Why I'm Proud To Be Male

[ADFSDF1996]

I've seen a bunch of takes written by girls, saying why they are proud to be women. Well I decided to write a take on why I'm proud to be a man. I'm a straight man by the way.

Aesthetics, while women can't appreciate male aesthetics because they prefer female aesthetics, there is no doubt men have amazing aesthetics. Biologically our bones are stronger and we have more muscle mass than women, I'm not putting down women. I'm just stating the facts. There are way more artworks of the male physique in museum and at landmarks than there are artworks of the female physique. When I say male aesthetics, I refer to both the male body and face. A lot of people agree that men use to be considered the more aesthetically attractive gender, however there are rumors that men are starting to be appreciated more once again. I don't think one gender is more aesthetically appealing than the other, I think they can both be.

Prowess and creativity, men have always been know for being warriors and being creative. Men have discovered and invented many things. Men have accomplished many feats in combat. The founder of Jujutsu was a Samurai named Minamoto No Yoshimitsu who developed jujutsu by dissecting human bodies and studying anatomy. Although grotesque this is the origin of one of the popular martial arts in the world. Of course there are many more inventions but this one is not known by many people.

Pain tolerance, a lot people claim that women can deal with more physical pain than men. Well there are some studies that dispute this.https://abcnews.go.com/Technology/story?id=97662 Pain tolerance and pain threshold are different things. Women might be able to handle emotional pain though. So I think men can deal with more physical pain tolerance.

Leadership and charisma, it's usually men that take in in the roles of being leaders. True women do to but mostly men take this role to be able to lead a group of people and or a company. No this guy below is not a Nazi, he was a Wehrmacht field marshal known as Erwin Rommel. He was forced to commit suicide after he was accused of attempting to assassinate Hitler. Rommel is respected by many people because he was not guilty of war crimes and was very kind.

Visual, yes I think it's a good thing. Us straight guys have the blessing/fortune of being able to appreciate the female body both aesthetically and sexually. For me I have to find a female aesthetically appealing to be able to find her sexually attractive. We visually find the female body sexually attractive while I'm not sure if women can visually find the male body sexually attractive. Women seem to only be sexually attracted to men because they like what men can do with their bodies and for some reason confidence turns them on as well, unfortunately they don't seem to be visual when finding men sexually attractive because they prefer female aesthetics, women seem to be more emotional when finding men attractive. It's very sad, at least that's the impression I get.

I wrote this take to acknowledge all of the good qualities about men. It seems that all the misandrists and white knights try to shame men for being proud of their gender. It's a shame how those "SJWs" question men's sexuality(not saying there is anything wrong with people of other sexualities) for embracing our masculinity.

[YourFutureEx]

We ARE aesthetically more beautiful
Society and make-up made us to believe that they are more beautiful
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[LittleSally]

I'll never understand anyone saying they're proud of something they had no influence over. o. O

[ADFSDF1996]

Women always write takes saying why they are proud to be women, why not the other way around?

[LittleSally]

I know. It's nuts.

[ADFSDF1996]

Yes it is.

[Anonymous]

No gender is more or less aesthetically beautiful than the other since we all have different sexualities and are attracted to who we are attracted to. If you're claim was right that women find women more pleasing, I don't think there would be a lot of straight women in this world. Have confidence, dude. Guys are very physically attractive to women. Thats a huge fucking part as to why we (straight women) are with them in the first place... because we are attracted to them emotionally AND physically. 😶

[ADFSDF1996]

Well a lot of women have claimed women are more aesthetically appealing than men, look at some of my questions.

[kaylaS91]

Men were always more featured in things like artwork because of patriarchy. Women were not even seen as citizens capable of voting, much less something to be memorialized in artwork. That had nothing to do with aesthetics because I can guarantee you that the majority of men back then DID see women as a good place to store their cum and carry on their lineage through.

In any case, nice to have some variety from the usual female-take on things. :)

[ADFSDF1996]

There are artworks depicting nude women but they aren't as common as the male artworks. You know why it's currently the other way around, it's because of the misandrists aka feminists that value women more than men. The matriarchy is a elephant in the room, nobody dares talk about it.

