What do you do if your brain says no but your heart says yes?

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Could be anything from romance to religion

ohshee · Accepted Answer

No matter what we do in life whether it's Romance going to the store to buy ice cream walking the dog those two things are in constant battle always brain in the heart are never on the same page if you can ever get them on the same page that's one beautiful things happen sometimes when understanding this you can wait things out a little bit better and you have to always go to that no matter what things aren't going to go the way that everybody plans so when you get into new relationships whatever you have to be honest with yourself at the very beginning it's a look it's a 50-50 chance this will work this is 50-50 chance this might not work if it doesn't work I'm going to walk away with the smile his hands shake and says nice meeting you you take all the good experience that you can with you onward to your next relationship it's not the end of the world we do hate giving ourselves to somebody and it's not working out do we know far in advance when it's not going to work out we just never listen to ourselves so basically the same thing in the beginning we don't listen to ourselves but we're going to do it anyway doesn't work out we're mad and we are mad because we knew it a long time ago but we just keep wanting it to work out or we just wanting it to workout for the wrong reasons because we're lazy we don't want to go through that. Again LOL no I had no idea I guess I could be a smart-ass that's why guys have dicks because when the heart and the brain don't get along we can always have that third party come in that dick LOL

Lliam · Accepted Answer

They are both valuable. I follow my heart when it comes to being a good person and doing what is right. The intuition of the heart should not be ignored. But that can sometimes lead you astray because it's not based on logic. So I always use common sense as well. I assess things.

PeacefulRainDrop · Accepted Answer

Dont move until they both agree... if it has to do with an activity a certain day say I have to check my calendar and get back to you.. that buys you a day.. oh I forgot to look text and remind me please when you run into them again..

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

listen to your heart... my brain is always wrong anyway

JackSmy · Answer

For any relationship thing, I ask my female friends, my "little sister" and some others, and they tell me what they think. I still have to decide, but having their opinions has always helped me!
For Spiritual things, there is no question, and I know what to do, and how to find my way.

MoonStalker · Answer

Even knowing in my mind that my heart is wrong, my heart unfortunately tends to win...

PaynefulPleasures · Answer

The heart 💖 don't lie, but the mind will trick you ✌️

loves2learn · Answer

I tend to follow my heart. I am an emotional being.

Anonymous · Answer

this question never has a straight answer
cause brain is mathematical and logical and just calculates the probabilities which is good for some situations but not for the others
on the other hand, the heart is 100% emotional and does not understand a word about logic which again comes in handy in some places but not always
bottom line you should use each at its own place and sometimes you should ignore one for the better

exitseven · Answer

I would lie to say listen to your brain but lets face it, the heart or the little head is usually driving the boat.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I think I would go with what my Heart is telling me but to go by what my brain tells me could be a big mistake not sure?

MCheetah · Answer

You listen to your brain, because IT'S YOUR F*CKING BRAIN, and your heart is stupid and emotional.

Nik1hil · Answer

Listen to my brain...  Heart is fucking stupid...

Andres77 · Answer

Whichever option causes the most trouble for me... I usually pick that one.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

I tend to do it. I am at heart an impulsive Geordie Boy. Thinking about stuff can be overrated 😂😂

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I listen to my brain…. The upside is the last girlfriend removed what was left of my cardiac muscle so i need not worry any further about it having any input in my existence.

Shandul · Answer

I do what I want to do 😊😉 So how is weather in London these days?

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Follow your heart into a relationship; follow your head out of a relationship.

Handybody129 · Answer

Follow your heart. Generally that brings more fulfilment

krin_m · Answer

Follow your heart and get in trouble! That is what I do! :-)

jshm2 · Answer

Go with your brain - it can be educated. The heart is just emotions.

AndrewMG · Answer

Oh there both capable of making equally stupid decisions, I think I might just flip a coin in the future lol

serious · Answer

I am completely ruled by head and so I will always do what I think is right, what my brain says.

tatianamay · Answer

usually, I always get this feeling about everything, and I tend to follow my gut

JennBITx · Answer

I usually just stop all together. Conflicting with myself will make it not work at all

Lissasharp · Answer

I think it depends on the situation. Most of the time I try to be practical and listen to my brain, but sometimes my heart leads the way.

Kontrvnote · Answer

I mostly listen to my brain, but in some cases you need to listen to your heart. So it mostly depends on the situation/issue.

Anonymous · Answer

I have the strength to prevent my heart making mistakes because of my cultural upbringing and also frontline military experiences.

Biancatsumi1991 · Answer

I listen to my brain because my heart is stupid. Lol

Tunasub · Answer

Follow the brain.. following the heart will more than likely cause decisions down the road that will make you regret that decision.. think things out and if it's meant for you the heart will soon follow.

Mustermann · Answer

I don't know, but whatever you do there's a big risk of you getting disappointed.

BlacklightShade · Answer

Just follow your v-jay.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I always go with my brain. My heart has been known to betray me.

egykimo · Answer

It's a life process swaying between being dirty and pure and religious

InferiorElegy · Answer

I go with what my brain says, my heart's an idiot and has only ever gotten me pain.

JosyJosy · Answer

if it's romance I follow the brain

Anonymous · Answer

I have followed my brain even when it broke my heart:(

jason_1233 · Answer

Logic logic logic. Always

Anonymous · Answer

Brain has control over the heart. So obviously brain wins

nawtee_me · Answer

follow my heart, my mind is a fickled thing at times... lol

007kingifrit · Answer

maybe im biased but i don' think I've ever had that problem

InfobotLives · Answer

I don't have a heart so that's easy for me 😐

iseekpinetrees · Answer

Choose the better option with better outcome

snackthatsmilesback · Answer

It depends which one is louder.

loveslongnails · Answer

Listen to your brain.

chriscdi · Answer

You tell your heart to shut up and stay out of it

OddBeMe · Answer

Just get the morning after pill…

OnTheLevel · Answer

My brain usually wins

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Listen to my heart

Luopio27 · Answer

Depends on if it is legal or unethical.

SensuousPleasures · Answer

Go with your heart. Or you’ll be heart broken.

Joker_ · Answer

Ignore my brain always

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Freeze.

lycanthrope3 · Answer

Brain, heart will get you in trouble

Pepsiman23 · Answer

I like to go with brain

Erron_Black · Answer

i listen my brain

I_want_a_moustache · Answer

I think listening to your heart is the best option

princeofromance · Answer

I always lead with my heart.

najekim · Answer

Always listen to reason.

Hadesheim · Answer

I say no that's me, rational.

Anonymous · Answer

Penis breaks the tie.

Slim57 · Answer

I say no

Pterodon · Answer

Follow your heart

msc545 · Answer

Listen to your brain

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