Do you think the excuse women give that nice guys never get any girl is because they never ask her out valid?

[Anonymous]

Personally i think that for woman today and people in general sex/relationship are fast paced and people are jumping in bed (sometimes) without protection within days or weeks of meeting. So when a nice guy comes along and decides to take time to get to know a girl for maybe month or 2 before asking her out many women have already solidify him as non-sexual in their mind.

Hence, as men you kind of have to escalate things very sexual at the start or women will drop you into the non-sexual category for the rest of their life.

What do you guys think? Is the phrase nice guy never get the girl because they never ask her out true in most cases?

Yes

No

[ak666]

To me this is the beginning of the problem and it's usually the first thing I suggest to nice guys is to stop fixating on girls, "crushing" on them, and being such an ass-kisser.

I usually don't expect an epic turnaround though. There will be some other adjustments they need to make usually to stop being so meek, maybe improve their physique and fashion, develop more social skills (to be well-liked by both genders), etc.

However, it's a good start if they were doing that crushing kind of thing to at least make it so that they don't practically fall in love with a girl they never dated before asking her out. It'll make the rejections easy to bounce off and allow them to kind of start getting some idea of what they need to improve without losing hope in women completely because they got rejected by just one girl they were nice to for ages.

[Kiran04]

No, nice guys don't get girls because girls don't want nice guys. They just say they do until they meet a nice guy, then they shack up with an alpha male.

[BuchitaBuchys]

It can be that. Or they just don't have anything else to offer. Would you date a girl, long term, just because she had big tits but you otherwise found her bland and boring?
Bad example as guys would do anything to date busty chicks lol

But you get my point. If that's all they're offering, it's not enough. If a girl only offered a pretty face, she'd get boring pretty fast.

[Anonymous]

I still apply this to my life. Going after good guys or at least from them to come to me out of shyness or w. e I'm still doomed. No luck. Nice guys will view me as someone whose out of their league bs. :(

[MrAssHat]

excuses are like assholes we all have one and its normally shitty

[Barrabus_the_Free]

No. Utter bulldrek.

[Anonymous]

Nah, a lot of girls just find them boring.