[kaylaS91]

lol you mean you don't have the right to vote? You're not allowed to have an income of your own?

[ADFSDF1996]

Not those things but men face mistreatment from women. Women don't seem to value men's rights. Look at how a group of women treated this guy. www.avoiceformen.com/.../

[kaylaS91]

okay, true. Men face some injustice as well- both genders too. I don't see how competing to see who has it objectively 'worse' is going to actually solve anything, though.

[ADFSDF1996]

Of course but women don't have it as bad nowadays. The point of this take is to show appreciation for men which is something that is rare. As I've mentioned in this take, a lot of women think women are more aesthetically appealing than men, therefore I question whether or not women actually find men sexually and physically attractive in visuals not just for what men can do but for how men look in general, like our bodies and faces.

[kaylaS91]

yeah, true, relatively speaking of course.
I think whichever sex one finds to be the most 'aesthetically pleasing' as in most prim and polished is completely separate from which one finds to be most sexually attractive. I mean.. it's engrained in women's minds from a very young age that we must always look our best. Make-up, skin-tight clothing, and shaving body hair is a social norm for a reason. Many look at women as nothing more than a decorative piece.

Which in no way means that a man won't get them incredibly turned or that they won't want to sleep with a man at the end of the day.

[ADFSDF1996]

I have to find a woman aesthetically appealing to be sexually attracted to her. If women don't find men aesthetically appealing then women probably only find men sexually attractive for what men can do and their personalities unfortunately. I've never heard of a woman get turned on by the sight of a man.

[kaylaS91]

... haven't I told you more than once in this conversation alone that I find men to be aesthetically appealing, though?

[ADFSDF1996]

Yes you did, I'm just frustrated right now.

[TheDevilInside]

Exactly. It was a very different age back then. Not to mention most inventions were achieved by men because girls weren't even allowed to go to school. What are women supposed to invent then? A New way to Cook soup? A New mix of detergent that can get that period blood out in under 1 minute?

[ADFSDF1996]

@TheDevilInside So are you saying if women weren't oppressed, they would have been considered superior and more aesthetically appealing than men?

[TheDevilInside]

Maybe. Thing is, women were never given a Chance to shine back then. And we're not just talking about looks so quit fixating on that.

[ADFSDF1996]

@TheDevilInside Are you saying that you think women superior and more aesthetically appealing than men?

[sdistotallyme]

the only part of your initial opinion I agree with is the last sentence.

Women had legitimate issues to fight against back in the day (i. e. right the vote). Now they are on par or even surpassed men. Women have higher graduation rates, have longer lifespans, receive lighter crime sentences for the same crimes, win custody battles, benefit from affirmative action, etc.

I do agree that we shouldn't have a pity party contest. I don't participate in MGTOW because I believe masculinity is defined by being tough and independent. However many women are STILL complaining about so called modern "patriarchy". I just want feminists to STFU. You've won! Stop bashing men. We had nothing to do with what happened in the past.

[TheDevilInside]

Don't put words in my mouth just to seek confirmation to what you believe is true.

[ADFSDF1996]

@TheDevilInside I don't know what is true anymore regarding women.

[TheDevilInside]

Propst for admitting that. Not too easy I imagine

[SinisterS]

There was also matriarchy... Rough times influenced by power and strength its normal that stronger set rules for weaker and its not only women that are weaker but ofc women cry and point out one ignoring everything else. Add to it that women have allwasy pulled string form behind curtain so thous men offten did what their women wanted but no that is not enough they must be both puppetire and ruler will still crying how things are unjust to them... Its actually really boring change song...

[kaylaS91]

@SinisterS redpill or a movement filled with millions of men who hate women and believe they'll achieve something beneficial by writing essays about how evil and manipulative women are exists, yet to you, women are the ones who are guilty of 'crying and go on about how things are unjust to them?'
lol. Typical redpiller

[ADFSDF1996]

I don't have anything against women but I do abhor misandry.

