I didn’t really believe in this before and after reading about it, I am convinced I have recently met my twin flame.
it has felt like a very intense chemistry,, which came out of no where.
The problem is we are both married to other people , so not going there, but it’s just a bit crazy how these things can suddenly happen.
Anyone experienced that?
I think i know what a twin flame is.
I was once surfing onlyfans and some dude had the exact same face and body as mine.
I never met him because i couldn't afford the subscription. ﾠ
😂lol
You I think I have. But here is the crazy part I think I have meant 3 or 4 of them. There is no way to explain the feeling inside
I'm am her she is me when could finish her Sentences she could Finish mine. If we were texting each other At the same time You click send she would click send and The message we just sent each other was basically about the same thing.
Just a little bit different wording
The feeling that you would have would be like. You were a light bulb, a 1000 W light bulb and somebody click the switch on and Every part.
Of you is just peeking just BAM AND ITS SO BRITE NOT SHUTTING OFF ITS The most beautiful feeling I gave ever felt. It's like we where twins with everything we were doing.. there's neen. Sometime i would be thinking about hervforca week or so. And i would get a phone call this is with 3 different girls. How can you have 3 but I don't know whatca twin flame should feel like so even though I think all 3 are my twin flame I don't know.
I also believe we are all tied together anyway some how some way and we were all meant to become one with the universe if that's the case maybe somehow we are all soul mates
I didn’t really believe in twin flames but I think I met mine. We were both in the end of a failing relationship at the time but the chemistry was off the charts. We felt like we’ve known each other for a long time, we realized our childhood pretty much overlapped, he was basically me in male form so I saw a lot of my flaws in him and it helped me better myself.
(Not proud of this part) but we ended up sleeping together and the sex was out of this world. We finally ended our respective relationship and we’ve been together ever since. The journey is super tough though… we both had to go through a lot of healing from our past traumas and what not but we’re cruising now.
As a polyamorous nonbinary transwomxn, you need to educate yourself and decolonize your mind. The concept of "twin flames" is close-minded and reinforces monogamy to oppress polyamorous folx
When you say decolonize your mind, what do you mean? Yes I believe there is only one twin flame is that right? The problem is I feel very drawn to this person, so much so I feel out of love with my husband.
@genderqween
Thats a backwards way of thinking.
Polyamoury is a terrible idea.
Mutilating your genitals is a terrible idea.
Stereotyping personalities based on gender is objectively dumb.
There is no such thing as "nonbinary" regarding gender.
People should only marry one of their twin flames (aka somone who agrees with them on everything and has the same hobbies, interests, goals, etc.)
Monogamy isn't oppressive, its protective. whereas polygsmy is just destructive.
Intelligent doesn't mean closed-minded.
@TheSpaceGnome why you care about others life choices?
@TheSpaceGnome polyamoury is bad but having a active sex life is good? What is a piece of paper like marriage contract is worth? What difference does it really make? You can't own a person. Intelligent means both closed open and everything in between.
@Eempriyanka taxes for one, and the functionality and stability of the society we live in
@Eempriyanka Tell 'em qween 💅
Chill daddy
@Eempriyanka Marriage isn't about ownership. If you view commitment to a person as obtaining property, you're an idiot.
Monogamy prevents emotional stress, STDs, and single parenthood. Polyamoury causes all those things.
@TheSpaceGnome you can still have clean sex without stds. And commitment to only one person for all life has proven to be weak..
Can you honestly say you don't find other people attractive and want to bed them?
@Eempriyanka Nothing you say makes any coherent sense.
Your worldview is warped.
Objectively speaking, from a numbers point of view monogamy prevents STD infection.
Objectively speaking, condoms do not prevent STDs, nor does any medication.
Objectively speaking, the more people you fuck, the higher your chances of infection.
Objectively speaking, trust takes time to earn, and some people lie.
Objectively speaking, sex makes babies, condoms and birth control will eventually fail, abortion in healthy pregnancies is bad, and children do better when raised by a mom and a dad who stay together and don't cheat on eachother.
