Hi guys, so in this Take there will not be much relevance to other myTakes that are popular but I just wanna share to you why I'm not ashamed to be a highly emotional guy.
Firstly, I'm a socially awkward shy dude and I'm currently single by choice since I'm still trying to get my stuff together. Secondly, I only have a few friends of whom I trust and I don't really get along with jocks or famous people at my university since I'm an introvert who only wants to hangout at quiet places, but I do love adventures and I'm dying to try new things after this damn pandemic. Although this might not be relevant to what I'm saying, I am an INFP-T so overall, I'm a shy guy who often daydreams about random things and is indecisive. Being this way ain't easy and I know that I have flaws which is why I work on them to grow as a bigger person. Anyway back to the topic, I'm also sensitive to harsh criticisms to the point that my day gets ruined if someone talks shit about me and that is an exact example of what I'm trying to work upon myself.
So without further ado... here are the reasons why I'm proud to be a sensitive guy.
1.) I enjoy my freedom of showing feelings.
Men are told not to show emotions because they'll be seen as weak, effeminate, simp or a beta. That's exactly what toxic masculinity wants to do to our mind which is to think that men always have to be strong and if not, they won't get any respect. Well to tell you, not all people have the same self-esteem for you to tell them to "MAN UP" or "GROW A PAIR". Honestly, when you tell that to a man who's in a bad shape, it's like making fun of a disabled person.
2.) I care about myself and others.
As a sensitive guy, I do care about other people's feelings and at the same time it helps me see who I'm compatible with. If they take advantage of that or if they disregard it, it's on them. I'll just stick to those who value my generosity. No, I'm not being entitled as I don't expect anything in return, this just simply means that I won't settle for any person who takes me for granted despite being empathetic. I grew up on a culture that values their family and that is what I'm thankful for.
3.) It helps me gain emotional strength.
Whenever I'm sad, I meditate or find someone to talk to right away in order to release my emotions. I never hesitate to seek for help because I know that in the future, I will need to be stronger. Being wounded by struggles or heartbreaks isn't your fault but it's your responsibility to take action for it as it gives you the power to face whatever obstacles in life you're going to face. Self care for me is important since the mental state of mind determines how we function on what we do.
4.) I love being intimate.
I admit that I'm attracted to girls who are A BIT clingy or more open to their feelings and isn't reluctant to show that they care. For me, I would want a relationship with a girl because of her kindness and the values we share, I don't really use appearance, intelligence nor status as a factor to date a girl, although I admit ever since my previous breakup 2 years ago, I became a bit more shy to ask someone out so I'm taking my time yet.
5.) I have no problem helping others.
If I'm with people who are highly sensitive like me, I never put a fake image, I don't really like being the alpha male who's always wants to be powerful and strong no. I always show that I'm the affectionate person I am with his own weaknesses, and that person who will always listen whenever they are undergoing something. I put myself in other people's shoes as for me, I hate seeing people suffer. This isn't to say that I like to feel needed just for my ego, no. I'm still thoughtful of other people even though I know that I'm not the only guy who's helpful, in fact I would admire others for being helpful. I hate comparing myself to others since not all people are the same.
So these are simply the reasons why I'm proud to be a sensitive guy. If any of you guys are ashamed of being one, don't be. Love yourself and never change just because of a person. I hope you loved this myTake even though it's a bit short.
Thanks!
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