How can I meet people who won’t use me for relationship advice or for money?

[Anonymous]

So pretty much everyone I met always tried using me for dating advice but are never there when I need them… this includes both guys and girl friends. I had one friend stop talking to me because I told him I wouldn’t be given anyone dating advice anymore since I felt people just take me for granted. I tend to be right 98% of the time when ever I give people advice and I’m a good listener. A bit about myself I’m somewhat quite , very kind , I like to travel play video games watch anime … I enjoy playing spots and trying new things but no drugs or drinking. When I think about most of my recent relationships or friendship they have almost always ben one sided.

[Emily_925]

I mean I think part of friends is advice/ talking about your problems. I don't think they would think they are using you because they're probably just thinking they're talking about what's going on in their life rn which is their relationship. Maybe just don't take it too seriously if what you feel used for is talking, as long as they don't take your stuff or money I don't think it's too big a deak

[Asker]

The issues was that’s all that would come to me for was advice but when I need advice or a friend they were no where to be find.

[Asker]

Like can we hang out play video games or go bowing etc

[Asker]

I’m not a theapist

[Emily_925]

Maybe don't talk about that you don't wanna give advice but just say like, hmmm I don't know about that. Hey do u wanna play this game/or something

[Asker]

Illl try that then