Polls: Relationships

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I have met my girlfriend's parents for a few times, such on Parents Weekend, Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc. I always feel her mother is a French lady who is very attractive, gorgeous, elegant, pretty, sweet, etc. To be honest, she is one of the most beautiful lady I have ever seen. Also, she does not look like a lady who is in 40s, instead look like a 30-year-old wife.

Some references:
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/flirting/q1751849-is-she-doing-too-aggressively
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/relationships/q1769500-i-met-her-parents-today-do-you-think-i-am-doing-good-with-her-family

Recently, I feel I might be even somewhat "attracted" to her mother, especially I had a dream days ago. In the dream, my girlfriend was in France for summer break, her father was in a business travel, and her siblings were in a summer camp, so then her mother invited me to watch a movie (not a romantic one, it was a horror, and she was quite scared and I was always trying to make her feel less scared), had a lunch, then asked me to stay at her home so that I did not have to drive very late.

That dream is just an example. I always want to see her mother as well as her, such as having a nice dinner together.

Is this normal or weird? Is that common or rare?

And what do you think about it? Can you explain your reason? Thank you!

Why do I have such mentalities? What should I do for that? Do I have to change?

Would you rather have a BG/GF who's broke and faithful to you or rich and cheating? What do you people think about it? Discuss with respect and please no trolling. I would go for the first one which is Broke and faithful because money doesn't give a happines and also who gives a crap if you still have a roof under your head and enough money for everything?

An upstate college basketball player and a young male, who plays on the hockey team, were slaughtered by the young woman’s lover when he found them in bed together at their off-campus home near SUNY Geneseo, authorities said on Monday.

Dead Girlfriend:




Killer Boyfriend:



Dead Chad

Kingtson, 24, let himself in through the back door and found Kesley Annese,21 and Matthew Hutchinson, 24, in an upstairs bedroom at their rented home. He then left and bought a “large knife” at a nearby store and returned home, some time between 5:30 a. m. and 6:21 a. m. Sunday, Geneseo Police spokesman Jeffrey Szczesniak said Monday.

He murdered them “quickly,” cops said. There were no signs of a struggle and the victims may have been sleeping, he said.






THE "VICTIMS"

So a girl I've know for a few years came back into my life in the summer, we hung out things happened and we were on the verge of being in a relationship... then the shit hit fan, thing were said & done (more so on her part) and some ill feelings were shared. She did a lot of things that upset me but she did something completely unexceptable when a friend of mine passed away and she showed no sympathy...

I don't feel like sharing the whole story (I already have numerous times) but I erased her number and deleted her from social media because I felt insulted and that she wasn't going to apologize for any of the things she has done... but I really wish she would have so I could let this go & stop being so angry about everything that happened.

Let say your girlfriend looked like this when you met her in her early 20's.




Fast forward 5-6 years and she now looks like this:


She didn't do any drugs, or party hard for those 5-6 years. She just aged really badly but still the same person you fell in love with. Would you break up with her?

I have been dating a lady for 7 months. We are very happy together and are compatible in many ways. Because of the hurts from past relationships, she holds herself back emotionally, but her actions show that she has strong feelings for me. I, too, have been hurt by past betrayals but I refuse to let that affect me going forward, so I don't hold myself back.

I have fallen in love with this lovely lady but I have never said that to her. If I say it to her, I don't think that she will say the same thing back to me. I don't want her to feel pressured to say it but I do want her to be reassured that my feelings for her are deep and I do not see any future for myself that does not include her.

Should I tell her that I love her, should I continue to tell her that I have very strong feelings for her, or should I "shut up" about my feelings?

Let say you manage to win over and score a girl like this:


You find out later. Whether via someone telling you or through "accident" from looking at her phone that she use to let guys pee and poop on her face and chest. Would you be able to get over that knowning that?