You fall in love with a friend of yours, you let them know how you really feel in the last couple of months, but they never thought of you being more than just a friend, & they definitely don't feel the same way too, specially when you know you almost have 0% chance of being more than friends. Even if that feeling has been for almost a year now. And it's almost impossible thinking about that person as just friends anymore no matter how hard you try to convince yourself there isn't anything else.
You love & care so much about that special person it seems impossible to let go. What would you do in this case?
Please consider that staying friends with someone you love might have several consequences on your futur life when being in love with someone that hard.
1- it will eat you alive frome the inside knowing you have no chance of becoming more than just friends.
2- you'll be hurting yourself everyday specially when the day comes & you find them with someone else so it might kill you emotionally.
3- you will be hurting only yourself thinking about that person everyday & keeping them all the time in you mind & heart when that person barely showing signs that they care about you not even 10% of what you're showing to them.
4- if you stayed friends it will be so hard for you to find someone else & if you did, you might ruin that relationship because of your love to your friend.
5- this friendship causes more harm than good
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Alright if you develop such 'love' for a female and you can't emotionally just friend zone that chick... I'm going to bet money that you didn't try to fuck when you first wanted to fuck, but instead acted like you just wanted to be friends.
These types of dudes are being chicken shits with their fear of rejection. Hit on her, if she rejects you, fucking friend zone that chick to platonic town or leave her alone (find some willing vadge somewhere else)... but don't become her orbitor male that is lusting after her in secret until he develops feelings and starts calling every fucking guy that is dicking her down and not putting up with her stupid bullshit a asshole.
Because he is not the asshole, that beta orbiter is the real asshole. He's fake... pretends to just be a friend... but he's just hoping to fuck the entire time. ... and for you ladies that keep these guys around you, chick, that's like hanging out with a rapist. Isn't there a statistic that usually a rape happens by someone you know? I'm just saying.