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You are a beautiful girl and you know this, not because you're conceited, but because you are reminded by others often, perhaps even approached by a lot of guys. If this happens to you a lot than answer the following.

Do you get sick of guys asking you out in public because so many scumbags, perverts , creeps, or aggressive men have made it to where you already built to say no, hurting every guys chances of getting your number. In other words, are chances low for a guy to succeed on some level because too many bad experiences made the idea of approaching girls, not ideal anymore and results in not even wanting to be asked out, in general? Or is it still okay to try? Would you rather be asked I'm person in public, or in your social media inbox? Neither?

If you do not mind being approached, obviously in an appropriate way what is the best way to do it?

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I created this approach to test on the field:

"the low risk low reward"

Which is basically the following steps 1. Approaching someone out of their league 2. confessing attraction 3. Immediately admitting he knows his chances are slim to none 4. Explaining his goal: which is not exactly to acquire your phone number or Ig but to learn and cushion the rejection, the attempt was experimental, to gain experience, tips for future attempts with other women.
The guy who approaches believes if he could survive, gain experience, and be able say friends he legitimately asked the hottest girl out, the attempt would be a success just from the Knowledge and experience alone
5. Wait for response (saying all that shit before she can say no.) this approach was formally called " the Shoot yourself in the foot "

before answering, would this nullify the confidence level that women are drawn to? or would you respect his attempt in trying to approach women in kind fashion and wish him luck, is it weird to bein friend, non romantic

How do I ask a girl out who is really attractive and be able to continue?

This girl that I've been talking to has been somewhat distancing herself from me for a little while. After I seemed to repair situation a few days ago, she flat out rejected me today. She's been busy the passed couple of times I asked her out, but it was all last minute type invites; and she had totally valid reasons to be busy (so it was an "I am legitimately busy" busy. She rejected me a 3rd time today, and so (because I assumed I had smoothed things over), I asked her if she had had any availabilities in the coming weeks; and she started blocking me on social medias.

Just so y'all have the timeline straight, here it is:
1. We go on a first date, date appears to go extremely well. She tells me she had a great time, gives me a tight hug and tells me I'm welcome back any time. She says flat out that she doesn't care about texting and digital communication and prefers to have her relationships in person.
2. I make a flirty comment on an IG post, and deletes the comment. She and her roommate start hiding their public stories from me.
3. During the rest of the month, she's moving, as she said she would during the date. Turns down two dates, but as I said; both were spur of the moment, one before Memorial day.
4. Couple more weeks pass, and I finally reach out to her, saying that I've noticed she's been distancing herself, and asked for an explanation. She tells me that she knew I had romantic interest, but was concerned that I just wanted to sleep with her and didn't want to give me the wrong vibe.
5. I ask her out today, a few days later. She opens my message quickly, asks me what I had in mind. I tell her that I'll look for something and she says "don't bother, I'm busy all this week." When I ask her about her availability next week, she defriends me off Snap, blocks me off FB.

I sent her roommate a message to apologize if I offended him or made him uncomfortable in any way. I didn't ask about the girl or anything, was that inappropriate?

An example of a brutal assuault and careless disregard for life. I have to believe her hip was broken and she's going to die from that... hips are hard to fix. Getting up would have been difficult.

https://nypost.com/2020/06/15/man-knocks-down-elderly-woman-in-random-nyc-attack/?fbclid=IwAR2u_JkHkDeGL5Upb9ht2yTQlBAkwXSSU9zBjNetkLqR0xElh87CS5eYk3c
disclaimer: I've seen such acts black on black as well (a mob of black kids assault a black girl). I'm not saying all black people are bad, but I question the level of fear in society coming out of what we've all seen on TV, with mobs assaulting other people, primarily because they are white.

https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/gyhzer/blm_protestors_attack_police_car_and_punch/

What is appropriate punishment? The problem being, if police try to catch him... and he runs and they hold him down... guess what's going to show up on TV? So they probably don't engage and he gets away with it.

Be prepared to defend yourselves and watch out for your loved ones... people are not in their right minds. People need to heal emotionally or this just gets worse.