[SinisterS]

Same thing i can say tipical feministic crap twist thing any way you can so it fit their agenda. Even thous things they do are same like when chaplin steps on rake and it hits him to the head. Everywhere around them things are getting worse but they ignore it and use some small argument. Well no need to be right time will explain all to thous that ignore facts...
and sorry but am not in matrix no pills here.
Its tipical for women more they get more they complain dont know why things are like that but if you actually look at guys lots of guys dont like women most of them dont even stand or know about any movements nor do they care they just know how women are... Some dont hate them but just ignore them but its fact that women complain more more they get... You would argue about this but if someone record your life for few years you would you would get shocked that you also most likely do same... Nothing personal but am irritated by nonsense.

[TheDevilInside]

Well I for one enjoy the sight of a man's muscle contracting. Especially if he's not even doing it consciously. Like in a jam packed bus or subway, how a guy's bicep and forearm muscles contact and move as he holds on to the thingies... And when a guy is exercising, I like watching his back muscles move. It's like a dance. A guy's back, if nicely shaped, is very sexy and underrated. I can compare it to a girl's collar bone, I guess... So point is: yes, the male body can be quite aesthetically pleasing. As well as sexual. We just don't get sexually aroused only by looking, because our brains do not work that way. We might, how ever, imagine the things we'd do to that body.

[ADFSDF1996]

Exactly what I thought, you just like what a man can do with his body. Unless I'm missing something here. I noticed didn't mention anything about a guy's face either.

[TheDevilInside]

No, i said I enjoy THE SIGHT of a guy's body (if well-muscled, but no Arnold either)

[ADFSDF1996]

Interesting but would you still like the way his body looks if he just lays in bed, or if he just stands in one spot?

[TheDevilInside]

Yeah sure. I'd never say no to Shemar Moore or Jared Padalecki's glistening bodies in a towel.

[ADFSDF1996]

Which gender do you consider more aesthetically appealing?

[ADFSDF1996]

Do like those men's faces as well or only their bodies? Also do you think you like them only because they are famous?

[TheDevilInside]

Both male and female bodies and faces have their own appeals. I like Shemar Moore's face, but not Jared's. Kiddo, those 2 names are just examples. I cannot make an example of some random guy you wouldn't be able to Google. Don't write a take if you cannot understand your commenters.

[ADFSDF1996]

You do know that a lot of "straight" women claim women are more aesthetically appealing than men right?

[TheDevilInside]

Aaaand we're back to a guy's limits to understanding women. Don't even try to understand US using your guy logic. Just don't. You will never understand and I am sick of the end less circle.

[ADFSDF1996]

Do you think you understand men?

[TheDevilInside]

No. And I don't pretend to

[ubervikxing]

This is all well known already, the reason people are focusing on women now is because they have been hidden from history due to the "patriarchy". Everyone know men (mostly white/asian) invented the modern world and I'm sure they will invent many things too come (hopefully blacks will be better represented).

Mostly though, women and men need too accept the fact that they are different. You cannot turn a lemon into an orange, oranges are not social constructs, and neither is the genders (some exceptions do exist though as research has proven). And with inherent differences comes inherent responsibility. In my opinon modern men need to learn how to 'be real' and women might need to relearn that 'just following' is not always as bad as it seems and that in a gender equal society doing so will not give them any disadvantages in life compared to men.

[AriadneSky]

men are not bigger and stronger. it depends on what person you're dealing with. measuring bone size is no longer done by gender but size itself bc it is understood women can have very large bones and men can have very small b ones. same with bmi. it is not based on one size and height. not gender.

you also mentioned all kinds of things you love about men that you had nothing to do with nor were they things done bc the people doing them were make. no way to prove that. if you lock a person in the kitchen closet and bake a cake it doesn't mean you are the only one able to bake or that you make superior cakes. there is missing data so false positive.

of corse sexual heterosexual women are attracted to men physically. thats the drive to have babies. do you realize how many ons are being had by women of their own volition, as we speak?

male statues abound bc they were done at a time women could not bare their naked bodies publicly, or -often-privately.

