Are you a hopeless romantic?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I must confess, I am.

[dynamicyandere]

Definition: A hopeless romantic is someone who continues to believe in love, no matter the struggles they might have experienced in the past. They choose to see the positive in relationships over the negative, believing wholeheartedly that love conquers all.

Yes, I would say I am a hopeless romantic.


Love is such a powerful driving force to me and I believe that true love really can overcome anything.


It’s a part of my soul—I’ll always be a loving being and I’ll always value love above everything else.


I believe deep down, what drives me to work so hard to improve myself and achieve my goals and dreams is so that I will feel worthy of love—to become the best version of myself, because I believe the best version of myself is worthy of love.


But love is given—it’s not earned.


It’s the best of gifts.


Yet, subconsciously, I want to make sure that I feel worthy of receiving it. And that’s probably why I work so hard—to feel worthy.


It’s just how I’m wired.

[dynamicyandere]

I suppose it’s kind of like the billionaire who grew up poor and never wants to be poor again.

I grew up with parents that had a loveless marriage, and I never want to experience that myself.

[cecisb1299]

Beautifully said

[dynamicyandere]

@cecisb1299 Thanks! 🙂

[Constatine]

Sorry, me too.

Before i met the one...( Take three )

I found that " lets call it old school " romance is dying.

People are running around.. with their phones posting on twitter, facebook , instagram... No eye anymore for the real world. Talking about their " friends " online.

I like to walk in the woods, look up at night to see nature in all it glory. Sitting side by side close in the cold snow around a campfire warped together in a blanket getting warm..

Most of the people i know look at me as if i'm the complete idiot. Maybe i am an idiot but a romantic one...

[molonski2]

Nice contribution , well said.

[Constatine]

@molonski2 thank you 😁

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I think outdoor & indoor picnics sound like a good idea. Making a picnic romantic just sounds cute to me! Now, how those turn out might be a different story all together, I'm sure.

[Anonymous]

I don't know, i think i used to be, but with how much i've been struggling and how i've been treated, not so much anymore.

[ItsChloe1999]

Yes and no. I can get fuckboys to fall in love with me very quickly but then I ghost them the next day and repeat.

[Jennz6]

@itschloe1999 that sounds like a good idea 💃

[ItsChloe1999]

@Jennz6 it’s the best way to go, no strings attached that way, unless one the fuckboys wants to keep my gstring. Which is a request I regularly get.

[Jennz6]

@itschloe1999 I could learn a lot from you 💯💃

[Jennz6]

@itschloe1999 I would like to message you

[Z1pTD]

@Jennz6 not you too lol

[ItsChloe1999]

@Z1pTD what? Afraid she’ll learn all my slutty secrets.

[Z1pTD]

I'm afraid of that too 🤣
Breaking hearts is cold lol if you wanna hookup just hookup without making them love you

[ItsChloe1999]

@Z1pTD that’s my aim usually but I can’t help that all these fuckboys fall for me!

[Z1pTD]

Lol aw shucks

[Staximus]

If you can have any guy you want, why would you settle for some fuckboy? Good way to get stds. Part of being a high value woman is staying away from low value men.

[Finchie40]

Sorry to say but that’s pretty fowl if you only want fuck boys , aren’t you worried about STD’s? I know people that have them and it’s absolutely disgusting and they are sadly ruined for life because they would just fuck whoever they found attractive , Don’t get me wrong , I love sex , but I only love sex with a girl that only wants sex with me , not a girl that has been around the block a bunch of times that’s classified as a whore. I don’t care how attractive someone looks if they don’t have morals and sleeping around like it’s no big deal then she isn’t the girl for me period , Of I ended up ducking a girl like that , I would be more disappointed then happy and my ass would be going to the doctors to get tested for STD’s , Not worth it my hand is safer

[love_conquers_lust]

Weren’t you busted for catfishing?

[AviatorTom]

I wouldn't say I'm hopeless, but I do enjoy romance.

[OlderAndWiser]

I'll give you a hint: I took my girlfriend back to the restaurant where we had our first date so I could propose to her where we first met, and now I am planning to sing to my bride at our wedding.

[Gent207-2]

I live off of cheesy romantic activities. Those lovey dovey texts, poems, slow dancing, candlight, starlight. I live for it

I miss it greatly

[Finchie40]

Nowadays yes because I know I want to fall in love gain but finding the right girl hasn’t been easy these days , Most girls I meet are on it for the short haul basically , they love you in the beginning and things are great bet then all of a sudden they get bored of you and trade you in for someone else , Selfish whores I tell ya

[CatVader]

Love exists! and is worth fighting for.
but i also believe it is not for me. - I gave up.
Sometimes when watching mushy stories, eyes do get misty.
the bitter pain sometimes presents itself but is weared away with the notion that all kids in this world are my kids under God. they are holy.

