If you get mini dilemmas are they training wheels from God?

My boyfriend has seemed to be less available these last couple days or weeks, maybe just days. My friend did not really respond when I invited them to hang out. I don't know where I stand now with her. I am not terrified of not having contact with people since I'm an adult but I don't like the idea of wasting time to network just so I can replace lost connections, it cuts from my time investment in other things.

If you get mini dilemmas are they training wheels from God?
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