Would you consider yourself a hopeless romantic?

[YvanKarma]

You constantly find yourself back on dating sites trying

As much as you would like to give up on dating, you just can't

Still hoping to find that potential partner regardless of how many times you've been hurt and whatnot

😩😩😩😩

Yes

No

[crazy8000]

Could fly either way.
Depends on the other one.

[MannMitAntworten]

Not remotely.

[Femdomina]

I can be romantic, but not hopeless.

[Femdomina]

Thank you for MHO :)

[YvanKarma]

Sure thing

[Secret6620]

Most definitely 🌸💗🌸

[YvanKarma]

Well, you do currently have someone :) so lets hope it lasts

[Secret6620]

Fingers crossed ♥️🥰

[Secret6620]

Thanks for mho ♥️🥰

[Cynicaldreamer]

Nah, my romantic side is dead. As in DNR (do not resuscitate).

I seriously can't tell you the last time I logged on a dating site... a couple of years ago maybe? Last time I tried to pursue someone was last year, when I asked out a guy I knew- but he friendzoned me and never spoke to me again 😑

I have the, "If the right guy comes along, great. If not, oh well..." mentality. It's much less disappointing that way.

[OrangeBoy2]

Wish you the best. While I feel exactly the same as you, please don't let your guard down because later you might wish you could have been a little bit more active meeting new people.

I'm just saying this because I have a great friend that's 40's now and she just feels sad and like she could've done more to be happier at the present time.

[OrangeBoy2]

Well I mean, I have a very romantic side of mine, ready to be used when I feel that makes sense. So, almost like you. Don't forget that side of yours also.

[CassMi]

I know how you feel. I've only really been on three dates and they haven't worked out. I feel myself that time is running out for me to find someone, I know it's not entirely true but it does make me feel incredibly depressed that I haven't met someone by now. I'm not giving up though as much as I have the same thing in my head "if I meet someone great if not oh well" I do have another side of me that really never wants to give up, I think that side is stronger and I want to show myself I am a good looking guy and I can meet someone who wants me for who I am. I think what I'm trying to say is don't give up, I don't know you nor do I know what you look like etc but I'm sure your a great girl and someone will come along that can see that too. 👍

[YvanKarma]

@CassMi Nah we are both still young. Some people tend to find their loved ones and a much later time. But that is where the problem with many is, they don't want a later time, cos they feel whats the point on having it all at the age of 50 and such lol

[Cynicaldreamer]

@ OrangeBoy2 well that's just it: I AM happy as is! It seems when I was trying to find someone, chase after unrequited crushes and love, it only left me bitter and miserable. Like there's only SO much rejection a person can take before they finally say, "Nope, romance isn't for me. Not right now."

But now that I have my job, friends, and focused on fitness? I'm sincerely content with my life.

I'm not saying I'm opposed to dating or relationships, but why stress myself out if I don't have to?

[OlderAndWiser]

I am not a hopeless romantic. I am a hopeful romantic!

[FatherJack]

Quite the reverse !! Single parent , so realistic , women have vast numbers of men without baggage to choose from , and do not want to endure another relationship , after the marrige I ended , can relate to the responses of @Cynicaldreamer and also @SexyAshh to a great degree , less BS to deal with being single too !!

[FatherJack]

I get affection from my crazy , lovable ferret. Miss Woolworth.. just wish she would let me get some unbroken sleep , shattered @ work today , finished earlier.

[MittenstheGlove]

I am a hopeless romantic. I’ve continued to thrust myself into romance in hopes of finding love, but I probably never will and quickly am losing faith.

@aa180 The “R” tidbit is very fascinating when I put it in context.

[aa180]

Not quite sure what you're saying tbh

[MittenstheGlove]

Well, when you think about what stimulates female fantasy, men that are still attempting to be romantic typically represent something completely different.

It’s actually very sad.

[aa180]

Yeah I hear ya

[aa180]

Nah, not since I found out what a girl's idea of romance is..

[YvanKarma]

And what is a girl's idea of romance? do you base it on every girl?

[aa180]

It starts with an "R"..

And I just assume it's every girl cause it happens to be the number one female fantasy, even if not every girl will be into it.

[YvanKarma]

R? please do explain what this R is, cos i don't quite follow lol

Let me learn something for today hahaa

[aa180]

Rape (fantasy)..

[YvanKarma]

Uhmmm ohkaaaay lol

[Lliam]

A romantic, yes. Hopeless, no.
Even though I am a romantic at heart, I don't just surrender myself to impulses or feelings. I balance my emotions with intellect.

[OrangeBoy2]

To be honest I don't use sites or apps to find people, just because I'm not in the mood, mentally exausted at the moment, buuut, I want to invest in making great friends. That's how we find the most special people.

[SexyAshh]

No im extremly logical, romance is kind of uncomfortable to me. Im way too detached in that sense and it takes me forever to drop my guard to allow it

[brebre234]

I use to now I gave up. Whoever's right for me will come along. Dating websites are dangerous now a days.

[Meditatingsquirrel79]

The worst is I have Epilepsy. I am an introvert too. Women give me nice looks at me, I want to talk but can't.

[Clo917]

Not offhand. Romance makes me feel incredibly awkward and uncomfortable.

[dog1712]

Definitely I've gave up on dating to much hard work

[YvanKarma]

then you are not a hopeless romantic if you have given up on it lol

[dog1712]

Ok I was a hopeless romantic lol

[YvanKarma]

hahahaa

[Rangers]

Yes, but I've decided to drop it down on my priority list

[HereIbe]

Nah, I'm a Don't Give a Fuck Curmudgeon.

That way, it's an actual pleasant surprise when I spring for flowers--FOR NO SPECIFIC REASON.

[Scarecrow13]

I used to be, then I gave up for a while. Now I am trying different approaches.

[Travis_Skyles]

Are you a hopeless romantic?

[YvanKarma]

yes i am

[Bluebot]

Yeah, pretty much sounds like me lol

[CoffeeWC]

More like a hopeless aromantic

[YvanKarma]

Hahaha

[MissDawn7961]

and I will keep on until? Thanks

[tartaarsaus]

Nope. I've never made a single attempt at romance

[Anonymous]

I’d say I am. I fall in love too easily.

[itsthatgurl]

Me too😣

[Lance1965]

Nope. One thing I lack is a romantic side.

[CassMi]

I'm pretty useless when it comes to dating

[Dav1ss]

I am stupidly naive

[CT_CD]

No. Romance is gross

[Slim57]

Yeah I am