[ADFSDF1996]

I said stronger bones, not bigger. It's a all biological. Of course the size of the bones is based on the individual not gender. I know i had nothing to with those things but I am showing respect for them. You act as if I'm the only person doing a tale like this. There are many women that write takes for women in a similar way. I'm just writing this take to empower men and combat misandry. I'm just sick of people trying to prove one gender is superior to another.

[ADFSDF1996]

If heterosexual women are attracted to men, then why do they say women are more aesthetically appealing?

[BuchitaBuchys]

Yet another take that doesn't understand SJWs.
I agree and like it, up until you claim that we question your sexuality. If anything, we're the ones saying that men can call other men attractive and not be gay (not that there's anything wrong with that).
Also, we don't hate men. You can feel free to enjoy being a man. It's when there's this "women are inferior" attitude arises that we discourage, as I'd discourage it the other way around too.

[ADFSDF1996]

I have said before that neither gender is superior.

[BuchitaBuchys]

That's not my issue with this take

[ADFSDF1996]

What is the issue?

[BuchitaBuchys]

Claiming SJWs try to shame men.

[ADFSDF1996]

They always do it. They value women more than men.

[BuchitaBuchys]

I never do

[ADFSDF1996]

Good but that's what SJWs are known for.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Stereotypes are many times exaggerated

[ADFSDF1996]

I don't know if it's a stereotype because a lot women agree that SJWs and feminists are man bashers. I prefer Egalitarianism instead.

[BuchitaBuchys]

I'm SJW and egalitarian

[ADFSDF1996]

I wouldn't trust SJWs if I were you, they are one of the main reasons why men and women are duking it out.

[BuchitaBuchys]

I trust them because I am one. And no, it's not them. It's intolerance. You're placing the blame on a group that wants to stop intolerance

[ADFSDF1996]

Every single SJW I've encountered is intolerant. It's filled with white knights and feminists who always shout "girl power!"

[BuchitaBuchys]

Im neither of that.

[ADFSDF1996]

You must be the exception.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Nope

[ADFSDF1996]

Still I don't trust SJWs, I prefer egalitarians.

[BuchitaBuchys]

We're one and the same

[ADFSDF1996]

SJWs neglect certain groups of people. They claim to be for equal rights but value women more than men. They claim to be anti racist but only support certain racists. I'm anti racist myself and I believe every race should r treated equal.

[BuchitaBuchys]

I do nothing of that. I

[ADFSDF1996]

*be treated equal.

[ADFSDF1996]

I'm not saying you do.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Im an SJW

[ADFSDF1996]

Wh don't you just call yourself egalitarian instead?

[BuchitaBuchys]

I do. THey are both to me.

[ADFSDF1996]

Interesting, well you're one of the few good ones.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Thanks, but not always lol

[SinisterS]

Truth is that women are inferior at some things and superior at other dont know why is this problem. Ofc there are exceptions... But system is build like that that male are something bad something evil from the past... And women are good they are angels they are devine... Its world where if you treat women as equal and expect her to open her door pull her chair... but at same time you have to do all that cos your not gentlemen your asshole you are example why man are bad but if you do this you treat women like she is lesser weaker gentler and you should help her with some things or be gentle and polite be a gentlemen and if you od this eventually you treat women as inferior and this is example why man are bad... If you do magic and split red sea and manage somehow to do both treat her as equal and privileged she is double time privileged and your stepping all over and still she can say look this is perfect example why man are bad... Am not even going to start on law.

[BuchitaBuchys]

@SinisterS I don't know nor care about what you're saying tbh

[wassup_homie]

Thought this was gonna be a post to empower men, but reading some comments and looks like its just another ugly gender war going on. i have literally given up on the human race, men and woman are EQUALly terrible. can't wait for us to all die out:D The world would be so much more beautiful without us

[ADFSDF1996]

There is nothing wrong with empowering men, a lot of women like to empower women.

