How can I get out of this situation?

[Anonymous]

I was born and raised in a Muslim, oppressive family. And it was like that in the environment I lived in, a society and a religion that always humiliated women and glorified men who oppressed women. I'm so tired of living among such people, I want to be free now, I don't know how to get out of this situation.
Even now we are in the month of Ramadan, fasting is observed in this month. And they treat those who do not fast badly, there is never freedom.

[robhazelnut]

What I write here is not for solace, it is for a solution. I make no promises. To utterly focus your mind on making three of your goals manifest in reality, the meditative process called Chit Shakti for Success might just work. Know the process is repeatable. Bhuta shuddhi and the other 3 chit shaktis (for peace, health and love) are great supports.

For chit Shakti, it's best to find a place where you will be undisturbed for between 20 and 30 minutes, and if you can, to wash with lukewarm or cool water right beforehand. I recommend earphones if you want to not have the guide aidio be heard by others. May you be blissful from within, and good fortune to you! 🙂

[robhazelnut]

Chit Shakti isha.sadhguru.org/.../chit-shakthi-meditation

Tips to Cleanse the 5 Elements- Essential Bhuta Shuddhi isha.sadhguru.org/.../tips-to-cleanse-five-elements

[sean1234]

Christianity is opposite from Islam in the respect that you are free to Obey God or Not, to do as you want and not go to heaven or follow God's word which is the Holy Bible and make it to heaven and Jesus is God and God's word as it says in the book of John chapter 1. You can read the online Kjv Bible from random websites or from Google play.

To get out of your situation, you have to know the truth and the Word of God and Jesus Christ is the truth.

I also recommend watching videos by a man called Walter Veith, the Islamic connection is one I'm sure you will find interesting.

https://youtu.be/7JjSVpLSfB8?si=2vqxYpUkZI3Cs4d_

[sean1234]

Tell me what you think!

[Idkgirl1]

I think it’s about your surroundings. I’m 18 and live in Turkey as well with Muslim parents but I don’t follow the religion. My parents know and respect my decision. Left the religion bc it generally looks down on women that is another topic. But I’ve never been treated poorly bc I’m a woman. Still want to leave the country bc of the economy but I am able to bc I am an American citizen. But still good luck with life and stay safe.

[Asker]

Unfortunately, if I leave the religion, my family will not respect it. Thank you, I wish good luck to you too, may you always be happy.🩷

[desidoll]

My best friend is a Muslim. She is the same way. Which country are you from? If you are in the middle east it would be tough not to follow because I know you can get punished for it. I think you have to wait until you are independent enough to get your own place or the best is, leave the country.

[Asker]

i live in turkey,

And turkey can seem secular, but no

It is ruled by a Muslim government, the economy is terrible, women are killed every day, and do you know what men say: whore, this happened because she dresses short, there is no freedom, I would like to be able to wear a dress like your profile picture, I can but then I may be harassed and killed. .

[desidoll]

I hope one day you will be able to get out of this situation. Please take care of yourself and be safe. It must be frustrating living without freedom. What do you do now? Like are you working or studying? Maybe you can set a long-term plan of what to do if you have the opportunity.

[Asker]

I am studying, I want enter uni, but in here education system sucks too, like u can study too much and maybe u still can't enter uni..

[Anonymous]

Well, its going to be hard, but you need to stand up for your rights. If your in a situation where doing that might lead to serious harm or death for you, then you will have to just look to find a way to be independent so that you can gather enough resources to move somewhere you have more autonomy and freedom (or find a partner that loves you genuinely in order to grant you that and protect you from others who might seek to take those rights).

We all are somewhat bound to our place of birth in terms of the sociatal norms surrounding us. Though, to be a better place, we need to make changes where we are through resisting what is wrong. Good luck.

[boggboss]

Try and find a way to leave the country although I don't know how plausible that is

[Dargil]

You will have to wait through Ramadan. Then, if you are in the Middle East, head for Israel as soon as you can.

[Asker]

I am just 18 years old, now I can't go but I really want to leave my country, I am so tired

[Dargil]

You will have to wait it out. And avoid an arranged marriage.

[Dargil]

And DO NOT renounce your faith. Not Allah's fault.

[Asker]

My family knows that I never want to get married, I don't want to marry someone from this country, I don't want to live in this country, living here is not life, it's a kind of decay.

[Asker]

Here is the problem in the belief part. People interpreted the belief as they wanted and they started to do things that a god would never do as if god had ordered them and they started to force people, that's the problem, We are not free, I want to be free, I am not against religion, but this strange understanding of Islam tires me.

[Asker]

I have always fasted, the problem is not fasting, the problem is judging the person who does not fast and treating him badly, or treating the person who is not a Muslim badly, or treating you like a prostitute when you wear a dress, you are never free, that is the problem..

[Asker]

No matter what you do people always judge you, as a girl I can never wear the clothes I want, not because of my family but because of the strange Muslim society here, they always judge you, everything is about judgment and gossip, I don't think they understand the religion correctly, they are very pushy and aggressive, there is no respect.

[IslaTheWitch]

whatever you do, be very careful... especially when writing on the internet...

[Asker]

Why should I be careful about writing on the internet, isn't it anonymous?

[Asker]

And I did not said something bad?

[IslaTheWitch]

nothing on the internet is anonymous, you leave traces everywhere. On the DNS servers, gates, g@g servers... everywhere...

[Asker]

I didn't know this, actually I don't know many things yet, so even if I delete my account, will they think I'm an enemy of Islam or will something bad happen because of my question?

[IslaTheWitch]

I'm not talking about no names... just imagine your family realizes you are talking here about getting out... Be sure your passwords are not easy to guess for people who know you; be sure to always log out. Just take good care of yourself.

[Asker]

Yes, you are right, I pay attention, but even if they see it, they can't understand English.

[IslaTheWitch]

Google translator

[Billlewis]

Move to America, where women have greater power than anywhere else in the world.

[Asker]

Are you kidding or serious?

[Billlewis]

Oh, I'm very serious. Of course, you'd probably have to live on your own, because they may have issues with your newfound independence, and that's nothing to take lightly. You're welcome to message me if you'd like to discuss this.

[Dargil]

She's female and 18. Not gonna happen at least now. She needs plan her escape and wait it out.

[Agape93]

What country you live in?

[Asker]

Turkey

[Agape93]

I suggest fleeing to Germany

[Asker]

I am 18 years old now, I will probably have to study at the university here, but I am good with languages, I know a few languages and I am trying to improve myself, I hope I can leave here one day, thank you.🩷

[strateguy632]

in u. s. find and go to family services.

[Phoenix98]

Do you live in the middle east?

[Asker]

i live in turkiye

[slatyb]

Where do you live?

[OtterMan68]

are you an adult?

[Asker]

i am just 18, i live with my family

[OtterMan68]

wait until you're able to move out to make any changes