- sideshow bob

[Miristheiss]

Yes and no.

The younger I was the more hopelessly romantic I was. The older I get, I've lived life, I have a wife, I have a college degree, I have a job, I have a mortgage, I have kids, I have in-laws, I pay taxes, I see the raunchy hook up culture... etc. I grow less and less romantic as I get older.

[Grond21]

I am definitely a romantic. Not hopeless, though.

Auto perhaps more romantic than some because I do enjoy occasional romance movies. I love Pride and Prejudice though.

[soe11]

I am not Dear.

• Be a positive
• Be a constructive
• Be an optimistic

[PBandJ_Nerd]

What is considered a hopeless romantic? I think about having a partner or daydream what a first actual date might be like and that sort of stuff. So I do have love and romance on the mind.

[Sparkie460]

I try my best to be romantic. Being hopeless is another issue

[Guido]

Not hopeless but I am definitely a romantic at heart.

[JDavid25]

Yeah I am... I just can't help looking forward to finding the love of my life one day.. Even after all the let downs..

[HappyWoman34]

Lol my aunt burst out laughing and said; ‘You’re NOT romantic!’ Hahahaha

[serious]

No, I am not.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

How do you manage not to be?

[serious]

@lafemmefatale_1

I think I did not explain properly. I apologize.

What I meant is I am romantic in my own ways but not too much. However, that does not matter either.

I am not hopeless romantic. How I manage not to be?

That is tough to explain and that has a lot to do with my thought process on the whole and I have always been single so whatever romantic side is present in me I will never get a chance to show that. That is why I said earlier it does not matter.

That's okay I am just saying.

[love_conquers_lust]

I’m supposed to say yes. But my preferences and stances piss a lot of people off on here. Not very welcoming.

[cecisb1299]

I think I long to be loved in the way that I love people. I just love human beings so much. It gets lonely however waiting for it to be reciprocated

[Nik1hil]

I am and it's a curse!..

I don't have good looks or a fortune..

[Starrrboy]

I am... I be just started talking to a girl but already thinking about pet names for her and what's her favorite everything lol

[myabe123]

I used to be, but no one was ever interested in me in the slightest that I was interested in that way.

[Anonymous]

I'm hopeless romantic guy.

I'm very romantic guy.

Been unlucky since last few years and single nowadays too. 😒

I want a babe to hold her hands and hug her all day.

[LiamJHayden]

No, I'm a hopeful one.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Glad to know

[clampfan101]

Definitely. Unfortunately I’m still looking for someone…

[Andres77]

Sorta? But I’m also cynical. Too much scar tissue.

[Nerdvana]

Unfortunately yes.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Why, unfortunately?

[KrakenAttackin]

Unfortunately, "romance" in the modern usage means emptying the mans wallet for trips, shiny things, and expensive dinners.

[Elinnnor]

I am, I love those little romantic things. I feel like they make the bond stronger

[Luckycharms12]

Maybe a little if I'm honest don't show it outwardly

[JimmyjamesB]

Yes I actually am, romance is an important thing to me and being a pisces helps
Because Pisces are dreamers and theoretical thinkers

[Nikki1989]

Absolutely, and my husband even more so.

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

I used to be. Not anymore.

[Simslover92]

Yes I am but my boyfriend not so much.

[Anonymous]

You don't have to confess. It's obvious

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

How is that obvious?

[Opinion Owner]

Get some self awareness

[DizzyDesii]

Yea And proudly

[BobbieBoy666]

I can be at times. 💞

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Nope.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Why not?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Because I'm not. I can't force myself to be something that's not me.

I like to hug and kiss a lot but nice romantic kindle light dinner and bs like that isn't for me.

[msc545]

Not hardly.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Good for you.

[justabuddy]

As hopeless as they come.

[Fireguy17]

kind of sort of.

[MissBoogus]

I think so

[Jennz6]

No, not me

[Guardian45]

Why not?

[LavLavLuv]

Maybe.. I am

[TonyMetal___86]

What does a hopeless romantic means?

[Luopio27]

Define hopeless romantic!

[McKellar]

So am I.

[Guardian45]

God, yesssss!

[legalboxers]

I am...

[moa_jade]

short answer : yes

[eagle1951]

yess

[ohmyguy]

mostly just hopeless

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Haha

[Jersey2]

F no. :D

[Minahh]

💯 yes

[Twalli]

Not hopeless.

[BLP11520]

Probably am❤️