[wassup_homie]

I said i thought it was gonna be a post about men empowerment, which is good... but then i read all the hate comments from men,

[ADFSDF1996]

I read hate comments from both sides, that's the way it tends to be be whenever a gender relations post is made😔.

[FallOutBoy2001]

SJW never criticize men for admitting other men are attractive (those are assholes and I want to punch them)

I think we've told you 200+ times, males are aesthetically pleasing, and even if we find the female body aesthetically more pleasing, doesn't mean we don't like the male body. It's possible to like two things you know...

[ADFSDF1996]

If women find the female body more aesthetically pleasing, why don't they date women?

[FallOutBoy2001]

Well I find both both aesthetically and sexually pleasing, but I'm not straight. Straight women do not find females aesthetically AND sexually pleasing. It's like you finding males aesthetically pleasing, you don't want to date them because there's no sexual attraction there

[ADFSDF1996]

I'm a straight man, I don't know which gender is more aesthetically appealing.

[FallOutBoy2001]

I think both are equally good to look at

[ADFSDF1996]

You're probably one of the exceptions. Modt women prefer looking at females.

[ADFSDF1996]

*most

[FallOutBoy2001]

but they don't want to sleep with them and don't think men are ugly

[ADFSDF1996]

Physical attraction is aesthetics.

[ADFSDF1996]

So women only find a man's confidence, charisma, and personality attractive? How does that affect his physical appearance?

[FallOutBoy2001]

We find all of that, plus looks, attractive. Can you not read?

[ADFSDF1996]

Then technically women find men more appealing, it's just that some people don't know how to word it properly.

[Library]

I'm proud to be male too. I'm so happy that i'm not a girl.

[joemm]

I am proud to be a man too. I like being strong and having penis that works. This is why I use one of those penis health cremes every day. It delivers essential vitamins and nutrients directly to my penis so it stays youthful, clean and healthy. You guys might want to check these cremes out.

[COCOCHANEL]

i love cute boys (*^^*)
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[ADFSDF1996]

So you like the feminine looking guys?

[COCOCHANEL]

i don't see any feminine looking guys in these pics

[ADFSDF1996]

Their facial features look feminine, now this guy is masculine man.bf-1.com/.../493d38ef6de0c.jpg

[COCOCHANEL]

i don't see anything feminine about yamazaki's features, in fact i find him very manly looking

[ADFSDF1996]

I think it might be the hair that makes him feminine looking.

[shipoopi]

standards of looks are different in her country

[shipoopi]

and also she has an unhealthy obsession with the most insignificant celebs, so i would not take what she says too seriously @asker

[Prettyapathetic]

he is so attractive and sexy

[ADFSDF1996]

"To each their own." I'm a straight man so that's why I don't find him attractive.

[ADFSDF1996]

I'm not saying there is anything wrong with you liking him though.

[VSVixen]

Mmmmmmmm

[19magic]

What is the bull with aesthetically appealing, I'm attracted to guys and love watching different guys. Looked at models and such and at the same time find them so very sexy.

[astrOnaut01]

Nice take. It's a nice change from being told you are a dumbass who only thinks about sex.

[ADFSDF1996]

Thank you.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

It's always funny to me that when I see these takes, I'm always reminded that the person making it had to look up pictures of dudes and statues of naked dudes. I get why, obviously, but if someone walked in on you or looked at your history, I'm sure there will be questions 😂

[ADFSDF1996]

I do this from my iPhone.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

I hope no one goes through your phone history 😭

[ADFSDF1996]

My iPhone has a lock and I always delete my iphone history.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

Good man 👍

[ADFSDF1996]

Indeed

[Unit1]

True!
Especially how we are tolerant to physical pain but aren't emotionally durable. It has something to do with our raising to be tough at all times and emotionless right in the beginning of our childhoods. How unfortunate.

[AriadneSky]

emotionless and emotionally weak are not at all the same.