Objectively speaking, your behavior is dangerous, and that leaves you vulnerable, so polyamoury is weak.
Objectively speaking, people who love eachother exclusively have STRONGER bonds thsn those who don't, so calling that weak is just dumb.
If I want variety, I'll just have my girlfriend/wife wear a new cosplay outfit.
I don't want to bed strangers, I'm still a virgin and will only bed after marriage because I don't want STDs or child support payments.
I also can't stand being around people at all who don't share my interests, hobbies, views, etc.(finding a woman who shares those is like tracking down an endangered species in this country), so why the hell would a want to fuck any of them if I can't even tolerate talking to them?
If my concern is just reaching orgasm, I've got news for you:
My hand and some porn does the job perfectly.
@TheSpaceGnome omg such a sad life. Porn and hand? How miserable..
Dressing on salad is still salad
@TheSpaceGnome as a human with senses who has evolved and without primitivity, one should learn to appreciate beauty and wish to have best things for themselves.. that's how you differ from animals or apes.. I'm not endorsing prostitutions.. but clean sex with consenting healthy people!
@TheSpaceGnome love and lust are two very real things.. you can't deny that or you're fooling yourself
@Eempriyanka
1. Porn is an art form. Art is not sad. Polyamourus porn involving real people is sad. Also I'm a graphic artist, I've made pornagraphic illustrations before. I've never felt sad, miserable, or otherwise displeased about it. You sound like someone who can't function without sex, I have a life so I don't have that problem. My biggest reason for wanting a wife is someone to play difficult video games with, and make art and stories with, and discuss science with, and binge anime with, etc. Sex is just a bonus.
2. I'm well aware love and lust are 2 different things. Whats your point? Polyamoury is devoid of love and Monogamy is enforced by love. Release through porn is just bodily maintenance, overthinking that is pointless.
3. Humans are hominids, which are a clade of great apes. Most great apes are polyamourous, and it spreads STDs.
4. Consent does not equate to safe practices, you can consent and still get infected.
Polyamourous people are typically STD cesspools, these are not clean healthy people, and they do not love themselves, their sexual partners, or their offspring.
The only person fooling themselves here is you and those who think like you.
Also what kind of weirdo hates salads? Spicy chicken salads are great.
Because STDs can go unoticed for a while, and because tests can fail to detect them when dormant, and because people don't always know they have an STD, and becausee condoms only cover the penis, the only way to ensure never getting an STD is through either carefully planned monogamy, or masturbation.
Any attempt to be safe with polyamoury would be futile for very practical reasons.
Also you mentioned being trans. Post op your orgasms will no longer happen, as the surgery destroys the nerves down there.
On the chance you are pre op, I just thought you should know that before cutting up your junk for no reason like an insane person.
@TheSpaceGnome im against lgbtq and trans rights..
Porn is people other than yourself engaging in acts.. your still a loner
Maybe you should try real world and communicating with someone who's interested in your.. or you unattractive so you compensate with your dumb existence
@Eempriyanka last post is obviously directed at the OP of the comment, ie @genderqween, not you retard, I never tagged you in that.
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I dated someone for a year and a half and every now and then I get a strange feeling and I can tell she posted a picture I took off her or of places we've been. I have since married someone else and we've both said things to each other that answered questions we were thinking but not said. We just know what each other is thinking all the time.
Yes 💯 feel it’s the same way, it’s a very spiritual thing like you are connected emotionally, intellectually on the same level. Sometimes I feel like you don’t even need to say anything you just know what the other is thinking. I’ve never had anything like that in my life, so it’s very enlightening if also scary.
That's exactly what it's like. We were long distance for a while but it never felt like we were long distance. We've never argued and we like all the same things even though our lives couldn't be more opposite.
Yeah ok, that’s sweet. Do you think it’s a rare thing or fairly common?
Rare. I got lucky
Ok thanks
I do believe in this and have had quite a few odd spiritual experiences.
