What's stupid is that I've had experiences that say otherwise. I had a fling with a Brazilian tomboy who was dominant. One of my followers here is a submissive man who's happily married, and another follower of mine is a girl who's dominant. She asked for advice on her habit of kicking boys in the nuts. I gave her advice, and she followed me. And one of my online BFFs has a younger sister (She is a year older than me) who is always dominant in relationships and enjoys it. She even calls me "Puppy" as an affectionate gesture and called me handsome, despite being 5'6!
I know I sound really irrational, but sometimes it just seems like men will never have a good relationship if they want the woman to lead it. So many women want the man to lead--even the dominant ones. The ones who want to wear the pants in relationships seem so rare. It seems like if you don't at least want equal power in a relationship, you're doomed to either be single or get cheated on. So AM I being stupid, or am I right to feel so insecure?
Are submissive men really screwed in dating/relationships?