[Unit1]

@AriadneSky I know. To my awareness I constructed my phrase correctly.

[somebodysaycheese]

The Greeks and the Romans idolize the male form because they where having sex with eachother. Your really into deep with this and asking all these questions. Guys get layed all the time and never ask the questions you do. Maybe you need to self reflect.

[ADFSDF1996]

I saw a couple of those artworks depicting that but I also saw some artworks depicting nude women. It's the other way around now.

[somebodysaycheese]

no bro. they had more male statues because that was considered beautiful. The Greeks and Romans where gay empires. They thought women where deformed version of men whos only purpose was to have babies. What happened it a lot of men stopped screwing eachother with the world spread of judaism and christianity. And men started finding a market for sexualizing men and using male sexulaity as profit.

[ADFSDF1996]

Exactly, men use to be considered better looking.

[somebodysaycheese]

Because the empires where gay and oppressed women. lol

[ADFSDF1996]

If they were all gay, then how'd they reproduce? Besides nowadays it's the other way around, a lot of women are secretly lesbians (no offense) and show misandry.

[somebodysaycheese]

Having sex with a woman to create an heir doesn't make you straight. The milliion of gay men who marry have children then come out prove that. Women aren't sevretly lesbians. One women are heavily influenced by the lgbt community and have been stimulated with the notion that women are the epitomy of sex. Psychology says we are the product of our enviroment but we can change that. Women are essentially brainwashed to think the womans body is sexually appealing because the media (ran by men) markets to men and their sexuality. Its a mans world baby. You want more men to be sexulaized it would have to be a womans world

[ADFSDF1996]

It is a woman's world, men are always assumed to be rapists and the abusers in a relationship. Men's lives aren't valued as much as women's are www.avoiceformen.com/.../ Nothing can change biology in which women find other women more aesthetically appealing than men except for some sci fi Nazi super science.

[ADFSDF1996]

I'm sure you have noticed women always claim that women are more aesthetically appealing than men.

[Scrambledagain]

😂 "guys get laid all the time"

Correction: minority of the guys get laid all the time. The majority are content with the few they "get lucky with" and a minority don't get hardly anything. But to be honest, even some of those content men still explode. I'm still yet to find the answer to why the prostitution industry is worth billions!!

[somebodysaycheese]

@Scrambledagain guys get laid. Dont know about you but guys get laid

[Scrambledagain]

explain prostitution? Explain pick up books? Please... if guys are getting laid like you assume, then why the demand for paid sex? Why would a guy pay when he can just get laid? Yeah, I can't get laid, seems like some of the gagers and some guys that I know (well most men at my age have paid for it anyway if they havnt come right) can't get laid. Many men cannot get laid... I wish women would understand this. When women realise this little fact, male behaviour will become so much clearer.

[somebodysaycheese]

@Scrambledagain guys pay for sex for control. They can tell the prostittute what to do , she is paid for it. Their is no emotions on his or her end, he doesn't even need four play (many men dont like four play), Its him having all the power thats why men like prostitutes.

[Scrambledagain]

Has nothing to do with power in most cases. I highly suggest you read prostitute biographies. Very few cases regarding power. Yes there are some pros to prostitution, like it's quick and to the point (which says something about the difficulty of getting laid anyway). But then put that aside..., pick up books? What about that Ashley Madison hack? Almost all were men, hardly any women.

By your thinking, I should get laid on Friday. In fact, a woman finding sex is the most ridiculously easy thing to do on the planet. So if I want fuck 100 women (bucket list), by your thinking, this should be an incredibly easy task. A girl can do this in 50 days if she plays her logistics right (even shorten this if she is into group). But she can do it.

[Negrodamuss]

I don't understand this need to find pride in things one had no hand in achieving. I mean, I'm happy to be a guy, but proud to be one just sounds weird to me. Same thing goes for the whole racial pride stuff

[ADFSDF1996]

This is a response to the the women who made similar takes. You're right though, racial pride is irrational. Of course I'm not showing pride for what others achieved but I'm showing respect for them.

