How do I remain humble and modest?

[Anonymous]

I’m a Christian, earnestly seeking honest, sensible advice. I started off fat and unattractive, then recently, I lost heaps of weight and became beautiful. Which I hadn’t been for years. I feel down to earth so far and I think God gave me this experience to humble me, as I used to be vain and full of pride. How do I maintain my down to earth nature? Considering that I struggled with this in the past?

[strateguy632]

we can be humble several ways. first do not belittle your accomplishments in general and specifically your weight loss achievement. that is usually difficult, but you succeeded. being modest is "not announcing that you are better." so usually just being passive suffices.

about humble thoughts, if we think i am the best looking around, we can compare to others " lions run faster than humans we are not the best. "

we can think of how vast a coastline and the sea both are... so far in all directions huge... but we are so small.

if we can comprehend a bit of god, then compared to god i am almost nothing like infinitesimal. those all help humble thoughts.

[imran_]

I am a Muslim and I am glad that in this dirty world, good soul like you exist, who tries their best to follow the God's guidance.

To remain humble and modest, practice gratitude, serve others, reflect on your actions, surround yourself with positive influences, stay present, acknowledge your past struggles, connect with your Lord, avoid comparisons, and learn from mistakes. It's an ongoing journey of self-awareness and continuous effort.

[Bethany22]

Just remember that eventually you will be old and no longer attractive, while all the men your age will be at the peak of their sexual market value. Treat men the way you hope to be treated when you no longer have power, as they will all remember how you treated them in the past, and may take revenge against you by either ghosting you, taking too long to respond to your texts, and ignoring you while chasing after younger, beautiful women.

[jshm2]

Get into something worthwhile and don't just talk about your weight.

[Asker]

So like, my job at an op shop and taking up an activity like yoga might help? Also, I’m religious

[pickles77]

Don’t accept partiality when someone says that you look great and treats you better then someone who does not. Look for someone fair that sees value in all human life