This is what I think women want:
Women want to bask in the presence of a man who is comfortable in his own skin. Women want a man who will be himself, and doesn’t give a damn what anyone else thinks about who he is. He doesn’t change his values in an attempt to match yours so that you will like him. He proudly beams his values from within, and if you don’t agree, he doesn’t start changing it up so you’ll be happy. He sticks to his values whether you like it or not. Because his values are more important to him than anything. That’s how he lives his life. And you want to be a part of a man’s life who has values that and is confident in his own skin and his own mind.
He doesn’t run around, awkwardly trying to find a reason to talk to a girl. He just walks his ass up to her with a smile, says hi how are you? Or tells you he thinks you’re cute or whatever it is he really feels. He says that shit. He doesn’t create a plan, he doesn’t craft the perfect sentence to win your heart. He looks you in your eyes, tells you he likes
You, and if you don’t like him back it’s whatever. He loves himself and knows he is valuable, and has no trouble approaching a girl. He doesn’t need manipulative player tactics. All he needs is to tell the truth, be honest, and be direct and tell you what he wants. Not beat around the bush and play games hoping to win your heart with his cleverly crafted plan.
That doesn’t mean you’re going to date the guy just because he approached you and was confident. Maybe you two don’t match. Maybe you’re not into him. But you already know by how he acts, that when you say no, he won’t have a problem. He will get the point. You don’t have to come up with nice excuses to not hurt his feelings. He reads your body language and knows instantly how you feel.
Or naw? Am I totally wrong?
Women want to bask in the presence of a man who is comfortable in his own skin. Women want a man who will be himself, and doesn’t give a damn what anyone else thinks about who he is. He doesn’t change his values in an attempt to match yours so that you will like him. He proudly beams his values from within, and if you don’t agree, he doesn’t start changing it up so you’ll be happy. He sticks to his values whether you like it or not. Because his values are more important to him than anything. That’s how he lives his life. And you want to be a part of a man’s life who has values that and is confident in his own skin and his own mind.
He doesn’t run around, awkwardly trying to find a reason to talk to a girl. He just walks his ass up to her with a smile, says hi how are you? Or tells you he thinks you’re cute or whatever it is he really feels. He says that shit. He doesn’t create a plan, he doesn’t craft the perfect sentence to win your heart. He looks you in your eyes, tells you he likes
You, and if you don’t like him back it’s whatever. He loves himself and knows he is valuable, and has no trouble approaching a girl. He doesn’t need manipulative player tactics. All he needs is to tell the truth, be honest, and be direct and tell you what he wants. Not beat around the bush and play games hoping to win your heart with his cleverly crafted plan.
That doesn’t mean you’re going to date the guy just because he approached you and was confident. Maybe you two don’t match. Maybe you’re not into him. But you already know by how he acts, that when you say no, he won’t have a problem. He will get the point. You don’t have to come up with nice excuses to not hurt his feelings. He reads your body language and knows instantly how you feel.
Or naw? Am I totally wrong?