[Negrodamuss]

fair enough

[ADFSDF1996]

👍👍

[YourName123]

Amen brother. I'm male, I'm white, I have a set and I'm not carrying any guilt over any of this like the media thinks I should be.

I DONT NEED NO FREAKING SAFE SPACE!

[amarahorrorstory]

You take things very literally, don't you?
"while women can't appreciate male aesthetics because they prefer female aesthetics"
Yep, men are just so ugly I'd much rather look at a woman. I'm an artist so I've done my fair share of study the human body and I don't have that preference. Ever heard of a spectrum? You can lean towards something without having an aversion to what's on the other end.

[anonman32]

Why so defensive lol?

[amarahorrorstory]

@anonman32 Because, that's just a stupid thing to say. If it is true that people lean towards women's aesthetics that doesn't make it true for everyone or so literal. He says it like we all just hate what guys look like and can't appreciate it what so ever. It's just fucking absurd.

[anonman32]

I find that women in general dont really show their appreciation when it comes to men. But thats just my personal experience.

[amarahorrorstory]

@anonman32 Exactly, personal experience so it makes no sense to say that's how all women see men. It's just silly to say.

[anonman32]

Yeah thats true.

[ADFSDF1996]

It makes no sense find a man sexually attractive yet not appreciate his aesthetics as much as a woman's.

[ADFSDF1996]

*to find

[amarahorrorstory]

Because women don't have a problem with men's aesthetics. First of all, that's not true for all women. Two, if you find something attractive it doesn't mean you hate everything that is not that. It's common sense. I don't get why that's hard to understand. I truly don't. Your point just has so many holes in it. You see in black and white. Spectrums! You're missing out on the wonderful world of spectrums. Say most people prefer blue, but not everyone prefers blue. Some people prefer yellow. Some people prefer blue but still like yellow. Yellow= male aesthetics Blue=female aesthetics. That's as simple as I could put it. Not everyone is the same. You can like blue and not hate yellow. It isn't a one or the other situation. You can like whatever you want. You don't have to choose.

[ADFSDF1996]

So you're saying that women only find men "attractive" for their personality? They don't find men physically attractive/pleasing to the eye?

[amarahorrorstory]

Literally where did I say that? This is not rocket science. You know not every woman is the same? I put it as simply as humanly possible. Women can find any man attractive for any reason. Some women are attracted to appearance. Some are attracted to personality. Some both. Sometimes both but lean towards one. We aren't robots. We are human. Not everything we do is explained through science. It's really silly to say that women don't find men physically attractive, that really is absurd. And it's really silly to think that women don't pay attention to personality. Like I said it isn't either or. I don't know why you have this idea. I'm sorry to be rude but I'm just dumbfounded that anyone thinks this. I'm just shocked is all. Because I didn't think it was something that would even be confusing.

[ADFSDF1996]

You don't how much stress this caused me. Look at this take that I wrote.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a28003-how-trying-to-understand-women-s-feelings-about-men-made-me-angry

[amarahorrorstory]

You're listening to what you hear on the internet too much. Or you're only looking at one type of person.

[ADFSDF1996]

It's the saying "men are visual creatures" that started it all.

[amarahorrorstory]

They are, women are too. It just tends to be men.

[ADFSDF1996]

Yes I know men are visual but I also hope that women are visual as well.

[amarahorrorstory]

Yes, if you have eyes that work, you are pretty much guaranteed to be visual.

[ADFSDF1996]

By visual, I mean that women can feel attracted to a man based in his looks.

[ADFSDF1996]

*on his looks.

[amarahorrorstory]

everyone can find someone attractive based on looks. that's human nature. gender is irrelevant.

[Anonymous]

We are stronger physicaly and stronger metaly and emotionaly , also avarage men are smarter than women thats why most important invetions , experiments all done by men , also avarage men are more friendly than girls, i see more friendly guys than girls.
Its our corrupt society that makes women superior over us we are better in all statis and yet they claim women are better women care for food and clothes wether most of us has bright goals.