Are you a hopeless romantic?

[Anonymous]

I can’t help but know someday my perfect man is going to walk into my life and he will be my best friend and lover in one.

It could be soon, it could be in 20 years.

But I won’t settle for anything less.

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Guys this question was inspired by a movie I just watched lol

[OlderAndWiser]

"someday my perfect man is going to walk into my life" Maybe, but perfect people. . . I don't think they exist. Maybe you should just be waiting for a guy who loves you, makes you feel extraordinarily special, and you love him so much that you are willing to tolerate his faults.

[Asker]

Perfect for me *

[OfMiceandMen]

I am somewhat. I always think about the things I would do with her when we are together and I am not referring to sex.

The places we would travel, things we would see, the intimate friendship/bond we would cultivate.

[Asker]

I definitely think about that too. All the time.

[motownplayer2000]

Haha, that’s where you messed up. No one is perfect. See women have a f*cked up perception of love. The fact that you believe that anyone is “perfect” let alone a “perfect guy” is absurd. Lol you will probably continue to be single because at some point you will have to settle for somethings. Just like guys have to settle for somethings in women.
And the worse part is, you said it was inspired by a movie. Movies are the worse examples of what love is. Love is getting too imperfect people and working through those imperfects and building each other up to create a beautiful union. I alway say, there are no 10/10. The closest anyone can come is a 9/10 and that’s extremely rare, I think the closet people are are 6-7/10 considering all the factors you want in a person.
I hate to be the one that’s logical, but you keep your standards as high as the movies dictate, you will probably be married and divorced before you turn 30. We need to change the perceptions of relationships. It’s not I’ll meet the perfect person and live happily ever after, it’s I’ll meet someone who checks most of my boxes and we will work together to get as close to the the others as possible depending on how hard he/she wants to work to preserve the relationship.


Get these dumb movies out of your head.. it’s crazy how women say porn heaps unrealistic expectations on women to perform in bed, well romantic movies are exactly the same for what women want in men. If a woman things that’s not that hard or obtainable, then the porn fantasies men have for women are completely obtainable as well. Keep the same energy.

[RealMarek]

Yes, but I think it caused me to work too hard to make relationships work that were not supposed to work. Eventually I found my person but a hopeless romantic can tend to try too hard for someone who doesn’t deserve it, so be careful.

[Asker]

Awww

[MementoMori777]

I don't know but I'm not sitting around and waiting, I'm getting other shit done

[Asker]

What other shit? :)

[MementoMori777]

Wealth, success, getting settled, stuff like that, what were you thinking 😂

[Asker]

😂😂😂😂 I was thinking nothing

[MementoMori777]

I don't believe that but okay 😂

[Asker]

Looool why won’t you believe me

[MementoMori777]

Cause you replied, this was not the type of comment you usually reply too, and when you replied, what you ask? 😂😂😂

[Asker]

😂😂😂😂haha you’re right

[MementoMori777]

Mhm lol

[Asker]

Hahahaha

[Gingerbread_GB]

Good for you, as long as you are willing to wait.

Best thing to do is to better yourself. When men are more attracted to you, you'll have a better chance to meet the right one, I think.

[Steelcore5280]

I used to be. Then I eventually developed into someone who became more pessimistic and uninterested in dating and relationships, as I've come to the conclusion they are not worth the effort and they're a massive waste of my time.

[exitseven]

I think I am mostly a romantic but I am a realist as well. Life is a big crap shoot and the world is a big place. I got lucky but not everyone gets lucky.

[NYCQuestions1976]

Nah I'm just hopeless. 😂

[Asker]

Haha

[Andres77]

Used to be. Got me in a lot of trouble

[Asker]

Really, how?

[Andres77]

Being a romantic AND believing what I was told…I got hurt a lot

[Asker]

Oh I see

[Andres77]

Too starry eyed to see things for how they were, ignoring red flags.

[Asker]

Yeah I understand. You have to be a bit weary too!

[Andres77]

Yep better late than never

[Asker]

Yeah but for me it’s got to the point where I’m toooo weary

[Andres77]

Wary, cautious hesitant.
Weary is tired.
Hopefully you will find your balance soon

[Asker]

Sorry mr English teacher

[Andres77]

Hey, I’m on your side I don’t want anyone else to make fun of you and I want you to be successful in everything you do.
😊

[Asker]

Haha awww that’s nice thanks

[Andres77]

Where did you find your profile pic?
Do you know what kind of gun that is?

[Andres77]

m.youtube.com/watch

[Andres77]

S&W Model 29, 8” barrel.

[Asker]

I don’t remember and I have no idea! Haha. Just thought it was badass

[Andres77]

you thought correctly, young lady :-)

[Asker]

Haha yayyy

[4ngelic]

yea im pretty romantic

[Tstrbrainer]

What do you think?

And... which movie?

[Asker]

Just go with it!

[Tstrbrainer]

Is that the name of the movie?

[Asker]

Yeah it’s got a cute ending to it

[Tstrbrainer]

Thanks

[Tstrbrainer]

What's your favorite romantic movie m

[Asker]

My favourite romantic movie of alllll time is The Notebook because both characters are AMAZING actors. Their chemistry is unmatched! Otherwise I’m not really a fan of romance.

You?

[Tstrbrainer]

Well it is a nice movie.

For me, it's the Prestige.

[Asker]

Have you seen it?

And ohh I haven’t seen that

[Tstrbrainer]

Notebook? Yeah I've seen it

[AsaKyo]

Yeah, pretty much

[Still-alive]

I can be pretty romantic yeah lol.

[Anonymous]

No. As a guy I cannot afford to.

[Spade_01]

Nah.

[eagle1951]

hopeless yes

[Asker]

Haha

[Akam93]

Kinda of for me.

[TallAnon]

I am very rational