delicious, and being with the cute girl I love made it 100x better.

Then, we went to her house, and chilled there for a bit... talking a bit more... we played video games for a bit... then, when it was time for me to leave and go back to my own house, right when I was at the door, I literally said: "I haven't felt this much emotion towards someone in my life except for my parents... I usually don't say this to people, basically, literally never, but I love you!"

At first she seemed kind of shocked, and she started to blush quite a bit, but then her mouth curved into a smile, she looked super happy, she ran up to me, hugged me super tight, and said: "I love you too, sweetie! More than anything!"

I hugged her tightly back... we stayed like this for several seconds... then at about the same time we let go, she pecked me on the lips, and said, "Take care, sweetie! Love you! Never forget that!"

I said, "I won't!" and exited her house.

Overall, I think it literally couldn't have gone any better... but the thing is, "I love you" is supposed to be a big thing, and I literally said it on the FIRST date... did I make a fool of myself?