Am I a narrow minded person if I prefer modesty?

Call it because of my culture or any other reason but my personal preference is modesty because I like more when people are dressed simply and personally they look more beautiful compared to Immodesty and I kind of have respect for the modest people.
So do I become a narrow minded person if this is my thinking?Am I a narrow minded person if I prefer modesty?

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  • No. It's normal

    I am the same as you.

    Have you heard of Bhagwaan Shiva's wedding story?
    Read it.

    Simplicity and imperfection is more "human"

    Accepting somebody's imperfections as a part of being " human " develops respect towards him or her
    Imperfections are attractive.
    And that's how it attracts us by creating more respect.

    Only a man can understand this. Women can't.

    Man you're confused. A little bit confused.

    Revealing or non revealing doesn't make any diffrence.
    How is she revealing her body?
    In what way is she revealing her body?

    If it is "perfect " and "fashionable ", it may look "hott" and "attractive (sexually) ", but it's not humanly. Humans are imperfect. We tend to accept those imperfections.

    When you can't see imperfections, it make it non-human-like. Therefore, the "perfect " "fashionable " and "sexy" outfits become unattractive to us even though they are aesthetically pleasing.

    And again , I don't want to look at random women's private body parts out in public, especially, with " perfect " "sexy" and "fashionable " notations attached with it.

    I hate those outfits and the women who wear that kind of clothes. They're sluts who want to attract people around them.

    I can't respect them.

    I hate them. I don't want a daughter , because it would be a matter of shame if she argues with me for such disgusting clothes. I don't want to marry any woman because of this reason.
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    Let death arrive soon. Until then I will enjoy my life.

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    • And by the way the way, women will never understand this because if they did, then they wouldn't apply that damn lipstick everywhere they go as though they're attending somebody's wedding ceremony.

      I prefer "imperfect " "simplistic" and "traditional " notations attached with the clothes.

      And this is applicable to both men and women.

      I also hate those oversmart westernised pricks who colour their hair pink and brown with "stylish " notation attached with it

  • Not at all.. I believe you should live to the limit your comfortable with. No judgment. Honestly sometimes modest, is very sexy.

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  • No, liking modest isn't narrow minded. Narrow minded is when you take a topic, cut all of the details about it you don't like out (ie. Praise the famous lifestyle but ignore the drug problems etc) and push others to think the same way or belittle the way they *do* think. *That's* narrow mindedness. Haha, where there isn't room for anything else to get through. Taking a big, complex issue, over-simplifying & pushes others to think the same.

    But yeah, thinking a certain things is because of evidence & reason you've gathered, liking something is because of what you've experienced or comes naturally. But it's always a good idea to think about why you think/feel that way, how others think/feel about it & if you stop to question it often you can improve your outlook & understand yourself better.

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    • And if tell someone to be modest then?

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    • I agree😊 really appreciate your opinion

    • You're very welcome :) I hope this helps perspective-wise moving forward

  • No. And anybody who thinks that is judgmental themselves. People should be more modest, but people also have choices. I love that dress.

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    • I like it took modesty looks really class and beautiful to me

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  • I really prefer simplicity because it does look more classy and elegant. So I agree with your statement!

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    • it's very hard to find ladies like you these days 😊

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    • Let them but i like yours😊

    • Thank you! 😊

  • Not at all! It’s rare these days! Most guys want to see goods pre date! And want other men to be jealous of their arm candy. Modesty is a lost beauty.

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  • That your preference.

    It becomes narrow minded when you think your way is the only way.

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    • Got it😊 that's what I wanted to know

  • Be who you are.. dont give a fuck what anyone thinks about it! Never change! Only opinion at the end of the day that matters is yours

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  • Being narrow minded would be to hate and trash on the things you don't like, in your case immodesty. If you like modesty, more power to you.

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  • No I dont think so I think the look is more clean. Personally my taste is less old looking like that dress. There ways to be modest without looking like old lady

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  • You are not narrow minded, you are a product of your culture / background. There is nothing wrong with modesty, personally I do not like to see everything on display, a little mystery is a nice change.

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  • I’d only call you narrow minded when you start judging others for not agreeing with you. But other than that I don’t really care about your preference.

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  • Close minded? No. It's just a preference. It doesn't necessarily mean that you are against immodesty.

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  • Its not narrow minded to prefer anything. So long as you dont treat those who dont fit your preference like garbage.

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  • Nope.

    The only thing which would make you narrow-minded was if you debunked others who don't agree with your preference.

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  • No , not at all.
    I wish there were more American woman with modesty. American culture has lost that sense of class and modesty.

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  • Your preference definitely doesn't make you narrow minded. But if you think those who aren't modest are somehow lower than you, then yes you would be quite narrow minded.

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  • No, you just have a preference. Calling people narrow minded is the most lazy argument ever.

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  • Yes, you are. But I can't judge you because I am even more narrow minded than you are. I prefer modesty, loyalty, faithfulness, real love, self respect, and dignity.

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  • Not at all. Actually i agree with you. But i wouldn't judge others if they dont have the same opinion.

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  • Everything is in ur head. Do what u think is good for u.

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  • How much do you put down those who don't adhere to your standard?

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  • No, but your probably an uncomfortable person in the heat.

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  • I like a Audrey Hepburn a million times more then a Kardashian, so I get you.

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  • I do not think so, I feel the same way actually.

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  • No you aren't

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  • No I think that just makes you an Amish.

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  • I like modesty as well.

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  • Modest women are the best

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  • Nope. It's your preference

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  • I've always been attracted to modest girls.

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  • no, that's just your way of thinking

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  • It makes you a better person

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  • Only if you impose it on others.

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  • Of course not

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  • Girls only dress revealingly for men’s attention. Girls who feel ugly. Otherwise, there’s no reason to.

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    • Hoes get toed

    • You're maybe right 😮

  • You’re only narrow minded if you judge others harshly. If you can accept people warmly even though they have different views then it shouldn’t be a problem. Those that are good with people aren’t generally seen as narrow minded.

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    • Or judgmental

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