Let's just say you can feel crazy things, energetic openings, with complete strangers.
The concept of twin flames is a little different though. That implies they're sort of cast, from your soul. I did meet someone I felt that way towards. She was so beautiful I could just not stop looking at her. But things can be illusory. I also have my own traumas, so I refuse to unduly chase anybody out of self respect. Meet me half way is all I merely ask.
Attracted just means Attracted so i don't believe that.
I know what you mean, but I guess it feels more than just attraction, it’s just connecting on an emotional. Spiritual as well as physical level. Like you don’t need to even say things, you just feel like the other person knows.
Yeah I believe it. They’re like soul mates. But I believe you get more than one. Maybe like two or three in a lifetime.
No i don't believe in being flames. Yes I met her. She's not my wife and she's gone ghost
So you don’t believe it in but you met someone? How do you mean gone?
No, I don't believe in this and neither have I met anyone like this.
Don't think it's uncommon as people have generally lived similar lives so have similar takes on life so perhaps have common behaviours and outlooks on life. Being able to interpret and predict another's behaviour is thus probable.
This looked sweet until you mentioned the married part. Ask your husband if he believes in twin flames?
(this is gross)
But I’m not looking to cheat, just highlighting sometimes you can meet people when you least expect too.
No, I didn't think you were going to cheat. I would have had way more to say If I thought you were. This is still gross. Imagine for a second that your husband felt this way about some woman he met? Does that seem ok to you? I can't think of anything that would be more hurtful to any husband short of having an affair. I don't understand how you don't seem to get why I think this is so messed up.
But I do get it, I totally get it. If anything I feel it’s awful and what kind of person am I to suddenly have feelings for someone else. I wouldn’t looking for it and yes I’d be devastated if my husband felt like this for another. Part of me things though there are other issues in our marriage and this has highlighted that, it’s not right, but it has brought a lot of things to light. If anything I feel sad that I even could feel like this for another. It’s like an internal conflict, I can’t describe.
Thank god you feel it's awful because it is.
I agree that you should take a look at your marriage. This isn't so much a sign of issues (though there may be issues)
To me this says, you shouldn't be married to your husband if you can feel this way about someone else.
I would want my wife to leave me if she thought some other man she met was a twin flame.
I assume you are never going to see this person again?
I 💯 agree with you. I also think that maybe a divorce is on the cards, as you say it’s not right. It’s so difficult because I work with this person, not the same team, but we see each other daily on the same floor. I’ve been trying to avoid him, but as you can imagine it’s tricky sometimes when you have the same meetings etc.
I think a divorce is indeed in the cards. I am actually quite happy to hear you say so. I think its the right thing to do. You won't be able to avoid him. Continuing on in this marriage, would be unfair with you seeing this guy at work (no matter your efforts to avoid him). It's not right that someone you feel that way about exists at all while you've got a husband, working with him makes it even more wrong to stay married.
I can say, you are not the person I thought you were originally. You do seem to be someone who is interested in doing the right thing. You seem like a moral person. You seem like a good person.
The fact that you aren't trying to justify this in any way, speaks highly to your character.
I hope you do what you need to do. It's the only fair and right thing to do.
It's what I would want you to do if I were in your husband's shoes.
Thank you for your advice, I appreciate it. Yes I agree, it’s the right thing to do.
I have to say, you've impressed me. I did not think this is how I would end up feeling, but I do. Good luck.
Nope.
In your case just sounds like excuse for a cheat behavior
But I’m not looking to cheat.
I thought I had, but alas it was probably just prolonged indigestion from the church luncheons ….
I believe it and have experienced it.
Was it a once off? What happened?
Ah I see, nice. So do you think it’s a rare thing for people to experience?
I've met a bunch but they were all taken or in other countries.
I believe they exist but I never met mine, because all of my loves were unrequited.
It's just a made up romantic concept
I guess it could be, same like soulmates could be, but I guess it’s based on feelings that people experience.
No clue what that is.
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