What do you do when you have no luck finding a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Go back to school and focus on studies

Volunteer and make new friends

Focus on work to save more money

Renovate my house

Travel and go on trips

Pick up new hobbies

Party more

[Reorx]

I'd like to meet someone & have a family someday. I currently have obligations that I wouldn't impose on her that prevents me. I work on myself, my social circle & enjoy being part of the church I started going to last year in the meantime. I also like investing in my home, remodeling & planting things that attract humming birds. I have many time consuming hobbies that keep me occupied. I've only been in one serious relationship in my life, things didn't work out & I've had an aversion for them ever since. I think about it at times but the times not right.

[MrNameless]

Figure out what I can do to improve myself. Should I improve my online dating profile and add more recent pics? Maybe talk more to the women I match and go on dates.

And just be more social outside of online dating and just connect with others.

[Pinay_ako]

Live my life the best way I know how - have fun without overthinking of finding someone to complete me! Coz I am enough to make me happy but if that special someone comes along, they’d be a perk, a bonus. But not a requirement to happiness! Just because you’re alone and single doesn’t mean you’re lonely. Some people are married or with a partner but they feel more alone! Just enjoy your life.

[Rosexøxø]

Well I could vote on this but I’m also willing to not limit myself either, or die religiously, sewn at the hip, to any one of these lmao.

I’d pick hobbies, though.

Because I feel like any of the other options could easily fit as a hobby “thing.”

[Rosexøxø]

Voted pick up new hobbies

[OlderAndWiser]

I got married in 1987 and divorced in 2004. Since then, I have used online dating sites and never had a problem finding potential partners for dating. Online dating makes life much easier!

[MrNameless]

But you do have a lot of dating experience before online, which helps a lot. And you're likely dating people who who grew up dating the old-fashioned way (with the values) before online likely more into calling over texting, etc. A lot of people grew up in the online era who are pretty much relying on technology and have awkward social experiences.

I envy you in a way. Online dating has made people more picky and always want the next best thing. At least with the younger generation. And they are way more socially awkward and less assertive

[Peter_Penetrator]

Since I could only vote for one, you must do all. Learn from rejection and continue trying. Don’t allow failure to dictate your mental health, not just with a potential live interest, but life in general. If all that feels like a chore, forget the stigma, find a psychiatrist. Get on some meds. I did, and now I am a recovering Red Pill.

[Fireguy17]

travel, have fun, do things when I want, no Saturday weddings for her friends or her cousins, I cam come and go when I please and with who I please, possible add to my cylinder count, or spend the money that I was spending on her for more car parts.
I was always just fine being single.
I could get laid when I felt like it, I have a great friend base, and can function just fine on my own.

[lightbulb27]

do all of those, but spend time working on yourself so you are your best and available AT ALL TIMES. because opportunity is in front of your nose 10x a day. out of those 1000 opportunities this year, is a potential relationship.

[RavVid]

If you are looking for a relationship developing new hobbies and volunteering is a way to do it. But pick ones that will appeal to men also. You'd probably find a creative writing course to have one man in it and he is gay.

[Simslover92]

If I had the money, I would spend my time traveling and meeting new people along the way. You never know who you'll end up meeting while traveling. It could just be the love of your life.

[asphaltrhymes]

I've told myself merrily that if I'm still single into my 30th or 31st years, I'm quite content sticking to remaining single and enjoying my future decades intoold age, as merrily single. 😃

[asphaltrhymes]

*into old* typo.

[MittParekh15]

Find what makes me happy like going out, watch sports, speak with people similar to me who don't have luck in finding relationship and also at times watching porn.

[UnknownSwede]

Spend time with friends and don't care much about the romance department. Just move it out of the equation.

[MysticDevice]

Hobbies and some travel. A little of everything I suppose.

[es20490446e]

Just going to events where the kind of people I like gather.

[YourExLover69]

Currently I have no luck so all options are good for me

[shortster]

Follow colonel O'Neill's advice and try, try, try, try, try again.

https://youtu.be/4ERMmnWzSL8

[MysticDevice]

Indeed.

[msc545]

Sulk, or travel and sulk, or travel and meet new people to fuck.

[najekim]

Stop looking. Most the time you accidently stumble across your future partner.

[TrillXHippy]

I never really had luck finding a relationship. There’s not much I really can do

[CB-Raido-Time]

I did what I did over 30 years ago I stopped looking for one.

[tstarr17]

I just went with my own perspective, trips. But those other ones aren't bad either.

[FunkyMonkee]

Beat off a lot.

[MikeTheBartender]

All of the above.

[Danny_dan92]

Be happy being alive n well

[AdithyaR]

Gave up and focused on my studies

[Extraterrestrial1999]

More time to make more money, and get rich.

[shades777]

dont sweat the small stuff

[Jakartheg]

I always have my sister

[Slim57]

All of the above, just take a break

[NATesque]

Buy clothes

[Anonymous]

Lower your standards