Do you think that in God's kingdom, a victory might look like a loss in the beginning, and a loss might look like a victory at the early stages?

[jennifer_bloom]

Like getting rejected by a guy in 2018 seemed like a sad situation, but in 2020 - 2022 or onwards, that rejection led to me meeting a new guy that I was over 1000 times more compatible with then the previous guy. The previous guy was not a bad person, but he had pain and unhealed emotional trauma which meant he was not ready to show mental and emotional affection towards a female who was interested in him.

The guy I am with now is 8 years older than me, much more mature than the last guy because he is older with more life experience, and he is 100% healthy in all ways, and 100% positive towards me, does not make me sad or unhappy even for a day or a second. And is average looking while the last guy was very good looking.

[ohsheeT]

I think in God kingdom it is what it is it's all victory after wego back home learn what we came here to learn if we didn't learn it here there are many schools how we treat people here if bad we have to re live it and the pain. You caused someone you relive it but this time you feel the pain you cause them that's how we learn but no mater what it's all a victory because we are the ones that get to experience all of the above there is a reason for everything and every thing equals love that's why we or here and have to come back to try again until we get it right